What kind of man will a far-sighted parent marry their daughter to, this matter cannot be seen only from the outside of marriage.
The essence of a person, to a large extent, depends on his family of origin.
What kind of family a child is born in, what kind of person he will become. Therefore, far-sighted parents will not let their daughters marry people from these three types of families.
In these three types of families, there are shortcomings that you can't tolerate.
01, Ma Bao Nan's family
Ma Bao Nan refers to the person who listens to his mother in everything, has no own opinions and ideas, and lacks a sense of responsibility and responsibility. To put it bluntly, it is a "mom treasure man".
He was raised by his parents since he was a child, and he has never experienced any ups and downs, and he has never even talked about love.
It is difficult for a man who grows up in such a family to have a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
A person who has no opinions and ideas, it is difficult for him to survive in this society, he doesn't even know what he wants, he just knows that it is enough to live.
Such a man will not have any sense of responsibility and responsibility in marriage, and will only blindly ask for it. When you can't meet his needs, he will yell at you and even punch and kick you.
This kind of mom bao man not only can't live independently, but also will bring the marriage to unhappiness.
Therefore, far-sighted parents will not let their daughters marry Ma Baonan's family.
02. Patriarchal families
Far-sighted parents will not marry their daughters into "patriarchal" families. They are well aware that such a family environment will have a great negative impact on women's growth and happiness.
They want their daughters to grow up in an environment of equality, respect and love, rather than being discriminated against and oppressed in a patriarchal family.
Therefore, they will carefully examine the family background and family values of the future son-in-law to ensure that they do not marry their daughter into a family that does not respect women and only values male family members.
They will choose families that respect women and treat family members equally, so that their daughters can be loved and respected in such an environment and live a happy life.
At the same time, far-sighted parents will also teach their daughters to be self-reliant and self-reliant, and not to rely on family background and marital relationships to change their destiny.
They will encourage their daughter to pursue her dreams, reach her potential, and become an independent, confident, and pursuing woman.
In this way, the daughter will be able to maintain her independent position in her future marriage and create a better future with her partner.
03. Violent family
If there is no good family style in a family, then his children will also be influenced by him.
If there is domestic violence in a family, then the family will also be full of violence. You will feel a lot of pain when you are with such a man, and your life will be ruined.
There is a kind of domestic violence, which is an invisible beating, which will not only make you physically and mentally hurt, but also make you feel inferior.
Once a person has low self-esteem, then he has also lost himself;Once a person loses himself, then he has no motivation in life.
And this kind of violence, not only physically, but also mentally, can make a person numb and apathetic.
To be with such a man is to be abandoned by life.
Therefore, far-sighted parents will not marry their daughters into a family full of violence.
A person's character, to a large extent, depends on his family of origin.
Therefore, far-sighted parents will not let their daughter marry a person whose original family is very deformed.
Especially the people in these three types of families, because they know that this is an unblessed marriage.
Of course, it's not that you can't marry the person you like at all, it's just that you must see the other party's family situation clearly. If the other person's parents have shortcomings that are difficult for you to accept, then don't think about it.
After all, marriage is not child's play, let alone a day or two days of partnering, but a long-term relationship, if you marry a person who grew up in a "deformed family", then your future life will most likely become very bitter.
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