What is true love?Is it a vigorous passion, or a long-term companionship?Everyone has their own answer in mind. But there is a point of view that is recognized by more and more people in the emotional world: if two people get along, if they have not exchanged 5 "secrets", then their relationship may not be true love.
These "secrets" may be about the deep fears and uneasiness in the heart, or the pain and shadows of the past, or the expectations and dreams of the future. They represent trust, honesty, and mutual growth. It is only when two people are willing to share these "secrets" with each other that their relationship reaches a deeper level.
Li Ting and Wang Hao are a pair of lovers, they met on the university campus and have gone through the years of youth together. In the eyes of outsiders, they are a model couple, but Li Ting always has some uneasiness in her heart. She felt that there seemed to be some estrangement between herself and Wang Hao. These estrangements stem from those "secrets" that have not been shared.
As the relationship between the two gradually warms up, they begin to share each other's lives more. In a late-night conversation, Li Ting confessed to Wang Hao about her failed relationship and the resulting fear of love. After hearing this, Wang Hao did not ridicule or flinch, but hugged her tightly and told her: "Let the past pass, and the future will be with me." ”
This frank conversation made Li Ting feel unprecedented peace of mind. She also learned that Wang Hao also had his own "secret": he once gave up his dream because of family pressure. But after meeting Li Ting, he regained the courage to pursue his dream.
The two began to share each other's thoughts and secrets more frequently. They have experienced many challenges and difficulties together, but each time they have been strengthened by their openness and trust in each other. Eventually, they entered the palace of marriage and became the most important people in each other's lives.
In the world of emotions, the exchange of these 5 "secrets" is like five levels to true love. Every time you pass a level, the relationship between the two people will be deeper. These 5 "secrets" could be:
Inner fears and insecurity: When we are willing to open up our deepest fears and insecurities to our significant other, it means that we trust the other person to understand and support us.
Past Pain and Shadows: Sharing past pains and shadows means that we are willing to let the other person see our imperfections, and at the same time give the other person the opportunity to ** our pain.
Hopes and dreams for the future: Share our hopes and dreams for the future with the other person, and express that we want to go through every stage of life hand in hand with the other person.
Own weaknesses and flaws: No one is perfect. When we are willing to show our weaknesses and flaws to the other person, it shows that we accept our imperfections and trust that the other person will accept and tolerate us.
How we really feel about your partner: Telling the other person how we really feel about him, whether it's love, gratitude or apology, can deepen the emotional connection between the two people.
As Shakespeare said, "Love does not look at what is in front of you, but only looks down on all living beings and all things in the world." "True love takes time to cultivate and manage. And in this process, the exchange of "secrets" is a crucial step in building a deep relationship. Only when two people are willing to open up to each other and share their truest and most vulnerable side of each other can their feelings be sublimated into true love.
So, if you and your significant other haven't exchanged these 5 "secrets" yet, then maybe your relationship still has a long way to go. But remember that every journey has its meaning and value. As long as you are willing to support each other and understand each other, then true love awaits you.