There is such a famous saying:"No one has to be rich or great, no one has to be smart, but everyone has to be an honest person. "
Integrity is the foundation of life, only with this quality, in order to gain the respect of others, in order to gain the trust of others. IntegrityIt is the most valuable possession that a person has, it can make you straight, and it can also make you successful.
Every parent wants their children to be honest and trustworthy and doesn't want them to tell lies. When a child behaves dishonestly, parents should find the reason from the child's cognition, not just hit or scold the child. Parents should educate their children about integrity from an early age.
So, how to cultivate children's integrity quality?
First of all, parents want:Educate children on integrity and quality.
Parents should strengthen education on their children's creditworthiness and quality, and educate their children to be trustworthy and responsible from an early age.
Let children know that it is difficult for a person to gain a foothold in society if he does not keep his word. Parents can use some examples to educate their children on the quality of creditworthiness, tell them stories about integrity, and let children understand the importance of integrity.
If a child gives integrity, then he will naturally gain the trust of others. On the contrary, if a child is hypocritical, then he will also gain hypocrisy. Parents should start cultivating their children's integrity from an early age, and they must be persistent.
Teach your child to be brave enough to admit mistakes when they make them, to accept criticism, and not to hide them. Parents should criticize those dishonest behaviors in society, and let their children know that dishonest behavior will definitely be punished. Only in this way can the child become an honest and trustworthy person.
Secondly, parents want:Meet your child's reasonable needs.
Parents need to carefully understand their children's inner needs. When the child has told his parents about his needs, he or she should work with the child to analyze the nature of his needs. If the needs are reasonable, parents should meet them in a timely manner, and if the needs are unreasonable, they should clearly tell the child that these needs cannot be met. If parents are unable to tell whether these needs are justified, they can ask someone else and teach them to their children.
When a child is dishonest, parents must tell their children that this practice is wrong and explain the reason to their children seriously. At the same time, parents can also tell their children about the role of credit in interpersonal communication, so that children understand that it is important to be an honest person. You must not indulge your children infinitely just because they are young, as this is not good for your child's future development.
Again, parents wantBelieve in the child.
We often see parents who ask their children to Xi study in their room for half an hour after eating, only to go in every five minutes to see if they are lazyThey let their children go shopping, but they are always worried about their children spending money indiscriminately.
When parents do this, they often cause their children to rebel by lying. Unwarranted suspicion on the part of parents will only make children do more wrong things.
Finally,Parents need to dare to admit their mistakes.
In daily life, parents will inevitably have some dishonest behaviors. If this happens, parents must not be condescending, but humbly admit their mistakes to their childrenLead by example