Every day, I feel more and more anxious about building a house for my mother-in-law. The eldest brother and his wife have a monthly income of 16,000, but they can't get a cent. Watching this family fall apart because of interests, my heart was filled with indignation and helplessness that I could not dispel.
Wife, what do you say you should do?"I asked anxiously.
Alas, that's a real headache. Both of them are so stingy, they just don't give some money out, and we can't do anything about them. "The wife sighed.
I sighed, and the irritability in my heart could not be calmed down. It's a family, why is it so difficult to get along for money?And my mother-in-law often felt angry and aggrieved because of this.
Your family is not very good, I have some spare money here, let's decorate the house for you. "I tried to help, but I was annoyed by my eldest brother's refusal.
Bad live?It was a good stay!The current house is also very good, and we don't need you to pay for our decoration. "The eldest brother refused simply.
Alas, don't persuade him anymore, people don't want to, and you can't force it. "My wife persuaded me.
Seeing the stubbornness of the eldest brother and his wife, I could only sigh silently.
On this day, I came to my eldest brother's house again. My mother-in-law looked at me with a blank look and said:"Kid, it would be nice if this house could be well decorated, but your eldest brother is too stingy and won't pay a penny. "
I felt a grievance in my heart, and looking at my mother-in-law's eyes, I decided to try again.
Mother-in-law, don't be angry, I'll tell my eldest brother again, and the couple will always listen to me. "I comforted my mother-in-law.
I found my eldest brother and spoke again.
Big brother, this house has to be renovated, don't you think?"I hope he understands my good intentions.
I don't think the house is very good to live in now, and it doesn't need to be renovated. Besides, it's not like you didn't hear what your wife said, so you don't persuade it. "
I was so frustrated by his answer that I felt resurgent. But I still held back my emotions and had to sigh and leave.
When I got home, I told my wife all about it.
You see, I built a house for my mother-in-law, and the eldest brother and his wife had a monthly income of 16,000, but they couldn't get a cent. What's going on?"I sighed with palpitations.
Alas, it's really annoying that the family is arguing over a little money. "My wife also felt helpless.
The family was in danger because of money, and the anxiety in my heart could not be dissipated. What's next?
After some time, the eldest brother's son suddenly became seriously ill and needed an expensive operation. This put the whole family in a difficult situation.
Big brother, what can I do about this?The cost of surgery is so high, and your son still needs a long-term **, which is really annoying. "I said anxiously to my eldest brother.
Hey, yes, that's a real headache. But we have so much money, it's really out of the question. "The eldest brother's voice was full of helplessness.
I looked at my eldest brother's helpless expression, and I also felt uncomfortable in my heart. After all, this is a life-threatening matter, how can you watch your family suffer like this?
I quickly found my wife to discuss the matter. My wife was also very sad.
It's really hard to do, the cost of surgery is so high, we can't afford to pay that much. "The wife sighed.
I looked at my wife's expression, and my heart was full of guilt and worry about this family. This home was already unhappy because of money problems, and now the unexpected situation has troubled me like never before.
Sister-in-law, I heard that your family needs a lot of money for treatment, and I have some savings here, so you can use it. "The mother-in-law took the initiative to speak.
I suddenly felt a wave of warmth in my heart, I didn't expect my mother-in-law to take such an initiative. At this moment, I felt a little embarrassed. It's that I haven't been able to understand their difficulties, and it's because I've never been able to offer help.
Mom, how can you take so much money?That's your life's savings. "The eldest brother's wife was very upset.
Daughter, the health of the child is the most important, and this money is nothing. "The mother-in-law showed a determined look.
At this moment, I seemed to see the warmth and harmony of this family. Perhaps it was this sudden incident that made us reawaken to the importance of family members. What's next?
My relationship with my eldest brother's family became even more strained. What should have been a moment of laughter and laughter at a dinner party at home turned into the beginning of embarrassment and strife.
Big brother, are you still reluctant to even have a little peak account?If you look at other people's houses, you can see at a glance that they are old and obviously need to be renovated. "I tried again to persuade Big Brother.
Brother, don't keep talking about this, we really don't have the money to pay. Moreover, my sister-in-law and I don't feel the need to renovate, so don't be nosy. "The eldest brother looked a little annoyed.
You two can't just be so stingy, can you?I built a house for my mother-in-law out of good intentions, why can't you understand it?"I was a little disappointed and angry.
Good intentions?You built a house for your mother-in-law out of good intentions?Hmph, I think you're just talking, and you don't really intend to help us at all. "The eldest brother scoffed disdainfully.
These words were like a heavy blow, and an indescribable pain welled up in my heart. Why is my good intentions misinterpreted as hypocrisy and hypocrisy?And my mother-in-law's helpless eyes pierced my heart even more.
When I got home, I couldn't calm my irritability. The attitude of the eldest brother's family made me unable to let go, I just wanted to help them, but it caused so many disputes and misunderstandings. The wife saw it in her eyes and felt very worried.
Don't think too much about their family's affairs. You want to help them, but they don't appreciate it and can't do anything about it. Let's stop meddling and make it even more unpleasant. "My wife persuaded me.
However, I really can't bear such misunderstandings and disputes. I just wanted to help them, but I never thought it would lead to such consequences. "I muttered feebly.
This incident has affected me for a long time, and the atmosphere in the house has become no longer harmonious. I felt more and more that such family entanglements could not be easily resolved, and anxiety and heartache followed. Next, how do I deal with this family relationship that is drifting apart?
The next day, I returned to my eldest brother's house, haunted by uneasiness. When my mother-in-law saw me, she quietly pulled me aside.
Child, look at my grandson, he caught a cold during this time, and the doctor said that he would do a check-up, and you said that this house could be used to make a profit, and the child should rest. "The mother-in-law's voice was full of worry.
Hearing my mother-in-law's words, my heart tightened suddenly. I wanted to persuade my eldest brother again for the sake of the child's health, but I was a little hesitant in my heart.
I found my eldest brother and picked it up again with ease"Brother, you said that the child is not in good health now, and if the house can be decorated warmly, maybe the child will be happier. "
The eldest brother showed a tired look on his face and replied bluntly:"You don't have to worry about it, we can take care of the children ourselves. It's useless to decorate, don't bother me anymore. "
The angry appearance of my eldest brother makes me feel ashamed, but I can't bear to worry about my mother-in-law. I tried again to explain to my eldest brother, but he still insisted on going his own way.
Back home, I told my wife about all this.
Alas, look at your eldest brother, he is just too ruthless. He could solve this matter, but he blindly played tricks. "The wife's tone was also full of disappointment.
My heart was also full of struggles, and I was a little helpless that this family could be so irreconcilable because of a small matter.
All of this made me feel completely hopeless, and I finally decided to talk to my big brother again, and we couldn't let this situation continue.
But before I can do that, I need to calm down and think about how I can resolve this paradoxical contradiction.
On this day, my eldest brother suddenly found me with an anxious expression. "Brother, do you know how my family's restaurant business is doing recently?"There was a hint of helplessness in his tone.
I don't know, why are you asking this all of a sudden?"I'm a little confused.
Business is not doing well, the income is getting less and less, and the family's expenses are getting bigger and bigger. If you can't go on like this, can you give me some money?"The eldest brother's attitude was a little urgent.
My family is not rich, and we have not been able to solve the problem of building a house. "I tried to explain it to him.
Can't you?Now even my mother-in-law's house has not been renovated, how tight do you say the family economy is?"The eldest brother looked a little dissatisfied.
I felt extremely anxious and helpless. The family is always disturbed for some pecuniary gain, and I can't do anything but silently endure the pressure of these emotions.
It seemed that family relationships had become more complicated since then, and I felt as if I had been drawn into an irresolvable struggle.
All of this forced me to start thinking, how do I handle these relationships?My heart was full of contradictions and struggles. I'm just a simple family member, why did I get into such an entanglement?How can we resolve these conflicts and bring peace back to the family?