When people reach middle age, they have seen the wind and waves, tasted the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and have already understood the true meaning of interpersonal communication, so they always pretend to be confused, and "pretending" seems to have become the way of life for middle-aged people.
But this is not entirely a gesture, but a kind of defense, a kind of self-protection.
When people reach middle age, the smarter they are, the more they know how to "pretend" the wisdom.
01: I have money in my hand and pretend to be poor
When people reach middle age, it is difficult to move an inch without money
When he is middle-aged, Li Wei has saved a lot of money. In this regard, Li Wei especially likes to show off his wealth everywhere, attracting more and more unscrupulous people to target him, purposefully approaching him, flattering him, first getting close to him, and then slowly inducing him to invest, so Li Wei invested all the money he had worked hard to save. By the time Li Wei found out, these people had already taken Li Wei's money and fled, and there was not a single shadow left. Poor Li Wei ended up bankrupt.
The tree attracts the wind, and the rich attract trouble. In this world of inequality between the rich and the poor, there are many people who are unbalanced in their hearts, and you can only pretend to be poor and live a low-key life, which is the wisest.
As the saying goes, wealth is not exposedIn this life, it is to beHold the money firmly in your handsNo amount of money should be exposed.
02: When you meet a villain, pretend to be stupid
When you meet a villain, please don't fight with it to the death, it's pointlessTheDon't be entangled by them, otherwise, we may not be able to get out of it for the rest of our lives.
Lao Li's colleague is a bad and cheap villain, with a set on the surface and a set on the back, pretending to be a good hand in front of the boss, but constantly making small moves behind the scenes, pushing everything to others, and then asking for credit in front of the boss. Whenever Lao Li's colleagues found Lao Li, Lao Li began to pretend to be stupid, no matter what he said, Lao Li laughed and began to pretend that he didn't know anything and would mess up anything. Seeing Lao Li like this, over time, Lao Li's colleagues would not take the initiative to find Lao Li, and the villain stayed away from Lao Li.
Man lives in the worldThings are different now. If you want to protect yourself, you need toSee the situation clearly, make the right action, and say what makes senseOnly then,talentsNot to be reckoned with.
"Pretending to be stupid" is not to make you really stupid, but to givethemselvesLeave a back roadPlay stupid when it's time to play stupid, like thisTrouble won't find you.
03: Don't tell all the lies, don't tell the truth
InIn life,We see it all the timeYessomepeople, theySpeakTotalIt's disregardedand farewellHuman feelings.
As everyone knows, inappropriate wordsfarthanA handful of sharpKnivesYesHurting peopleof much
In many cases, exposing others will not only hurt other people's faces, but even lead to fire and cause endless trouble.
Aunt Li is a particularly direct person, often unpleasant, and no aunt wants to play with her. Among them, Aunt Liu hates Aunt Li even more.
It turned out that when Aunt Liu was carrying the bag and showing it to the sister group, she was proud of everyone's envious eyes, and Aunt Li said: "I think your bag is a fake!."Suddenly, Aunt Liu's face was lost. Just because of Aunt Li's unintentional words, Aunt Liu couldn't hold her head up in front of many aunts.
Therefore, there is a way that the wise do not speak, and the master does not speak. A person who learns to pretend in front of others, knows how to see people and speaks people's words, and knows how to talk nonsense when he sees ghosts, is a wise man.
Life is helpless, pretending to be confused, you can know who is sincere to you and who is hypocritical.
For the rest of my life, to people and thingsDon't be too serious, don't be too shrewd. There are some things that can be seen throughNopeTell the story;There are some secrets, just know them;Some are right and wrongDon't care!Don't talk about it, don't talk about it！ThisNot onlyYesaKindness is a kind of protection!
When people reach middle age, it all depends on their acting skillsThispcsyearsgenerations, who lives easilyIt's better to pretend, skillfully avoid the damage, and quietly get the happy life you want. This kind of wisdom, I hope we can all have.
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