Huang Rong is the most talked about character in Jin Yong's works.
Just because of a change of clothes with Guo Jing's identity confirmation, the old gentleman became strongly interested in all the scarlet beauty: he only saw a woman at the stern of the boat holding a paddle boat, with long hair and a shawl, wearing white clothes all over her body, and a gold belt tied to her hair. The man, dressed in a green robe, wearing a hat, pedaling on a raft and holding a long-handled axe, was swinging with her on the river. Guo Jing couldn't help but be stunned when he saw the girl dressed in a fairy-like costume. I saw her holding a white gauze scarf in both hands and slowly walking towards the shore. The boat passed slowly, and the woman in front of her was in the prime of her youth, only fifteen or sixteen years old, and her ** was as white as snow and incomparably beautiful;The eyebrows are delicate and slim. Her appearance is so beautiful that she should not be looked at directly. Her eyes, like a pair of large gems, shimmered with a charming light, which reminded people of the "Closed Moon Shy Flower". In the work "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", Huang Rong was endlessly favored by Hong Qigong: Hong Qigong especially liked her wit and wit, and Ouyang Feng tried to take her as a daughter-in-law many times, but the old naughty boy always obeyed her.
At that time, Huang Rong was a bright girl who fused the aura of heaven and earth, she and Guo Jing grew up together, acting chivalrous and righteous, they opened up roads in the mountains, learned Xi martial arts, and started a new chapter of life with the wishes of their supporters.
Similar to many TV series, Huang Rong and Guo Jing rarely appear after deciding the ending.
After more than a decade, these two people appear again in Yang Guo's story.
Yang Guo and Huang Rong met for the first time because of the time between them and their old friends"Encounters"and the resulting defensive mentality.
Yang Guo stared at the aura that still remained in the corners of Aunt Guo's eyes, but the closeness between him and Huang Rong was minimal. When Huang Rong saw him, her eyes did not reveal concern or love for the child, but revealed a faint distance and vigilance. This is not Huang Rong's fault, because Yang Guo and Yang Kang are not only similar in expression, but their words and deeds are also the same as his father's. Every act of Yang Guo seemed to pull Huang Rong back to the time of more than ten years ago, making her recall how Yang Kang betrayed Sister Mu, and she herself was the enemy of the young man's father in front of her.
Due to the early death of his posthumous son and biological mother, Yang Guo buried his embarrassing and poignant childhood experience. He had tried to live in a cunning way, but he was always bullied by people, leaving him hungry, ragged, and lonely. In order to find his father, he went through hardships and finally found him, only to find that he was the "great talent" who was calling for wind and rain on the rivers and lakes. Guo Jing, a person with an innocent heart, lamented the favor of fate. When he met his old friend's son, he was full of passion to bring Yang Guo home and adopt him as his adopted son. But he doesn't have the same innocent heart as Huang Rong, he just wants to protect his brother's son from the wind and rain.
On the way back, he enthusiastically proposed to his wife that he would marry his eldest daughter, Guo Fu, to her, in order to continue the relationship between the two families.
Huang Rong, knowing her husband's character, did not choose to stop him. She said in a soft tone: "The two of them are still very young, and if they can really come together in the future, it will not be too late to say more."
For the sake of her husband, Huang Rong worked hard to control her inner anxiety, detoxified Yang Guo, and took the initiative to take on the responsibility of teaching Yang Guo. Under the guidance of the instructor, she finally understood how to behave, do things and deal with things. However, her teaching methods were wary of a certain amount of caution, and instead of teaching every detail of the martial arts, she chose to let Yang Guo study it"Virtue"with"Scriptures"。It was a big challenge for her. Out of personal desires, on the one hand, she was unwilling to provide any martial arts for the son of her enemy;On the other hand, she hopes to become a real person by learning Xi and practicing Xi. On the other hand, she also hopes that if the past cannot be covered up, she has molded her child into a civilized student who understands morality and noble character.
After that, she suddenly realized that Yang Guo had practiced Ouyang Feng's ** skill, so she began to suggest to Brother Jing: "Maybe Peach Blossom Island is not suitable for him, this will not benefit him, it is better to send him to the Quanzhen Sect to achieve a win-win effect." In fact, Yang Guo was not at fault, but his father's evil deeds sowed an indestructible prejudice in Huang Rong's heart, so he was "abandoned" by the Quanzhen Sect and ridiculed and insulted by various "stinky Taoist priests".
Eventually, he learns that the people who killed his father were none other than the Guo family.
In the passage of time, Huang Rong changed from a pearl to"Fish eyeballs"If it weren't for Huang Rong's existence, Yang Guo might have suffered less
She suggested that Yang Guo be sent to the Quanzhen Sect, which caused Yang Guo to experience a deeper irony than when he first wandered.
When Xiaolongnu and Yang Guo decided to spend the rest of their lives together, she cleverly asked a question: "If you choose to marry Guo'er, then the whole world will disdain him" Why can't you marry a good man?Seeing that Xiaolongnu said that she would not care about other people's opinions, she added: "This child, if you are tired of being with you, you will go to the outside world."
The little dragon girl touched it lightly, turned around, and simply left silently.
After Guo Fu slashed her son's arm, she used all her strength to block the sword in Guo Jing's hand. Her hands are so soft and powerful. Guo Fu's arrogance, ridicule, and inexplicable attitude are all the result of her Xi habits.
This was not the case with Huang Rong in the past.
Compared with Yang Guo, before she became a wife and mother, she was more wild and fearless.
Although she knew that Guo Jing had a marriage contract with someone, she was still unwilling to give up this deep emotion;She didn't care if her father or Guo Jing's mentors disagreedThere was a time when she was open to love and freedom, and had nothing to do with others.
At that time, Huang Rong had just stepped into society, and as a willful and playful "little demon girl", she bravely expressed her opinions and was not afraid of secular life.
Even though she thought that her life was coming to an end, the words she left for Brother Jing still revealed a trace of coquettishness and cuteness: "After I die, I will allow you to marry Hua Zheng, but I will not allow you to marry other women." Hua Zheng's feelings for you are sincere, and if you marry another woman, I am afraid that she will cheat on you. I allow you to build a tomb for me, but you are not allowed to bring Hua Zheng to worship me, because I have always been a stingy ghost. Regrettably, as the years went by, I became Mrs. Guo, and she had more weaknesses and concerns, and she wanted to help her husband, who was still as passionate as ever;When she became the leader of the beggar gang, she gained the status of the rivers and lakes, she had to be rigorous, dignified, become a watch for others, and support mainstream values.
What Huang Rong got from the bottomless rivers and lakes is the past"Ego"It was mothballed, and it was replaced by all sorts of concessions and compromises as a last resort.
When she entered middle age, her eyes lost their original brilliance and became the bondage of the world and the object of family calculations.
Those who are ridiculed and protected behind it bring a touch of sadness to the heart of every middle-aged woman.
Huang Rong's actions have been widely criticized in two main ways:
After the end of the Hero Conference, Guo Jing felt an irrepressible smile at Yang Guo's growth. He felt that he was a complete "stupid girl", and in the eyes of others, she was the girl who was called a "stupid girl". Huang Rong seemed right after witnessing this scene"Yang Guo became a son-in-law"The proposal is no longer offended.
After knowing that Guo Fu had made a mistake, Huang Rong hurriedly sent her daughter to other places, and at the same time was thinking about how to make Guo'er stop pursuing and get her husband's forgiveness.
She is so selfish, so selfish that our male protagonist's whole life is implicated.
However, in the work "The Condor Heroes", Huang Rong is just an ordinary character who has escaped the aura of the protagonist.
Jin Yongfan has an internal logic for all the details that make him feel disgraced, and this logic shows that "I am both a wife and a mother." Once a woman is married, it is difficult for them to become an independent individual.
She became her husband's wife and had children of her own.
Her eyes are full of contentment, a middle-aged woman who puts her family first and herself behind her.
With the need to meet the various needs of family members, her steps will gradually become heavy.
That meager aura is now just a glimmer of brilliance of the pearl, and it can only be watched helplessly, it is neither practical, nor can it protect the safety of families and people, let alone properly arrange life.
It's an innate nature, the first reaction of women, with"Political correctness"It has nothing to do with it, a mother's great heart is for her children, and her selfishness is also for her children.
For Guo Fu, choosing the right husband is something that Huang Rong values very much, considering that Yang Guo was a good person at that time, I am more inclined to be the mother-in-law who "prefers the rich over the poor".
Guo Fu caused huge trouble, and her first reaction was not to seek justice for Yang, but to hope for her daughter's health – to put her children first. Although it is against the principles of justice, for the mother, it is her first choice.
Only by experiencing difficult choices can we experience true life.
Only through these small details, we can gain an in-depth understanding of Jin Yong's deep understanding of human nature: the rivers and lakes are not groundless, it is not only full of fighting and killing, nor is it just the entanglement of love, but also the cover of family affection, the needs of human nature, and the inner sorrow of those who have to protect themselves.
The real achievement does not lie in each other, but in Huang Rong's concessions.
Throughout his life, Guo Jing always cherished friendship and righteousness, and never thought about others. No matter what the trivial matters at home or the family status of his children are, he always adheres to the great idea in his heart, that is, Xiangyang.
Most of this middle-aged man, who is almost pure in moral concepts, is portrayed by his wife Huang Rong.
Before Huang Rong married Brother Jing, he had gone to great lengths to find his best martial arts instructor;After the two got married, they found a good husband for him. After they fell in love, whenever Guo Jing was been"Jiangnan Seven Monsters"When she left Huang Rong, Huang Rong was always the smart but righteous girl.
I will not go into detail about what happened after the marriage.
Throughout their lives, Guo Jing has always been an upright boy full of true feelings. The reason why he has not been calculated to death is mainly because Huang Rong let go of her naivety towards Brother Jing early, always observed the situation around him, and cared about his situation every day.
In Jin Yong's story, the chivalrous couple is the most common character.
Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu, Zhang Wuji and Zhao Min, as well as Hu Chong and Ren Yingying.
However, only Guo Jing and Huang Rong describe their married life.
Nothing is like in a fairy tale, where happiness and joy are the end of the story.
In fact, I divided my heart in two halves, one to my husband and the other to my children, whom I brought warmth and wind and snow to myself. In the final chapter of the Condor, Huang Rong seems to have returned to the past, she regained her innocence and vitality in front of her father and that naughty child, but in middle age, her appearance is no longer the same as before.
She has been Mrs. Guo for a long time, but as time passed, she gradually forgot what the little girl named Huang Rong was and what her true face was.
Summary section. When women enter the palace of marriage, their identity does not seem to change much.
Now that she has become a wife, she will definitely care about everything in her husband and handle it carefully
As a mother, she almost subconsciously thinks about her children's academics, careers, and marital issues.
Even if you are no longer in the rivers and lakes or in society;Even if the sword is like a dream, it has become a thousand faces in the workplace.
Huang Rong was indeed not so likable in middle age, and the good memories she left in "Shooting the Condor" were ruined.
However, this is the true meaning of life, whether you want to or not, you should give up that lightness and loveliness.
In the TV series, when Huo Du was competing for the position of the leader of the martial arts alliance, Huang Rong did not hesitate to share the dog-beating stick mantra with him - she could completely abandon Yang Guo and leave with her daughter and Xiaowu. Huang Rong said affectionately: "If he lends a hand in distress, I will never abandon him, I will let you leave (especially Guo Fu)."
She has always insisted on justice, but there are some prerequisites for justice to be realized. Before the major events of right and wrong, she still maintained a detached attitude from the world.
Huang Rong's identity has changed, which makes it difficult for her to always immerse herself in the girl's emotions. She doesn't like to be told about her shortcomings, and she doesn't want people to associate her with a "bad woman". Those short-sighted, cunning and sophisticated behaviors have quietly infiltrated her heart over time.
When I was young, I only felt the beauty of the dragon girl, but I only understood Huang Rong's difficulties in middle age.
This "difficulty" can only be truly felt by those who are also living in marriage.
In that slightly painful sadness, there is a sense of compromise with society, as well as expectations and support for marriage.
This can also be seen as a beautiful thing.
As people enter middle age, their minds become more peaceful.
This courage is cultivated in everyday life, like:"Ten steps to kill one thing, gods and Buddhas do not stand in the way"All the same, move forward without fear.
I hope that Guo Jing and his partners can understand this pain, share it together, and move forward hand in hand.