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I don't know if you have ever understood the growth process of mushrooms: most of them are in dark corners in the early days, with no sunlight and no fertilizer, and they are often faced with the situation of self-destruction;Only when it grows tall enough and strong enough can it attract attention, but at this time it can already accept the sun and rain on its own.
Mushroom effect
(mushrooms effect)
Mushrooms are often grown in harsh environments, making their home in dark, damp corners, without sunlight and fertilizer for long periods of time, and often fending for themselves. However, it is only those umbrella mushrooms that grow tall enough and strong enough that they begin to slowly attract attention, but by this time they can already receive sunlight and rain on their own and thrive.
Psychologists also extend the mushroom effect to the fact that anyone is destined to experience different hardships and thorns in the process of growing up, and overcoming these difficulties can stand out from the encirclement and embrace excellence.
Mushroom period
Everyone wants to be valued, but this idea is too idealistic, especially for beginners, who have to go through a darker stage at the beginning. This is the "mushroom period".
Perhaps, have you also experienced the following "mushroom period"?
In the Xi of learning, in the era of deep involution, I strive to climb up, wanting to get the attention and recognition of teachers and classmates, but I always seem to be a neglected companion.
At work, as a newcomer to the workplace, no matter how hard he tries, he is never reused by his boss, and is placed in a dark corner, responsible for some unimportant chores and errands, and is often criticized, blamed and even accepted on behalf of others.
The mushroom effect in life
1 In the workplaceIn the workplace, newcomers are often not reused when they first start working. They are always put on hold in unimportant positions to do inconspicuous things. When they work in obscurity for a period of time, if they are good enough, they will be seen and even reused by their superiors. And if the job is a mess, you can be marginalized or even fired.
In fact, many people have experienced this mushroom effect in the workplace, and they may be in this state for many years and cannot change, probably because their own willpower is weak, so that the environment does not promote their growth, but rather limits their motivation.
2 In educationThe mushroom effect in education is also very common. When I first entered the school, the teacher treated every student with the same attitude, because the teacher did not know the ability and character of each student.
However, after some time together, the teacher will select some people with better academic Xi and personality that are more in line with the teacher's values to serve as class managers. And those students who are "reused" will learn Xi work harder and become the top students in the class. And those students who are not reused will become "mushrooms" in the class, forgotten in the corner by teachers and other students.
At this time, if they work hard and accumulate steadily, they may counterattack, but if they are depressed and left to fend for themselves, they may become "bad students" in the eyes of teachers and classmates.
How to face the "mushroom period".
Even if you don't get taken seriously, you have to do your best, accumulate strength, and accumulate steadily
When a person steps into society, the first thing he will find is that the earth does not revolve around you, and many things in life are far beyond your expectations. At this time, accepting mediocrity and doing your best is the most important thing!It's better to be angry than to be angry.
When you have not yet succeeded and are treated unfairly such as discrimination and insults, the wisest thing to do is to be self-reliant.
Take the work you are doing seriously, take practical actions to prove your worth, and lay a solid foundation for the future.
In the darkest embryonic period of life, we must have the courage to persevere, because time will write the best answer. Success is not achieved overnight, learn to recharge at a low place, accumulate strength, in order to accumulate thick and thin.
Believe in yourself and face the challenge head-on
The biggest enemy of man is not anyone, but oneself who does not dare to face and change the status quo. Life may always leave us bruised and bruised, but those places that have been wounded will surely become the strongest part of our body, giving us the ability to withstand the wind and cold of the world alone.
Maintain a good mindset and adapt to all kinds of changes
If you don't experience wind and rain, how can you see a rainbow?In today's society, it can be said that behind every successful person there are countless tribulations, in this era of competition, the best way to deal with change is to have a strong heart.
Always maintain a good attitude and take a positive approach to work and life. When you can always face life with an optimistic, confident and upward heart, then no matter how distant the future is, it is not a dream!
Start small, and there is spring in the corner
As we all know, the most common thought that arises when a person is mired in a quagmire is to give up. From the beginning, he didn't get the attention he deserved, always doing inconsequential little things, and sometimes he had to accept unwarranted harsh criticism. But it turns out that real success belongs to those who persevere.
No one in this world will give you everything you want for nothing, and you need to use patience and perseverance to win it. If there is no accumulation of obscurity, how can there be a chance to leap forward?In fact, every experience of enduring humiliation is like a silkworm cocoon, which is a necessary step before becoming a butterfly, and only by enduring the past can you get the opportunity to shine in the sun.
Remember, only by identifying the goal and persevering, the future can be expected.
"Man has to live like a mushroom, and it grows in secret. When you hide in the shadows, you are always preparing for maturity. ”
The experience of the "mushroom period" is not a valuable asset in life. Behind every shiny surface is a pile of spores that are generally not appreciated. Waking up from the mud and growing in the dampness, no matter how tiny the life form is, it will eventually hold up a world of its own.
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