Nowadays, in the era of Internet development, falling in love with someone has become accustomed to feeling the joys and sorrows of their lover from each other's social platforms, and even guessing that their love has some chance of success.
I received a message from a reader in the background, and she asked me what would be the reason if a woman changed her profile picture frequently
After reading this message, I think the reader is very cute, once upon a time, I was the same, I wanted to change the avatar from the other person's every move, change the personality signature, and judge the emotional state of the lover.
It wasn't until I experienced unforgettable love, tasted the taste of loving and being loved, and witnessed many examples of love and dislove, that I finally understood that most of the people who frequently change their avatars have such a mentality.
Every New Year, or the beginning of a unique time node in life, or a moment when personal emotions are determined, many people choose to package all the information on social platforms in a new way to give themselves a sense of ritual.
At this time, if a person changes his head, it is nothing more than that he has a new beginning and a new mood.
That's what my girlfriend did when she started freelancing after the Chinese New Year: she replaced her usual social apps with a barbershop and spent the day in the barbershop getting a new look.
I asked her why she did it, and her reason was simple: starting freelancing was a new phase in her life, starting anew, saying goodbye to her past self and embracing a new life in the future.
This is the mentality of most people who choose to change their avatars, which has nothing to do with the romance of love, but is a kind of self-realization in their hearts.
Time is continuous, and there is no way for us to go back in time to do something again, the only thing we can do is to hold a small meaningful ceremony, even if it is a simple change of head, which can be used as a time node to wave goodbye to the past.
Someone once said that online social networking is a trap where a person is tightly tied to a mobile phone, consuming a lot of time and energy, and in terms of life, not gaining much.
When readers ask me, what is the mentality of a person who changes his profile picture every few days?My first reaction was that the other person might be idle and would just stare at the avatar.
In my opinion, there are only two kinds of people who pay too much attention to the information of the avatar. One is to engage in related work, which requires showing beautiful avatars to customers. In order to ensure freshness, they will take a group of ** every once in a while, replacing them with avatars to create a sense of professionalism and attract attention.
The other is idleness, many times playing with mobile phones to chat, or for a certain period of time, it is relatively idle, there is no work pressure, and it can be used to play with mobile phones and chat wantonly, so that there will be leisure time to focus on the avatar.
So whether it's a man or a woman, when you find that your lover changes your avatar frequently, don't spend too much time and energy guessing what the other person thinks, and it is recommended that you don't like it, such behavior reflects a person's ambition.
This reader told me that the people he loves often change their profile pictures, and each avatar has some words with special meanings.
It must be said that people who are in love are prone to such things;And like someone, you will observe the behavior of the other person to guide your emotions.
So when the person you like changes their avatar frequently, you need to observe whether the other person has said what kind of content in the circle of friends after changing the avatar.
Usually these two behaviors are combined, and only in this way can you express your thoughts to the people who like to know to the greatest extent.
I once fell in love with a boy, we listened to a song by Xu Ge, called "Makeup", in order to let the other party know my mind, I changed my head and filmed the MV of "Makeup" with Xu Ge.
And what does it mean in the circle of friends, by awakening the emotional resonance of the lover, and then conveying one's heart to him.
When the incarnation is given a certain meaning, it can be seen most clearly, if you are the person he loves, he will find a way to make you aware of his mind, if not, don't think nonsense, the other party really just wants to change the incarnation.
It's hard to guess and it's hard to understand.
Instead of judging the other person's thoughts through some clues in life, it is better to take the initiative and directly ask for understanding.
In other words, if you like someone, it's better to say it directly and clearly, at least the result is clear, and there is less self-torture instead of all kinds of hints and hidden stimuli.