She had atrophied muscles in her legs and could not walk uprightCan only crawl on all fours.
At the age of 24, she married a 46-year-old bachelor, shortly after the marriageRegardless of the doctor's dissuasion, he gave birth to two children.
She is Dong Mingying, who is known as the "crawling mother".
Now that so many years have passed, how is she doing?Do you regret your decision?
The source in this article is from the official **China.com, released on December 6, 2023, but in order to improve the readability of the article, the details may be polished, please read sensibly, for reference only!
——Bumpy encounter·——
"How did she become like this?I'm afraid I won't be able to have children in the future, right?”
"One is immobile, the other is not young, how will these two live in the future!”
In 2009, a wedding in a village in Rizhao, Shandong Province, attracted everyone's attention.
The groom, Feng Zhiyu, is a famous bachelor in the villageAt the age of 46, he got married for the first time.
And the bride Dong Mingying is even more surprisingShe was only 24 years old and very handsome, but she was disabled: her body was severely bent and her height was only as tall as an average person's knee.
The wedding was very simple, just invited some relatives of both parties, but they were still watched by the villagers.
After getting married, the young couple lived an ordinary life: the husband went to work in the fields every day, and the wife did housework at home every day, simple and happy.
Slowly, the people in the village also learned about what happened to Dong Mingying.
In fact, Dong Mingying was also a normal child before the age of 1.
In 1985, she was born in a poor peasant family in Rizhao City, Shandong Province.
When she was 1 year old, Dong Mingying had a feverBecause the family was relatively poor, her parents did not send her to the hospital as soon as possible, but used the local methods of her ancestors to cool down the child.
However, for several days, Dong Mingying's fever did not subside, and the parents had no choice but to send the child to the village clinic.
After getting a fever reduction injection, Dong Mingying's fever subsided, and her parents felt that there should be no problem.
Dong Mingying before the fever has reached the stage of toddlerhood, every day she will run around her yard recklessly, very lively, occasionally there will be bumps and bruises on her body, and she will often stain her clothes, which makes her parents have a headache.
But after the fever subsided, she no longer ran around like before, she sat quietly every day, but her back was a little upright.
However, the parents didn't care too much, the family was poor, and the parents were busy planting crops in the fields all day long, and there was no air to take care of the children, and the children were quiet and worry-free.
A few months later, her mother suddenly noticed that Dong Mingying had a big problem with her walking postureHer waist leaned forward all the wayWhen he helped straighten it, Dong Mingying cried and said that it hurt.
Only then did the parents realize that something was wrong and rushed to the hospital with their children, but the results of the examination made the parents feel like a bolt from the blue:Dong Mingying's nervous system was damaged because of the previous fever, and this damage was irreversible, and she couldn't stand up straight in the future.
When the parents heard this, they were anxious and asked to pay for the help of their children, she was only 1 year old, and she couldn't just ruin her life.
However, the doctor still said that there was nothing they could do and could only advise them to go to a big hospital to have a look.
In desperation, they went to a number of major hospitalsHowever, the results of the examination are all impossible. In the end, they could only take Dong Mingying home.
With the passage of time, Dong Mingying grew up slowly, her waist could no longer straighten, and she could only walk on all fours, but her hands were often bruised in this wayShe had to put on two pairs of shoes.
Because of her physical inconvenience, Dong Mingying did not go to school for a few years, and most of the time, she helped with housework at home.
She has a good temper and sometimes helps her neighbors with small things, and everyone in the village knows about her situation and feels sorry for her disability.
——Accidental Marriage·——
The man should get married and the woman should get married, and soon, Dong Mingying also reached the right age, but because of her disabilityNo young man in the village was willing to go on a blind date with Dong Mingying.
Dong Mingying knew her own situation, although she was sad, but for the sake of her parents, she still forced a smile and said that she would not get married in the future and would always be by her parents' side.
Her parents felt very sorry for her, but they didn't want to give up, so they asked the matchmaker to look for her in the surrounding villages.
Unexpectedly, the matchmaker really found it.
However, as soon as they heard the other party's conditions, the parents decisively refused:It turned out that the man's name was Feng Zhiyu, a bachelor from the village next door, who was 22 years older than his daughter!
This ** line?My daughter can't marry someone about her age. So he said to the matchmaker and rejected the other party.
However, the man came to Dong Mingying's house first, and after listening to Dong Mingying's story, he was moved by her strength and kindness.
As expected, Feng Zhiyu was kicked out by Dong Mingying's family, and Dong Mingying saw this and found an opportunity to apologize to him in person.
Feng Zhiyu said that it didn't matter, and he wanted to keep a ***
After that, the two slowly got acquainted, and Dong Mingying also knew Feng Zhiyu's family situation: he was the eldest son in the family and had been helping his parents take care of his younger siblings.
finally confessed his younger brothers and sisters, and each became a family, at this time, his parents suddenly fell ill, and he had to put down his life's events and take care of his parents.
After knowing Feng Zhiyu's story,Dong Mingying feels that he is a down-to-earth and hard-working person who is worthy of being entrusted for life.
After that, the two slowly developed into a couple. Because Dong Mingying was unable to move, Feng Zhiyu carried her around, allowing her to go to many places she had not been before, and she felt very happy.
Seeing that there were a lot more smiles on their daughter's face, the parents slowly looked away and agreed to their marriage.
——Insist on producing despite dissuasion·——
Soon after getting married, Dong Mingying suddenly felt a little unwell, and after going to the hospital for an examination, the doctor told them a news:Dong Mingying is pregnant!
However, before they had time to rejoice, the doctor advised them to kill the child:Dong Mingying's body is really not suitable for giving birth to a new life, and pregnancy will make her waist be pressed by gravity, which will affect her body.
Feng Zhiyu's mood fluctuated greatly, but for the sake of his wife's bodyHe still told his wife that he would kill the child.
Dong Mingying saw her husband's lost expression, and she also wanted to be a motherRejected the offer and decided to go home to raise the baby with peace of mind.
After becoming pregnant, Dong Mingying's actions became even more inconvenient, and Feng Zhiyu took over all the work at home, allowing her to raise the fetus with peace of mind.
Ten months later, Dong Mingying, with the help of doctors, finally successfully gave birth to a daughter.
After having a child, Feng Zhiyu worked harder, and he worked a few more jobs to support his family.
A few years later, they welcomed their second daughter.
Feng Zhiyu's age is not young, and his physical strength is becoming more and more unable to keep up, and Dong Mingying also helps to do some manual work to supplement the family.
The people in the village knew that it was difficult for the two of themIt also helped them apply for low-income households, and their lives were guaranteed.
However, the two daughters are getting older and older, and there are too many places to use money in the future, so they have to think about other possibilities.
Later, Dong Mingying's sister suggested that she could try to shoot a short ** to see if she could make some money.
After that,Dong Mingying named herself "Big Beauty in Two Pairs of Shoes", thinking that she could live beautifully.
Slowly, her account accumulated some fans, and the fans were moved by Dong Mingying's strength, relying on traffic, Dong Mingying also had some income.
Today's Dong Mingying also has more than 200,000 fans, and she will also make some simple handmade products to sell to increase her income.
She also slowly learned about live streaming to help some farmers sell some unsalable agricultural products and relieve their anxiety.
She will also talk to everyone about her experience in the live broadcast, and encourage everyone to persevere, difficulties will always be overcome.
Although fate was unfair to Dong Mingying, she did not complain, but faced it positively and optimistically. When she has the ability to make money, she also wants to spread positive energy and do something for everyone. She is indeed living a beautiful life, and I wish her and her family happiness.