In recent years, more and more studies have shown that the psychological and behavioral characteristics of children who are often yelled at can be greatly affected. These children often show characteristics such as low self-esteem, sensitivity, introversion, rebellion, and even psychological problems. So, why do children who are often yelled at have these traits?
First, we must understand that children's growth needs love and attention. If the child is constantly yelled at, he will feel that he is not good enough to meet the requirements of his parents, resulting in an inferiority complex. This low self-esteem can affect children's self-perception and self-evaluation, making them sensitive, introverted, and reluctant to socialize with others.
Second, children who are often yelled at will be insecure. They feel that their behavior will displease or anger their parents, so they become cautious for fear that they have done something wrong. This insecurity can cause children to become nervous and anxious in their relationships, making it difficult to establish stable relationships.
3. Yelling and scolding often makes children rebellious. Loud scolding and scolding from parents can make children feel frightened and helpless, and this emotion can inspire rebellion and rebellion in children. They will express their dissatisfaction and anger through disobedience, provocation of parents, etc.
So, how do you avoid these traits in your child?
1. Parents should avoid yelling at their children as much as possible. When children make mistakes, gentle language should be used to guide them to recognize their mistakes and help them find solutions to their problems.
2. Parents should give their children enough care and attention, so that children can feel their own value and importance.
3. Parents should establish a good communication and trust relationship with their children, so that children can feel the love and support of their parents.
In short, children who are often yelled at are prone to low self-esteem, sensitivity, introversion, rebellion and other characteristics. For the sake of their children's healthy growth, parents should avoid yelling at their children as much as possible, guide them with gentle language, give them enough love and attention, and establish a good communication and trust relationship with their children. Only in this way can children grow up healthy and happy. Grow