Wen Xiamo. People live in this world, as if there is a pair of invisible hands, pushing us forward.
It seems that at what age a person has reached, he should do what he should do at that age.
When you reach the age of marriage, you will be urged to marry by your parents;After getting married, I urged to have children quickly, otherwise I would have passed the best childbearing age.
In real life, a sober woman knows that there is no such thing as the age to get married. When you meet the right person, you will open your heart. If you don't meet that person, it's good to be single.
For women who have been single for a long time, there will be these changes.
A woman who has been single for a long time no longer has warm expectations for love, but will become more sober and thorough.
She has higher requirements for choosing a mate, and she will not let herself enter marriage in a hurry just because her peers around her have become married.
My cousin's colleague has been single for a long time, and relatives around her often introduce her to blind dates. always persuaded her, don't ask too much, two people can live, it's almost okay.
But she has lived alone for a long time, but she is more and more reluctant to lower her own standards, unwilling to give up her original quality of life, to accommodate others.
Her requirements for her future partner are getting higher and higher.
No longer care about other people's eyes and discussions, walk freely and calmly.
A woman who has been single for a long time will have better standards for love and mate selection, and will not easily compromise for the world.
I would rather choose to have more than lack than spend myself in a low-quality marriage, preferring high-quality singleness.
If there is no one who meets the standards in her mind, she will not choose to settle.
A woman who has been single for a long time has become accustomed to having only herself in her life.
She was able to handle many trivial things in life independently and learned to rely on herself.
In the days of working alone, one person bears all the hardships and sufferings;On the way home late from overtime, looking at the lights of the city, I imagined that there would be one of my own in the future.
Outside of work, you can arrange it according to your mood. Or sleep until you wake up naturally, or participate in outdoor sports to awaken the vitality of your body.
When you're in a good mood, you can cook for yourself while listening to ** and satisfy your stomach with delicious food.
On a sunny day, drink tea, read a book, be in a daze, and empty yourself. Then go all out and work hard for a better future.
I've heard the saying, "Reconciling with oneself is a kind of practice and an art." Only when you truly accept yourself can you face the future better. ”On your own, you can also manage your life colorfully. Without a partner, your life is equally full and beautiful.
A woman who has been single for a long time will inevitably be urged to marry by her family, and her relatives will talk about her inability to marry.
Maybe at the beginning, I will still be a little anxious and under a lot of pressure, so I don't know how to resolve it.
And over time, women will become more and more calm, strong in their hearts, and no longer care about those strange voices and attitudes.
I'm good in another country", Ji Nanjia has a stable career and income, but because he is single, he has become a discount in the eyes of his mother.
Every time I went home, my mother had to urge me to get married.
urged her to give up her career and hurry up to complete her life's work. It seems that if she doesn't seize the opportunity again, there really won't be anyone who wants it.
Ji Nanjia knew that her mother didn't understand her at all, so she gave up communication and focused more on her career.
She is no longer afraid of being urged to marry, does not care about her mother's belittlement, and insists on her pursuit of life with a strong heart.
Women who have been single for a long time no longer regard marriage as the only goal in life.
I will use more energy to manage my own life, work hard for my own career, and maintain my circle of friends.
She lives a strong and self-contained life, sober and independent, always following her inner feelings and thoughts.
Starting a family and getting married is a choice in life. And being single is also an attitude to life.
As long as you let yourself live freely and worthwhile, there is no distinction between superior and inferior.
A single woman sees life more thoroughly and knows better what she wants.
Without love, she can still grasp the direction of life, strive to realize her self-worth, and make her life more brilliant.
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