The communication between people, seemingly superficial distance, is actually in the heart.
When men and women get along, whether the relationship between each other can continue, in addition to the emotional entanglement of love and love, what kind of self they see in the time they spend with each other.
Being close to someone should make us better and better, nourishing, not consuming.
If a man has such characteristics, he often has a good face and a black face, indicating that his character is not good, so he must keep his eyes open in love, and he can't simply get close.
1.Control men.
An Jiahe in "Don't Talk to Strangers", before marrying Mei Xiangnan, was completely the image of a decent gentleman, modest and erudite, and was the dream lover of many girls, and no one could see that she would have a side full of anger in her bones.
His wife, Mei Xiangnan, probably didn't feel it before marriage, so she was relieved to get married boldly.
Unexpectedly, after getting married, I found that An He was too controlling, and I didn't want my wife to have too much intersection with other men, even if it was a normal relationship, I couldn't stand it.
To interfere, even threaten his wife with violence, and not to make him do anything that affects his emotions.
In the end, Mei Xiangnan was discouraged in the marriage center and decided to escape.
A man who is very controlling is selfish at heart, and with such a man, your feelings will rarely be cared for and respected, and sometimes even force you to treat you badly with your unbelievable attitude, which will become a nightmare in your life.
2.People who value money and reputation.
In the TV series "Her City", Ai Ying loves her husband and is very happy. In order to complete her husband's career, she graduated from a prestigious university and willingly accompanied her husband as a housewife, secretly giving her husband advice, but on the surface she was a vassal of her husband.
Ai Ying found out that her husband had a lover and thought that he was just a man's heart and cared about herself.
Unexpectedly, when the career crisis occurred, her husband Xie Changjiang's first thought was to let Ai Ying be a scapegoat, and even let Ai Ying have to accept it at any cost, and laid a big trap early.
Men who value fame and fortune are very affectionate on the surface, but once there is a conflict of interest, you can see that they still treat you with some sincerity.
When a person regards money as too important, he pays little attention to feelings, will put his own gains and losses in the first place in life, will not care about your feelings, and will not really care about you.
If you fall in love with a man who values money more than you, you will definitely be disappointed.
A person who has no sense of responsibility.
When my sister and her husband got married, they were opposed by the family.
The family means that my sister is going to get married, but my brother-in-law has never officially come to my sister's house to make a promise, vowing to be good to my sister for the rest of his life, and he doesn't even have any proof of behavior.
My sister didn't care and decided to get married, but it didn't take long for her brother-in-law to find out that her brother-in-law was really unreliable.
After the passion of love passed, the brother-in-law no longer put his heart on his sister, but revolved around his sister;It's about returning to the essence of play, ignoring family, not working hard, and love outside of marriage.
The production of love is the whim of hormone secretion, and the continuation of love depends on responsibility.
No one will rely on momentary feelings to invest persistent enthusiasm in the same person, only because they are in love with someone and are willing to be responsible for each other's relationship, willing to be responsible for each other's lives and future, will they have the strength to invest in a relationship far and continuously.
If you choose a man who has no sense of responsibility in his heart, it means that you choose to take the initiative to expose your life to the wind and rain of life and endure the pain of not being loved.
Falling in love with someone is a momentary thing, but choosing a partner takes a lifetime.
Marriage occupies three-quarters of my life, and all choices should be made for the realization of a good life, not for a man who turned my peaceful days into turmoil.