Apple CEO Steve Jobs once said:
Never think that your cleverness is truly wise, and always be a fool.
The smartest people in the world have never been those who are shrewd and calculating, but kind-hearted people.
Life in the world, not too shrewd, kind-hearted, is the highest state of wisdom.
The more you calculate, the narrower the road becomes
There is such a story.
A young man, hearing that there was a lot of gold on the other side of the river, took a long detour and finally found a bridge that led there.
Just as he was crossing the bridge and running towards the place where there was gold, he suddenly turned around and hurried back.
It turned out that he was afraid that other people would also find the bridge, so he turned back and demolished the bridge.
In the end, the young man found a large number of **, but when he rushed back to the river excitedly, he found that this was an island, that bridge, and the only way to the outside world...
In our lives, there are such people.
I thought I had taken advantage of it, and I had exhausted all the mechanisms, but in the end, it was the same as the ending of this story, a failure.
The human heart is a road, the more calculated, the narrower the road becomes, and finally cut off its own back road.
If you are kind, the wider the road, and you will benefit in the end.
I have seen a report that the reporter interviewed a farmer:
Is there any secret to your family's corn harvest being the best every year? ”
He replied, "Share the best corn seeds with your neighbors." ”
Everyone was stunned. He laughed and said
Only if the surrounding seeds are good corn seeds, when it is time to pollinate, you can get the best! ”
The world says that "New Language" has a saying, small wins rely on wisdom, and big wins rely on virtue.
Only by treating others with sincerity will we gain sincerity; Only by doing things honestly can we reap the long-term results.
The more calculating, the more tired the heart becomes
William, an American psychologist, once said that anyone who is too smart and calculating is actually a very unfortunate person.
Although they can calculate, they will not have peace in their hearts, and they will put people in a miserable situation.
Calculation is an act of extreme internal friction.
In a small town in France, there lives a 121-year-old lady.
One day, she was interviewed by a reporter who told about her own personal experience.
It was 1965, and the old lady was 90 years old at the time, and an uninvited guest approached her and insisted on giving her a monthly pension.
The old lady was overjoyed, but thought, isn't this pie in the sky?
There is no such good thing in the world.
After careful questioning, I found out that the man's name was Lecce, and he wanted the old lady's ancestral villa.
He was thinking that the old lady would live for seven or eight years at most, so he wanted to get a cheap property in this way.
The old lady, who had no heirs, agreed to Lecce's proposal and signed the contract with him at the notary.
After that, Lecce looked forward to her illness every day and wanted to take the house quickly.
But the old lady became more and more energetic, and the scheming Lecce began to be depressed, and her health deteriorated.
In 1995, Lecce returned to the West, and in the past 30 years, the pension he paid to the old lady has been four times higher than the house price.
Lecce never expected that a good thing would fall short because of his calculations.
Zhou Guoping said: In the colorful modern life, let us remember this ancient truth, and only by living a simple life can we live freely. ”
Calculation is the shackles of the heart, and simplicity is the source of happiness.
Being simple is the greatest shrewdness.
To calculate others is to calculate oneself
Some students once asked Mr. Nan Huaijin, a master of Chinese culture, what kind of people are easy to succeed?
Nan Huaijin replied
A stupid person, a person who doesn't play tricks and is very sincere in doing things to people.
He said that the person who has the highest sincerity is the most successful.
Some people love to be smart, ashamed of being "honest and clumsy", and proud of being "shrewd and clever".
For the sake of money, for the sake of status, for the sake of fame and fortune, but in the end, they often end up betraying their relatives.
Wang Xifeng in "Dream of Red Mansions" has been calculating all his life.
Once she encounters a conflict of interest, she will do her best, using her "10,000 hearts" to weigh the pros and cons, and calculate the gains and losses.
In the entire Grand View Garden, she is famous for her deep scheming and calculating essence, so Li Kun said that she "everyone in the world has been calculated by you".
It's a pity that she has been constantly making wishful calculations for herself all her life, but in the end she didn't get anything, and she finally died of illness, ending tragically.
Cao Xueqin wrote to her in "Dream of Red Mansions" that the agency was too clever and mistook Qingqing's life.
A man who calculates is an unfortunate man.
No one in this world is stupid, and calculating others will eventually hurt themselves.
Your calculations for others will eventually come back to you.
If you design a friend, you will be separated from your friend and eventually isolated.
If you think about your partner, you will lose your integrity and end up in business.
From the moment you calculate others, that's when you go downhill.
If virtue is lacking, it will eventually harm others and oneself.
Loyalty and kindness are good deeds.
The ancients said that a gentleman carries things with virtue, and virtue is blessed.
What determines a person's ultimate achievement is not the gains and losses of each bit, but a person's foresight and humility.
In the future, be less calculating, be more honest, and accumulate good luck.
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