Who is closest to the child?The scientific sorting is coming, grandma and grandma, who comes first?
The complexity of intimate relationships.
The complexity of kinship is an important feature of human society, especially in traditional Chinese families, where intergenerational kinship is particularly common. In this case, both grandmothers and grandmothers, as the elders of the children, have an extremely important kinship status. However, when it comes to who the child is closest to, this question is not only universally controversial, but it also raises a lot of controversy. In fact, for various reasons, grandma and grandpa sometimes argue, hoping to get an answer that is closer to the child's mouth. In fact, children have different levels of emotional attachment to different elders, which is difficult to assess only from the superficial phenomenon. However, according to a survey statistics, children's closeness to the elders in the family is divided into: grandma, grandma, and grandpa. This fact has led us to think more deeply about and explore this issue.
Grandparents play different roles in the parent-child relationship in the family. A grandmother is the child's maternal grandmother and is directly related to the child. In many families, grandparents usually have to take care of their children every day and spend more time with them. In addition, grandparents have more direct authority over the care of their children, which makes it easier to establish a close relationship between children and grandparents. However, there are many exceptions in real life. In recent years, due to lifestyle changes, many young mothers prefer to leave their children in the care of their grandparents. This is mainly due to the fact that young mothers tend to be worried"Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship", in order to avoid contradictions, choose to let your mother take care of the child. Therefore, the grandmother gradually became the caretaker of the child"The main force", thus building a closer relationship with the child.
In fact, the closeness of a child to his or her grandmother is influenced not only by blood relations, but also by many other factors. For example, the length of time children spend with their elders, the degree to which their living habits are compatible, etc. Since a child's growth requires long periods of care and companionship, the more time a child spends with his or her maternal grandmother or grandparents, the higher the degree of emotional integration. In addition, the personality traits of the grandmother and grandfather and the degree of care they have for the child will also leave a deep impression on the child's heart. In addition, parents' expectations and attitudes can also have an important impact on a child's relationship with their elders. Bao mothers are more inclined to bring their children closer to their grandmothers, while Bao fathers are more inclined to bring their children closer to their grandmothers. These expectations can unconsciously affect the child's own emotional tendencies.
However, when discussing this issue, we must recognize that kinship is complex and multifaceted and cannot be explained by simple causality alone. There is no doubt about the importance of grandparents to their children, but we cannot simply make value judgments and categorizations. In fact, the level of intimacy between the child and each elderly person can coexist, but it manifests itself differently in different contexts. For example, children may be more inclined to play and chat with their grandmother, while with their grandmother they are more likely to take care of and worry about their daily lives. From the perspective of blood relationship, the child is indeed closer to the grandmother, but if it is analyzed from the perspective of emotional relationship, the emotional connection between the child and the grandmother may be deeper.
In conclusion, the complexity of intimate relationships makes it inappropriate to simply compare and classify children's intimacy with their grandparents. Every child has their own emotional tendencies and preferences, which are the result of a combination of factors. When discussing this issue, we should maintain an attitude of respect and understanding, and instead of discussing who is closer to the child, we should pay more attention to the harmony and happiness between the elders and the child.
Open-minded summary:
Grandparents are extremely important relatives in Chinese family relationships. As children grow up, they will develop their own emotional bonds and attachments to each elderly. Whether it is a grandmother or a grandfather, they will give their children the most sincere love and affection. However, the relationship between a child and each elderly person is different and cannot be simply compared and categorized. Every family's situation is different, and each child's feelings and preferences are different. When discussing the relationship between children and the elderly, we should respect and understand the emotional tendencies of each person, and instead of discussing who is closer to the child, we should focus on the harmony and happiness between the elderly and the child. The most important thing is that we should give every elderly person the respect and care they deserve, and work together to create a warm and harmonious family atmosphere.