Extramarital affairs
When people are middle-aged, they must avoid the pit of extramarital affairs.
Don't have the illusion that your charm is still there. The so-called male over forty-one flowers and forty years old are like eighteen years old, this is a trick to deceive.
People are middle-aged, their energy is not as good as when they were young, both men and women have passed the moment of high spirits, do not be deceived by rhetoric and narcissism.
If you are middle-aged and the opposite sex praises you, just listen to it, don't take it seriously. If the opposite sex flatters you too much, be wary: either take you for fun or take you for foolishness. For no reason, there is no need for the opposite sex to spoil you.
Favors
Secondly, people who are middle-aged and try not to owe favors as much as possible.
When people are middle-aged, most of them have a certain economic ability and can solve problems with money, so they don't owe favors anymore, unless they encounter natural and man-made disasters that they can't overcome.
The so-called "tree lives a skin, people live a face", after middle age, keep your face, try not to give up face, otherwise face will become more and more worthless.
Affection
People live in middle age and learn to cherish family affection.
People who are middle-aged are no longer Meng Lang's teenagers, and the elderly in the family need your care. Care should be given to the elderly, both materially and spiritually. Because, that's your root.
Learn to be tolerant and tolerant of your spouse. Because that's the best choice you've ever had. Treat each other well no matter what.
With your children, pay attention to the direction in which they are headed. Whether it's marriage or career, you must not miss the attention, otherwise you will regret it for life. Once there are twists and turns in your children's marriage and career, do you still want to live a good life?