In the spring of 1989, I have been at the same table since the first grade of elementary schoolLi LuFormed a deep oneFriendship。Her parents were outsiders who sold steamed buns for a living, while I stayed with my grandparents because of my parents' divorce. Li LuShe was so enthusiastic that she brought buns to the classroom every morning to share with me, and I often watched her eat when she was hungry until she saw my troubles. In order to stop me from going hungry, she started bringing me two buns a day and took care of me silently. Every time I recall this friendship with classmates, I still feel warm in my heart, and this deep affection has left a deep imprint on my heart.
When I was in the sixth grade of elementary school, I took the initiative to ask for peaceLi LuSitting together, doing homework together every weekend, and sometimes even going to her house to help out, my grandmother taught me. My grandmother told me that people should be grateful and not forget the help of others. At the time, I didn't understand the meaning of this truth, but at least I followed my grandmother's teachings. However, when I was in junior high school, an accident happened when my father was injured by a stone while working in the field, and I was forced to leave the companyLi Luand followed her mother to her new home and transferred to a new school.
Many years later, in 2018, I happened to meet Li Lei, a classmate from elementary school, and came to my grandparents' house for the New Year. I askedLi Lu, learned that she has been married twice and divorced. I was curious, so I asked Li Lei to introduce meLi LuI couldn't wait to add her WeChat, wanting to know what she looks like and living in now.
However, when I openedLi Lu, but was shocked by her development of a straight line of life clues. I wanted to say hello to her, but I didn't know how to say it. This made me wonder if it was really necessary to meet again. Time has changed, the twists and turns of life experience have made me start to worry, this once innocent and lovely girl has now become a vicissitudes of life, in the face of the fact of divorce, I began to feel that maybe it is a kind of luck not to meet.
At the end of 2019, the neighbor's houseWeddings, I met a middle-aged woman, and she wasLi Lu。The original innocence is no more, replaced by the vicissitudes of life. She told me that she was a teacher at an elementary school and that she had divorced. She dropped the phrase "That's all men do" and left my sight. I looked at her back, staring intently, full of contradictions and confusion.
The encounter with my first love made me understand the impermanence and changes of life, and it also made me reflect on my relationship with others. Once affectionateFriendshipIs it just a memory of the past?Are the vows and promises made no longer true?I thoughtFriendshipThe meaning and relationship between people in thisSocialWhat is true affection and trust?Perhaps, instead of looking forward to the good past, it is better to face the cruelty of reality, treat others with a tolerant and understanding attitude, and give each other more love and support. After all, life is a long road, and each of us needs to be understanding and tolerant.
Life is a long story, each with a different role to play, experiencing different ups and downs and changes. Looking back, although the changes in life have made it impossible for me to do it againLi LuKeep in touch, but she has always left a deep imprint on my memory. She may have become very different from what I remember now, but that doesn't stop me from being nostalgicFriendshipand cherish the relationships of the moment. Everyone has their own story, and every friendship will have ups and downs and changes, and only by insisting on sincerity and kindness can we maintain the clarity and warmth of our hearts.