The era of writing and writing.
Figure from the Internet Infringement, please contact to delete.
In the era of WeChat, people don't have to see each other every day to maintain their feelings.
However, we can't see the real situation of the other person, and we don't know anything about their expressions at that time or their current state.
Many times, two people have not been in touch for a long time, and the other party has never blocked you, not because you have been forgotten or completely abandoned, but because he has a dislike for you.
01: You have a suspicion, and he doesn't know how to break the game
In all interpersonal relationships, conflicts and contradictions are inevitable.
Sometimes, these conflicts and contradictions do not change the feelings of two people, and the emotions are resolved, and then they have a long talk and just talk about it.
However, it is precisely because we think that we will always be like this, but we ignore the other person's feelings and make them dislike us.
These disagreements may not cause a rift in the relationship, but they may make the other person feel embarrassed and don't know how to talk to you.
Especially when we show that we don't care, it makes the other person feel even more confused, not knowing whether our true mind doesn't matter, or if we don't want to mention it.
As a result, the other person is likely to be hesitant for fear of starting another argument or hurting feelings.
In this case, they will remain silent and do not reach out to you.
02: You have a dislike, and he is still angry
There is also a possibility that after two people quarrel, you think that the relationship has not changed, but in fact, you have hurt the other party very deeply, so that he feels that the resentment in his heart has not disappeared, so he will have a dislike with you and no longer contact you.
The other person may feel that you have been left out or that you have been badly hit, and you don't know why.
Of course, he may be angry, thinking that you can never go back to the past, and you will avoid being hurt again, so he chooses to cut off contact with you and express his inner dissatisfaction.
He needs to be calm, but he also needs your care and proximity.
If you are already aware of this situation, the best course of action is to give him some time and space and find opportunities to communicate with him.
In fact, if the relationship between two people is very sincere, there will be no concept of "whoever speaks first will lose", trying to open the other party's heart knot, make an effort for this relationship, and then decide whether to continue, is a wise approach for adults.
03: You have a dislike, and he is reluctant to delete you
Human emotions are very strange, even if there are cracks in the relationship between the two parties, they are unwilling to give up, always thinking that they can mend it, and they are unwilling to take this step because of the self-protection mechanism.
This is one of the reasons why even if the other party's feelings for you have faded or the conflict has deepened, he is still reluctant to delete you.
Because the other party once had a very deep affection for you, I still fantasize about the day when I repair the relationship with you.
Or perhaps, in the past interactions, every time he bravely took ninety-nine steps, this time, he hopes that you can take one more step.
In this case, they may not contact you, but they also don't block you.
If you are also waiting, try to take the first step, if the other party has to inch in, you can see his true face, and there is no expectation;
If you decide to finish, explain it all at once, or delete the other person first, give him a hard time, let him know your final decision, and not keep hanging on his appetite.
In fact, there are indeed many reasons why a person does not contact you or block you.
This requires you to screen your relationship based on your previous past.
In either case, the best course of action is always to communicate effectively with the other person and find out what he really thinks.
In interpersonal communication, there is no absolute right answer, and the most appropriate solution will always exist between you, because both parties value and cherish the relationship only in each other's hearts.
Managing and maintaining every relationship with heart is our sincere attitude towards others, but if the other party does not have this intention, you do not need to entangle, and timely withdrawal is the greatest respect for each other.
end