If a person doesn't love, it is definitely not a momentary decision, but in the process of getting along, the expectations in his heart are lowered, and the frequency and sincerity of giving are reduced.
Many women can't see through this, so when a man leaves, it's hard to believe it, and ask the other party why he would break the promise he made to love him for a lifetime and betray love.
When you taste the bitter fruits of your feelings, regain your senses, and re-examine your relationship with each other, you will find that the original change of heart of the other party has long been traced back to the source, but you have been burying your head in the beauty of love, deceiving yourself, and not realizing it earlier.
If a man changes his mind and no longer loves, there will be obvious strange behavior, and women should be aware of it, so as not to become passive in love.
I've seen a story about a female college student and her brother who got together, and it should be a good story, but my brother is already married and has children, so the combination of the two can not only not be made public, but also needs to be careful to avoid everyone's attention.
The younger brother came home at night, in order to chat with his sweetheart, took the opportunity to go to the toilet, held the mobile phone, and talked about love, but the wife just felt that her husband was occupying more and more time in the bathroom, thinking that modern people have the habit of looking at their mobile phones in the bathroom, and did not care.
gradually found that her husband's situation was getting more and more, carrying his mobile phone with him, ** and even sneaking to the corridor at two o'clock in the morning, and finally couldn't help but be curious, paid careful attention to it, and understood that there was a problem in the marriage.
If a man changes his mind, he will deliberately hide his interpersonal relationships, there is a ghost in his heart, and he is afraid that the person on the pillow will know, so he will no longer be honest, and what kind of person he gets along with will become a mystery in life, which is a manifestation of deliberately hiding his partner.
People's energy is limited, spending too much time on a person, naturally have to reduce the time spent with another person, a man's change of heart, can not let the people around him know, so he will find all kinds of excuses, go home late or not go home, the best excuse is to work overtime.
Such a reason is valid and will not make the wife suspicious in her heart, but it can be supported, but if there is too much time, combined with other clues that may be exposed, it is easy for the wife to find that the marriage is in a situation.
Junichi Watanabe's ** "Betrayal" describes a man who has an extramarital love affair and divides his energy into three parts, one for work, one for family, and the remaining part for extramarital lovers who want more.
The time allotted for work cannot be reduced, so the time originally given to the family is not short, the wife always sees her husband working overtime, but when she comes home the next day, she changes small items such as socks, and once verified, she understands what happened.
If a woman finds that her partner has more and more reasons to work overtime in their normal life and work schedule, they need to be careful to distinguish whether the other person is actually working overtime or using it as an excuse to spend time with others.
Xu Shenshan in "Thirty Years" was originally very obedient to his wife Gu Jia, women control the direction of family development, and men work diligently, such a division of labor makes the life of a small family better and better.
In the process of a business trip, Xu Moshan got acquainted with the young and beautiful Lin You, the other party's passion, vitality and obedience, inspired Xu Moshan's self-confidence and vanity as a man, in the face of his wife Gu Jia's always strong big woman style, he turned his back like a stubborn child, unwilling to listen to any arrangements from the other party.
Xu Moshan's attitude made his wife feel incredible, because this was unprecedented, they had been together for many years, and they had already figured out what the other party was, and after paying a little attention, Gu Jia found that her husband was dissatisfied with herself, and she was just another woman in the womb.
Men have different hearts, are attracted to other women, and will unconsciously compare with their wives, precisely because the lovers they meet outside of marriage give themselves and their wives completely different feelings, and there is a sense of freshness, so they will take the risk of breaking the principle of the bottom line of marriage.
Compared with love, love outside of marriage is submissive, and the wife's immutability will make the man bored and unconsciously reveal his emotions.
Marriage is not the end of affection, married life, and preserving marriage is something that needs to be done for a lifetime.