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Generally speaking, most people believe that it is more appropriate for the woman to be younger than the man in the process of male and female**.
But in today's society, there are more and more sibling relationships, such as young and beautiful girls actually agreeing to marry a man much older than themselves.
The latter phenomenon was jokingly called "old cows eating tender grass" by netizens.
In fact, there is a certain motive behind every action. The reason why women are willing to be with men who are many years older than themselves may actually be due to three psychological factors:
In the TV series "** Era", Zhu Susu, who has been separated from her father since she was a child and lives in her uncle's house, has a demonic appearance and mesmerizing beauty. She fell in love with a man who looked like her father at first sight.
But her suitor suddenly tells her that she has no normal feelings for men, but likes such men because of her long-term lack of paternal love. This is completely unacceptable to the world.
Psychologist Sigmund Freud, when talking about the stages of personality development, came up with the "Electra complex", also known as the "Electra complex".
It turns out that the reason why a girl falls in love with a man who is very "daddy" is actually very simple. Because it makes up for the regrets of childhood and gives you a sense of security that you never had.
Women prefer mature men to ignorant yellow-haired boys. In this case, the woman will care less about the man's age and more about how the man feels for her.
Many people think that love is all about lust or weighing the pros and cons.
A woman falls in love with a man based on external conditions such as appearance, height, savings, family environment, etc.
But in fact, this kind of love is conditional, and not a preference that will drive a savvy woman completely insane.
When a woman is truly passionate about a man, she will consider him her one-of-a-kind hero, no matter how much money he earns or how old he is.
Everyone around her said good things about her, and even her closest family members advised her to think twice, but she fell in love and couldn't extricate herself.
When women no longer believe in love, they immediately get married, marry "money".
I have a female friend who works as a nursery worker in a kindergarten. She is very stylish and good-looking, but she is married to a man who is twelve years older than her and not very good-looking.
Everyone was puzzled why she made such a decision, but everyone found out that this man was worth a lot of money and gave the girl 880,000 as a bride price, and the answer was that I found it.
As the social psychologist Fromm wrote in The Art of Love, women trade their youth and beauty for the wealth of men. Although women don't say directly to men, "I'm here with you for your money." "However, most men have a clear mind.