A female reader told me that she has been married for 5 years, has a good relationship with her husband, and has a lovely son. However, I met a man at a friend's party, and the other party was also my favorite standard, so I didn't move.
Because it is more suitable in the play, the two also added *** to each other chatting and chatting, there are a lot of ambiguous feelings, it seems that the relationship is relatively advanced, but the reader is very distressed, and feels trapped in the love of the two, whether it is the marriage on the left or the true love outside the marriage on the right, they don't want to let go.
In fact, true love is never a passing passion, but an ordinary day for a long time.
Love outside of marriage is only a temporary novelty.
I especially understand that after being with the same person for a long time, when life gradually becomes boring and longs to meet freshness, real life appears in such a person, as if the original black and white days suddenly became color.
But it is also very clear that love is regular, and if you do get together with your lover outside of marriage, you will inevitably have to go through it again, from strange to familiar;From passionate to bland.
Just like Feng Yu's appearance in "The Wind Blows Flat Summer", his own characteristics are like Bao'er, compared to his wife's character who only knows how to make money at home and is bored, Bao'er's gentleness can fascinate Feng Yu too much.
In the end, the wife filed for divorce and settled Bao'er and Feng Yu. The two really lived together, and Feng Yu found out that Bao'er and herself were not passers-by at all, and there were frequent conflicts, and their marriage lasted for a short time.
When I meet a new person after getting married, I always think that the other party is true love, but in fact, freshness is the true face of true love.
Second, men pay for a purpose.
I have always felt that affection is an equivalent value exchange, and only by paying enough value can I get everything I want from the other person.
thinks that when you meet true love, it is actually just the appearance of meeting the needs of the other party, and this need is obtained without paying too high a price, so men are willing to be with extramarital lovers.
Just like Lin Gui in "Three Lives and Three Worlds", he likes Xu Moshan, who has a family, and when he sees that he cares about himself, he feels that they are true love for each other, and wants to further anger Xu Moshan's family.
Unexpectedly, when the feelings outside of marriage were put on the stage, Xu Moshan told the truth, he didn't like Lin Guiyou, which was completely different from the gentle attitude shown by the two.
Lin You suddenly realized that Xu Moshan had never really liked himself, what he liked was just a momentary freshness, relaxation outside of marriage.
Therefore, with a married man, really don't overestimate the other party's sincerity to you, compared to the marriage and family he is willing to cherish, you are just a dewdrop.
A man who has love outside of marriage will always love himself.
There is a particularly outrageous moment in Thirty:
Wang Manni broke through the ethics and morals in her heart, accepted a man who met on a cruise ship, and thought that the other party was true love, so she was willing to pay and was full of confidence in expectation.
But the first expected result is that this man is a staunch non-marital lover, so he is only willing to fall in love with Wang Manni and is unwilling to promise marriage to Wang Manni;For love, Wang Manni accepted it, but she didn't expect that when she was looking forward to a long-term relationship with Liang Zhengxian, she knew the secret that the other party had a fiancée.
Wang Manni's love road is dead, and she no longer continues to be stubborn in love.
If a man really likes you, he is willing to give you real commitment to possession, willing to meet your expectations, willing to give you enough security.