My name is Li Feng, my family used to be an ordinary rural family, my parents were farmers, I was the eldest son in the family, and I also had a younger sister and a younger brother. Our family's financial situation has always been poor, but my parents have worked hard to make our life better.
I work in the field and send money home every month, but my family's financial situation is still not improving. Last year, my mother died suddenly, leaving only three children and my father in the family. I discussed it with my sister and decided to go home to take care of my father and younger brother so that he could enjoy his old age in peace.
On the evening of my mother's funeral, my sister and I were ready to leave home to work in the field. But when he was stopped by his eldest brother, he suddenly took out an agreement that read: "138,000 alimony per person".
We were all surprised and asked what he meant. He said that he had negotiated with his father, and that we were going to come up with so much money to support him. I am very dissatisfied because I have sent a lot of money home, and the family's financial situation has not been good, **What about the money to support my father?
The eldest brother said that this was his father's decision, and if we did not come up with money to support our father, he would give everything in the family to the younger brother and would not give us anything more.
My sister and I were helpless and we didn't know what to do. We discussed with the eldest brother and hoped to reduce some alimony, but the eldest brother disagreed, saying that it was my father's decision and we could not change it.
We ended up with the money to support our father. But since then, my sister and I have rarely come home to see my father and brother. We felt that the eldest brother was lying to us, and we didn't know how to deal with the family.
Time flies, and a year has passed in the blink of an eye. My father suddenly fell ill and needed a lot of money**. But the eldest brother has no money, so he can only rely on me and my sister to pay for the ** father.
During this period, my sister and I often visited my father. We found out that my father was lonely and needed our company and love. We begin to reflect on whether our previous decisions were the right one.
Eventually, my father died. In the process of dealing with the aftermath, we found out that the eldest brother had been lying to us, and he had not discussed the matter of alimony with his father. We begin to wonder if we made the right decision.
After the death of our father, we decided to re-examine our lives and family relationships. We decided to redistribute the family's possessions and responsibilities. We find out that Big Brother has been cheating on us, and he lives a lavish life. We were angry, but we didn't expose his lies.
We rearranged the family's life and property distribution. We decided to give my eldest brother a sum of money every month for living expenses, but we would not let him manage everything in the house. We also decided to give my brother a sum of money every month for living expenses and Xi expenses. We also decided to set aside a sum of money for ourselves every month for living expenses and supporting our father.
In the process of reorganizing our family life, we found a lot of problems. We kept communicating and negotiating, and finally solved the problem. We also discovered a lot of strengths and weaknesses, and also learned to understand and tolerate each other.
Now we have started a new life again. We rarely go home to see my brother and eldest brother anymore. But we often call my brother ** and care about his Xi and living situation. We also often call the eldest brother ** to ask about his living situation and Xi situation. We also often get together with friends, chat and share each other's life experiences and emotional experiences.