Do you have someone you hate?
Of course there is!We may not like a person, or we may not like a person's shortcomings.
People are shuttling in the sea of people, we will not be liked by everyone, and we will not be satisfied with everyone!
When we encounter someone we hate, we don't need to take the edge, compete with each other, and fall out with each other.
Learn to let go of prejudices and tell yourself not to take the other person so seriously, keep your distance, and don't worry about people who don't deserve it!
01. People are different, why bother to go the same way?
Those who can't get along are destined to be strangers;
Those who can't talk are destined to be silent!
In fact, we don't necessarily get along with people, everyone is suitable to work with you, and they are all people you admire.
In the face of people who do not agree with the three views, in the face of people we don't appreciate, we just smile and rub shoulders, there is no need to correct him, he does well or not.
We don't need to waste time arguing with someone who is destined to be on a different path than us!
02. Stay away when you encounter rotten people, and don't entangle with villains
Some people are hypocritical to you, but you know very well that they don't take you seriously.
So why should we take him too seriously?
Don't entangle with rotten people, don't argue with villains, and don't cause unnecessary trouble for yourself.
We don't always dwell on a bad thing, because the more entangled you are, the more angry you are, and you don't vomit or be unhappy, and the result of a dispute with a bad person must be a lose-lose situation!
Why care?Why bother?Why be nervous?
Some people are not worth wasting your energy, and there is no need to be angry because of such people.
03. To be a man, win in the pattern, and lose in the calculation
In fact, sometimes, we don't like someone, it's not that the other person is really heinous, or it's really something wrong.
It's just that we don't agree with each other.
And this difference in perception, the more you care, the greater the preconception!
Eyes are tolerant of the scene, heart is tolerant of things, let your heart be a little more lenient, don't always stare at those people and things that are not pleasing to the eye.
Sometimes, let go of the obsession in our hearts, so that we can be relieved;
Only by letting go of our preconceptions about people can we be at ease.
Be a person with high emotional intelligence, don't put your likes and dislikes on your face, and get along with others like a fish in water!
If someone hates you, let him hate you
There's no need to compromise on everything!
The same goes for you when you look at someone who is not pleasing to the eye
Just don't look at it too much
There's no need to feel uncomfortable.
Between people,
Learning from the strengths of others is the only way to make up for the shortcomings
Staring at the shortcomings of others will only be more narrow!
Be a wise man with high emotional intelligence
Gather and scatter as you like, far and near as you like
The road is different and not extravagant,
The three views are in harmony and become friends!