I've watched a lot of foreign movies, and I found that some foreign movies really can't be understood, that is, you can't understand why foreigners do thisA lot of things seem inexplicable to me.
For example, many parents in foreign countries, like their Chinese parents, are very kind to their children and give them everything they can provideBut after children grow up, many people feel very weak about their parents' feelings, many children do not visit their parents once in a few years, brothers and sisters have not interacted with each other for many years, and friends do not often come and go, which is simply incomprehensible in the eyes of Chinese.
Also, I feel that many foreigners basically don't interact with their relatives, and they don't have any friends, that is, they live alone for decades, although they have money and living conditions, but they have neither the need to find a partner, nor the need to find friends, so they live alone, I really don't understand, I feel that this kind of life is too boring, it is unbearable.
In the end, I came to a conclusion: there are many times and many things between people that cannot understand each other at all, and there is no need to understand each other, or to let the other party understand themselves, just respect each other, and this is true between people and countries.
Everyone has shortcomings, everyone has advantages, others may be better than you think, or worse than you think, it's normal, don't try to speculate on the upper limit of human nature, and don't try to speculate on the lower limit of human nature. Keigo Higashino said that people are half-human and half-ghost, and no one can see if they get close. Never expect anything from others, and you won't be disappointed.
I once knew a female university teacher in her thirties, not only is she good-looking, but also has a good figure, not the kind of convex and backward curvy, but tall, tight, the key is that the quality is very high, you are all talking, the food is also good, and you are very diligent, and you are also very good at cleaning up the house, and you are not sassy, how do you flirt with people, people are also polite and generous to you, and the emotional intelligence is also very high, every time I ask you for help, I send a red envelope ......first
When I met her, I kept sighing, how can there be such a good woman?But it's not suitable for marriage, because the conditions she asks for are too high, and basically only ** can be satisfied. According to her own words, she used to have a lover, and the other party also gave her a house of several millions, and in the end, she dumped that person.
Therefore, you can never judge a person by their appearance, people's hearts are unpredictable, you never know what the other person has experienced, and you never know what the other person will do.
A person who seems gentle and kind can be a murderer or a **;A person who seems to be relatively bad may also be very introverted and has never done anything bad.
Moreover, the more perfect people look, the more scared I become, because no one is perfect, and the more perfect people are, the more likely they are to hide terrible shortcomings that you don't know about.
I like real people, people with shortcomings;I don't like perfect people, and I don't like people who are too polite.
Don't trust anyone completely, set up a firewall and always take control of things into your own hands. I can only promise that I will never lie to anyone, but I also want to prevent myself from being deceived and not handing the handle of the knife to others.
Believe in humanity, not in someone who seems to be worth trusting.
Some time ago, the 28-year-old female director of a foreign company was chased by the hotel reception man for half a year, the two got married, and a year later, the woman's parents died in a car accident, leaving an inheritance of 200 million, and the man filed for divorce and asked for half of the inheritance. I don't think this woman deserves sympathy, she's just paying for her own perception.
Many women just don't like honest and honest people who have something to say, that is, people who like to talk rhetorically and are extremely attentive, and they will bear whatever they choose, fair and reasonable. Saying "you are a good person" to anyone now is simply scolding the eighteenth generation ancestors of the other party.
How can you not pay the price when you are obsessed with beautiful skins and romantic narratives every day, and you simply don't have time to discover the noble and interesting soul of the other person?
People who have wealth do not necessarily have wisdom, when your IQ and wealth do not match, society has 100 ways to harvest you, the reason is as simple as that.
Never take advantage of it, because I believe that there is no free lunch in the world, and it is not easy to be deceived if you don't take advantage of it.
Don't do what doesn't belong to you, because there is cause and effect in the world, and you have to pay for everything you do.
I feel more and more that all competition, in the end, is a contest of IQ.
One person cheers for the graduate school entrance examination