There is a word, even if you look at it from a distance, it will make people afraid, when you really face it, people's pride will be slowly destroyed by it, and when you finally spend it, you will find that life is only like this, and this word is: people reach middle age.
Middle age is not easy, and it is unforgettable. is in the middle of the family, up and down people are counting on themselves, no longer like when they were young, they have to think carefully if they want to be presumptuous, although they have lost the courage to be willful, but they also add a calmness and heaviness.
As Fu Peirong said, when people reach middle age, in addition to "knowing what they can't do and doing it", they must also think about what Zhuangzi said, "knowing what they can't and being content with this life".
When people reach middle age, in addition to learning the brave and fearless spirit of Confucius, they must also learn from Zhuangzi's acceptance of fate in some aspects.
When people reach middle age, there are some things that they can't control themselves.
The pain of a middle-aged man and a middle-aged woman is not connected, they are contradictory, if you can understand each other, the pain will be halved, and if you blame each other, it will only get more and more painful.
They are just busy with their lives every day, desperately trying to earn money to support their families.
The bitterness of men and women is difficult to understand. The pressure of making money at home is all on him alone, going out, getting along with colleagues, customers, and bosses, and pretending to be tired every day.
Back at home, they have to change their role from a hard-working man to a good husband and father, and life goes around in circles and doesn't leave them much time to think.
It is difficult for men to understand that women have houses. Men are mainly concerned with work and family, while women are also responsible for education and family harmony.
They have a hard day, doing housework by themselves, coaxing children, taking care of the elderly, and after a hard day, they have to welcome the man home with a smile.
There are many difficult things in life, fuel, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, countless trivial things, they have to take care of, they are the support behind the men, there are complaints that they can't want to say like young people say they say, they have to take care of the emotions of a family.
There is such a sentence on the Internet, people do not know until they are middle-aged: every day is led by desire, desire is endless, and life is about to end.
When people reach middle age, they don't have many aspirations other than family happiness, career success, good health, and lofty ambitions in their youth. However, time wears down everything, and these are the simplest things that people seek.
However, even then, they need to use all their strength to reach middle age, trapped in life, with little respite, only life.
It is said on the Internet that when people reach middle age, their hearts are as calm as a mirror, they no longer suddenly feel happy and sad, they are broad-minded, and they will not complain.
When people reach middle age, their mood is also broadened, they have experienced time, and they have understood everything that time gives themselves, time has become calm, strong, and indifferent, but time has also taught them to bear it alone.
Some pain, some hurt, we only smile after we meet, because we see more ridicule and contempt, and we see more human misfortunes, so some misfortunes we have long been used to.
When people reach middle age, they no longer have the hustle and bustle of youth, and they don't want to tell others the pain of youth.
We also learn to hide ourselves, we just want to be strong in front of others, or secretly wipe our tears in the corner.
I have seen countless such shots, on the construction site, a man is tired all day, sitting on the steps of the building, holding two steamed buns in his hands, swallowing a bottle of mineral water, tears flowing down unconsciously.
But when he went to bed the next day, he still went to work on the construction site with his tools.
Because behind him, there are his wife, children, and parents, who have great grievances, and he can't stop, no matter how many tears he has, he can only flow silently, in a place where others can't see.
We all understand the grievances of middle-aged people, but everyone's pain is not connected, and everyone's pain is different. We always secretly lick the wounds of others while envying them.
The misfortune of middle-aged people is generally like this. Maybe we've been given brains and minds so we can think about how to live and how to hide.
Everyone says that people have gone half of their lives in middle age, if it is a tree, it should be a firm trunk and lush branches and leaves, and people will know the true meaning of life when they reach middle age, autumn years, and half of the earth.
When a person reaches middle age, half of his body is downward and half upward. The second half tells us that time is running out, and the upper body is still fighting for survival.
When we reach middle age, we are all trying to resist the hardships imposed on us by the years, because at this stage, we have no choice.
It is not easy for people to reach middle age, there is no choice, this is an unforgettable pain, and every nerve is used to resist.
But middle-aged people are not happy, watching themselves support their families, being needed by others, and seeing everyone sitting together, they are also sincerely happy.
So, that's why we go home with a smile, because although it's not easy to be carved into the bones, happiness is deep in the bone marrow.