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Many people know that the Bible is a book, but there is one book in the world second only to the Bible, and that is the famous short story of children's literature written by French writer Antoine de Saint-Exupéry in 1942, "The Little Prince".
The book has a Douban score of 9 points, and it has also been made into a movie, and Luo Xiang often quotes the sentences in the book on social platforms to tell everyone.
This book can be used as a children's book, but also for adults to find the original "pure heart", in this society, live calmly, and perceive happiness.
As the book says: many adults used to be children, but most of them have forgotten.
Nowadays, there are many people who don't want to get married, don't want to have children, don't want to start a family, because many people simply don't know what is really worth protecting, and they don't know how to manage intimacy.
"The Little Prince" uses the following three sentences to tell us the true meaning of love, so that we can re-understand that love should not be related to money.
Many people think that love is a business, especially men, who are eager to make more money and then "buy" a girl who is younger and more beautiful than themselves.
Even if it was obtained, men began to sabotage it in various ways. For example: forcing a woman to do something she doesn't want to do;Or it's easy to cheat after a short relationship.
But this quote clearly tells us that love should be perfect.
The person you love may not be with you, but as long as you know that the other person is living happily, you will feel happy from the bottom of your heart.
Including building intimacy and letting the partner do what they want to do, rather than kidnapping the other person in the name of love, this is true selfless love.
Loving someone is not just about paying lip service, but about proving it by actual actions.
But many men naively believe that if you give a woman enough money, she will be inseparable from herself.
According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs theory in psychology, it proves that material satisfaction is only the most basic, but people have more spiritual pursuits.
For example, in love, people desire to meet their soulmate.
Therefore, being willing to spend time with your loved one and do something that is not so utilitarian, but romantic, is what love looks like in its simplest and most beautiful form.
Social psychologist Fromm says that care and care also include another aspect of love, and that is responsibility. Today, responsibility is often understood as an obligation, something imposed from the outside. But the original meaning of the word responsibility is a fully conscious act, my answer to another person's expressed or unexpressed desires.
When we fall in love with someone, we are attracted to their beauty. But the love was supposed to last every decade.
It's like planting a tree, we have to take care of it every day and watch it grow into a big tree.
It's not like eating pineapple today and eating something else tomorrow.
This kind of unstable and irresponsible relationship does not deserve to be called love at all.