An Jie is a sister who is always coquettish to her sister, and at the same time extremely arrogant and ignorant of the world.
An Xin is an older sister who always considers her sister's needs, handles affairs transparently, and has unique insight.
Although the age difference between them is not significant, because the older sister was born at an early age, they have to take care of the household chores such as caring for the younger sister, cleaning the dishes and mopping the floor.
An Xin shows a steady, benevolent and determined character;Anjie is full of pride, optimism and love for herself.
The eldest sister is like a mother, An Xin's performance is indeed outstanding.
Anjie attends the prom, and his brother and sister-in-law expect her to find an officer in order to bring good luck to the family. But my brother didn't want to. An Xin is the only one who feels sorry for An Jie, isn't this taking the initiative to come to the door and let them choose the right partner?
The Youth League branch of the hospital arranged for An Jie to invite Jiang Defu to give a speech, which made An Jie feel quite conflicted.
An Xin instructed An Jie like this:
If you're interested in someone, go find him. You know, the more you interact with people, the more they will see you as a good friend. If you have no interest in this, I suggest that you better not provoke this problem. If you really like that person, then he will definitely like you, because you know, when he likes you, you feel a very comfortable emotion in it.
Do you think you feel dignified when someone else helps you?Have you ever wondered if you will become disliked after you have been dating him for a while?Do you think it's a good feeling?Do you really want to have some relationship with him, or do you really not want to have any contact with him?
The elder brother and sister-in-law wholeheartedly hope that An Jie can bring convenience to the officer's marriage, but An Xin always cares about An Jie's feelings and helps her to understand her inner world.
An Jie often goes deep with his sister ** the love in his heart, this is what An Jie told his sister:
I always dreamed that one day, a tall and handsome man, standing in front of me, wearing a white suit and a red tie, looked at me affectionately in the moonlight, and whispered in my ear: Miss An, I love you.
The sisterhood between An Jie and An Xin is very deep.
However, as time went on, and in their later years, the relationship between the two sisters became estranged, and even when An Jie fell ill, An Xin did not show up at her hospital bed.
Understanding the estrangement of the two sisters, An Jie and An Xin, in their later years, can give insight into the true meaning of marriage.
The look between Ouyang Yi and Jiang Defu has made the two of them feel bored.
Ouyang Yi is actually An Xin's spouse.
Ouyang Yi was transferred back with great effort, and he was dissatisfied with An Xin going to the station to pick him up alone. He felt that he had been at the station for too long. He believed that everyone in the family should show some kind of gesture and send at least one representative to greet him.
He was an outstanding student of Tsinghua University, born into a family full of books, and in the past days, he was always smiling and never absent when interacting with people. He is arrogant because of his talent, which is also a kind of capital for him.
An Jie showed an arrogant temperament, which made Ouyang Yi always think he was quite cute.
However, Ouyang Yi had a contemptuous attitude towards Jiang Defu, the husband chosen by An Jie, who was a vulgar person with no knowledge. He has a strange personality and temper, she said. After marrying Jiang Defu, Ouyang Yi thought that ** was very cheap.
Such a careless person has turned into a new hope for an family. In the relationship between An and An Jia, there is something called "anticipation". The An family had extremely high expectations for this officer, and the eldest brother Antai was like a father-like brother, and behaved groveling in front of Jiang Defu, like a brother-in-law. In this family, he had a low status, but in this unit he had quite high prestige. He attached great importance to her even to the point that Ouyang Yi despised her.
After Ouyang Yi returned, he invited everyone to dinner at the western restaurant of the Binhai Hotel, and sent the invitation to Jiang Defu's home.
Jiang Defu not only mispronounced "here" as "silk ding", he has not yet mastered the pronunciation of the word "yi".
Jiang Defu felt that it was too difficult for Ouyang Yi to name him, didn't the name just need someone else to call it?Why is his name so messy?Why do you have those confusing names?
An Jie explained to him that the word "Nianyi" represented virtue.
Jiang Defu immediately responded:
Instead of calling it Europe, America and Germany, it is better to call it one or two.
Anjie made another statement:
You are so angry, his surname is Ouyang, and Ouyang's surname is a compound surname, we can't distinguish the pronunciation.
Jiang Defu returned again:
Whether it's the main surname or the deputy surname, I call him Lao Ou, and if he gets angry, I'll call him Ou Ou De, really.
Jiang Defu further pointed out that in order for him to listen to Ouyang Yi's opinions, it is necessary not only to look at his mood, but also to look at Ouyang Yi's actual performance.
The two individuals had been estranged from each other before they had a chance to meet. They are all friends who work together, and they have lived together for more than ten years or even decades. Everyone thinks that it is not cost-effective to become in-laws with each other, and they all think that the other party is not worth it.
When the two met, Jiang Defu directly said the words "Yes, Lao Ou", which made Ouyang Yi look a little dazed.
When Jiang Defu ate the steak, he asked the waiter to prepare a pair of chopsticks for him, but then said that the steak was not cooked and needed to be recooked.
Antai also promised to let Jiang Defu call Ouyang Yi "Old Ou", and he didn't even have a polite brother-in-law.
Ouyang Yi was not optimistic about Jiang Defu's attitude, and her dislike for Jiang Defu further deepened. He is a cultured and cultivated person, his character is very good, and he is also very kind. Jiang Defu's dislike for Ouyang Yi also deepened.
Jiang Defu and Ouyang Yi are fighting in the dark and in the open.
Although we may not like it very much, we should still show a pleasant attitude towards getting along.
Compared with An Jie and Jiang Defu, Ouyang Yi and An Xin entered the palace of marriage earlier. However, An Jie did not marry Jiang Defu for a long time, and when Ouyang Yi returned, An Jie was already pregnant.
Ouyang Yi said "really, God speed", although on the surface it seemed to be congratulatory and happy, but in fact, he was silently struggling in his heart.
Before An Xin was pregnant, An Jie was already pregnant, which made him feel that he had lost another game in the match with Jiang Defu.
Eventually, An Xin was also pregnant with a child, which made him feel more confident.
Surprisingly, when everyone raised their glasses to celebrate, the sister-in-law's congratulatory speech actually attributed all the honors to Jiang Defu, and even An Xin's pregnancy was because of the good luck that Jiang Defu brought to the An family.
Ouyang Yi was almost enraged to the extreme.
After a series of feng shui changes, Ouyang Yi finally gained the upper hand. An Xin is pregnant with a pair of twins, which is enough for him to show his majesty in front of Jiang Defu for a long time.
Jiang Defu is still dissatisfied with this matter!
Until An Jie was pregnant with a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, he thought it was time to get angry with Ouyang Yi.
An Jie gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, he didn't think too much about other things, his only concern was how to quickly convey the news of An Jie's dragon and phoenix fetuses to Ouyang Yi.
Ouyang Yi had been angry with him for a long time because he was able to give birth to twins, and now, he also had the opportunity to give birth to twins, and they were a pair of dragon and phoenix twins.
Ouyang Yi and Jiang Defu, two people who didn't have much contact with each other before, have now become in-laws who are not optimistic about each other, and they are silently comparing.
This kind of dispute continues as they enter old age.
Jiang Defu was appointed chief of staff of Songshan Island, and at the same time, An Jie also followed the army and became the officer's wife who would greet him when everyone met, and became the focus of everyone's attention. The environment on the island was very harsh, and when no one went, Ouyang Yi laughed at Jiang Defu.
Unexpectedly, Ouyang Yi was labeled a rightist and exiled to Little Black Mountain Island, an area under Jiang Defu's jurisdiction.
When they got older and entered the land again, although the ship had not yet docked, many people had already gathered on the shore, holding banners and waiting excitedly.
Although Jiang Defu was loved by everyone, that group of people didn't seem to like him very much.
Those lovely people standing on the shore, they warmly welcomed Ouyang Yi and An Xin.
Initially, the purpose of their visit to Little Black Mountain was to experience pain. has spent most of his life under the oppression of Jiang Defu, but now, it is not Jiang Defu who is really loved by this group of people, but himself.
He happily shot directly at Jiang Defu and said: **Look, welcome me.
As a soldier, Jiang Defu's skills in target shooting are his strengths. In his young days, his result was only second, so no one dared to challenge for the first place.
However, when he went to shoot with Ouyang Yi, he accidentally deviated from the target, but Ouyang Yi, who was not a soldier, completed a full circle of shooting.
Ouyang Yi sees this incident as the key to winning back most of her life to Jiang Defu, and she hopes to challenge Jiang Defu's long-term superior position.
Jiang Defu and Ouyang Yi have been constantly fighting throughout their lives.
Delicate interactions between husband and wife and husbands.
The first altercation between An Jie and An Xin occurred when Ouyang Yi had just returned home and invited everyone to dinner.
Due to the conflict between Ouyang Yi and Jiang Defu, the relationship between the two sisters became strained.
The relationship between them is not because of the conflict between the two sisters, but because they both firmly support their husband, speak up for him, and try to protect him.
As a result, their perspectives have changed.
When An Jie was pregnant with twins, Jiang Defu thought that An Xin was also twins and had a lot of experience. In addition, Jiang Dehua was too extravagant and worried that he would not be able to take good care of An Jie during confinement.
Therefore, they invited An Xin to take care of An Jie for confinement.
When invited, Ouyang Yi didn't act happy. He thinks that Jiang Defu and An Jie's attitude towards An Xin is not respectful, just like treating a nanny, and asks her to take care of An Jie.
However, An Xin has a different point of view, and she believes that she should care about her biological sister.
When Ge Meixia came to visit An Jie as An Jie's work partner, An Jie and Ge Meixia half-jokingly called An Xin a nanny.
It wasn't until that moment that she was convinced that Ouyang Yi's words were correct.
An Xin's small black mountain island is under Jiang Defu's jurisdiction, but because An Jie is worried that it will have a bad impact on Jiang Defu, she has never visited her sister's family.
After An Xin heard An Jie call herself a nanny, she couldn't help but have a fierce argument with An Jie, and her main motive for doing so was also to protect Ouyang Yi.
Each of them is protecting their spouses.
When An Jie married Jiang Defu for the first time, he asked Jiang Defu to wash his face, feet and buttocks every day, which made Jiang Defu described as a "three-wash husband". Can't you get him to keep eating.
Because Jiang Defu always chattered when eating, An Jie was ridiculed when she returned to her parents' house, and when she returned home, she felt very aggrieved and shed tears.
Her goal is to train Jiang Defu to become a cultured person.
It was she who made Jiang Defu change dramatically, in the description of Principal Cong, Jiang Defu has completely lost his military demeanor, and he seems a little uncomfortable when eating.
An Jie originally had a strong antipathy for Zhang Guiying, who had a similar personality to Wang Xiu'e, because she was afraid that her hands would not be thoroughly cleaned when others made steamed buns.
What happened next?
However, she joined forces with Zhang Guiying and Jiang Dehua to laugh out loud on the rooftop. "What are we doing?"An Jie, who was once known as "Miss Capital" and behaved extremely elegantly, fartfully farted on the roof.
Judging from Jiang Defu's situation, the way he used to wash his feet was to fish for two days and dry his nets for three days. The first thing he does when he wakes up every morning is to wash his footbath. When you're tired, go straight to sleep when you get home.
After that, if he didn't wash his feet one night, he felt unwell and had trouble sleeping.
When An Jie farted on the roof, he believed that "farts represent the breath of people, and there is no reason not to release them".
On the contrary, it was Jiang Defu who reminded An Jie that, as an intellectual, he should pay attention to appropriate occasions and moderate behavior.
Originally, Jiang Defu called Ouyang Yi Lao Ou.
As time passed, Jiang Defu changed his name and chose An Jie, she no longer called herself brother-in-law, but Lao Ou.
Not only An Jie and Jiang Defu are like this, but also An Xin and Ouyang Yi.
Originally, Ouyang Yi was a man of many words, he could express his thoughts as he wanted, and he was not afraid of any misfortune.
As time passed, Ouyang Yi began to pay more attention to his own behavior moderation. On the other hand, An Xin really couldn't control herself.
When Anjie mentions that she is a nanny, if she is still very young, she will definitely not easily get into a heated argument with her sister.
A good couple, over time, gradually forms a mutual relationship.
In your heart there is me, in my heart there is you, you become me, I become you, this is a beautiful marriage, a model between husband and wife!
An Xin is a knowledgeable woman with outstanding appearance but intelligent heart, she is married to Ouyang Yi of a cultural family, Ouyang Yi admires her very much, and she is willing to follow him through difficulties together. She fell in love with someone, he loved someone, and they had a happy family, a warm little home, and a harmonious society. The marital relationship between them is very harmonious.
An Jie's family background is not superior, so he married Jiang Defu. She cherished him – because of his love and tolerance. Jiang Defu cherished her very much, because she was not only well-educated, but also outstanding. She cherished him very much, and because with him, her life became more stable, and she also became a teacher instead of doing the work of pressing noodles like her sister.
In his later years, An Jie was still in a coma, and the doctor had already issued a critical notice.
An Xin did not appear at An Jie's bedside, which just proves that the marital relationship between them is very harmonious, and it is precisely because of the profound influence of marriage that they have come to this point.
The contradictions and boredom between Ouyang Yi and Jiang Defu made them fight all their lives. Both were born and raised in the same place, but they came together because of their different destinies. The two sisters who married them, one became Ouyang Yi, and the other became Jiang Defu, so the relationship between the two became more estranged.
Children. When An Jie's life was dying, in addition to Jiang Defu, he was accompanied by many children.
During that time, An Xin did not show up, another reason is that An Xin is getting older, she has no time to take care of other things, and her physical condition is also limited.
When a marriage comes to an end, it's just children after all.
As they grow older, there are only children left around them, and An Jie and An Xin are in this situation.
Although An Xin is sick and tired, her children are always by her side.
The distance between them reveals the true meaning of marriage, as well as the secrets behind it.