Recently, there has been a lot of hot talk on the Internet about the marriage of men and women!First of all, a pair of young people began to talk about marriage, but because the woman temporarily asked for an extra 30,000 yuan, the man angrily withdrew from the marriage and traveled around the country with the original bride priceAnother couple of men and women were imprisoned after being engaged because the man forcibly had a relationship, and the woman called the police and was imprisoned, causing an uproar on the InternetThere is also a man who has been married for 16 years and has added three children to his family one after another, but it was found that none of the three children were his own, which was eye-catching. 
Marriage news like this will be on the hot search from time to time, and while we are too addicted to gossip, we must also have proper reflection and understanding.
Marriage is a major event in the lives of two people, both men and women must keep their eyes open, and after understanding their other half clearly, they must decide whether to get married or not.
It is best to see what the other person's strengths and weaknesses are before dealing with the object, and whether you can accept the other person's shortcomings. If you can't tolerate each other, you still have to stop the loss as soon as possible, otherwise even if you are together or get married, there will be a day when it breaks out, and the final result is still separation. On the issue of marriage, our ancestors actually had their own opinions, and they also left us a lot of sayings and proverbs in this regard.
For example, "buy a horse to see the hooves, marry a daughter-in-law to see the eldest sister-in-law", "marry a girl to see the mother, plant a tree to see the seedlings", "be humble and don't love a rich girl, life is expensive and don't stain the green building girl", etc., are all views on the marriage of men and women. There is also an old saying, "Don't marry a wife, don't marry a man and don't marry a man", which is also a piece of advice for marriage in later life. So what exactly does this saying mean?What kind of people are the "warped mouths" and "Tiantianlei"?How can there be such a statement?Today, let's take a look at the doorways in this proverb, and after speaking, let's see if it makes sense and has learning significance.
Don't marry a wife. The first half of the sentence is about a man when choosing a wife, if the small mouth is often upturned, or if the lips are protruding, then try not to marry. There are actually several theories here, one is from the physiognomy. 
China has always circulated this heart-born speech, and the "upturned mouth" woman is usually a person who can speak well and think a lot in physiognomy, simply put, not only "very heavy-minded", but also likes gossip, more mouths, more tongues, sowing discord and other behaviors. It is necessary to know that "the cause of the disaster", if such a person marries home, it is like going home with a time bomb, maybe it will explode one day, causing unrest at home. "Cocked mouth" refers to a woman who likes to pout. As we all know, when the mouth is pouted, it is generally when you are angry and coquettish, and occasionally this behavior may feel cute, but if you develop this habit, it will only feel terrible. Women who have the habit of "pouting" are usually narrow-minded, and it is difficult for such people to get along or communicate, because if there is a little bit of what she meant, or if a word or action offends them, they will pout their mouths and ignore no one. 
When dealing with such a "warped mouth", you need to be careful at all times, and as a husband and wife who have been together for a long time, a man marrying such a wife is likely to cause family disputes, leading to tension or breakdown of the marital relationship. Because every word and every action you have to think about before acting, for fear of making your wife unhappy, how can you live for a long time. So, there you have it".Don't marry a wife. There is such a saying, telling future generations that before looking for a partner, they must first understand the personality of the object. Now let's talk about the second half of the sentence"Marry a man, don't marry Tiantianlei".This is an aspect that women are cautioned to pay attention to when choosing a husband. 
What is "Tiantianlei"?Do you build a house with bricks every day?Of course not, this refers to playing mahjong, and "every day" means to indulge in building walls and playing mahjong all day long. It's okay to play mahjong once in a while to relax, but if you indulge in it, you won't be able to. Originally, for a long time, it was the male protagonist, and the man was responsible for working to make money to support the family, if you went to play mahjong every day, it would naturally leave the family behind, and the wife would naturally be unhappy. In addition, playing mahjong is actually a kind of gambling, as we all know, once addicted to the gambling table, it has the consequence of bankruptcy. Throughout the ages, how many men have killed red eyes at the gambling table, resulting in pawning wives and children. 
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If a woman marries such a man, you can imagine what happiness can there be?Therefore, in order to avoid changes in marriage in the middle of the way, and for the sake of the woman's own happiness, before looking for a partner, if you meet a man who is "every day", you must keep your eyes open and be cautious about marrying. The above is the approximate meaning of this proverb, which is also the marriage experience that working people have summed up from their long-term life practice