When we linger from the text, we feel the transmission of the heart, and a touch and tears flow from it, which is the book written by Bo ShiningMy life hangs by a thread, and I won't let goIn the author's more than 20 years of ICU front-line experience, 19 stories of life and death wandering, from the medical science and humanistic narrative, we can see some medical attempts, as well as the tenderness of people's hearts, and the key decisions in the face of diseases, etc., and feel a humanistic thinking and life understanding.
When we enter this dilemma and crisis related to life and death, we see every living person's situation and moving emotions, and find a better way to deal with it, whether it is the rational round trip, or the light and shade of the human heart, or the ups and downs of hope and the separation of care, let us feel the true feelings and truth of the world.
In the realm of life and death, the most intuitive will emerge inner fear and regret, so in the face of such a situation, how to soothe others and their own hearts, bring empathy and enhance the trust between doctors and patients, bring a care between people, in the face of human nature, there are too many breathtaking things.
The pain caused by illness will be alleviated in the face of the care of love, and it will make people feel that these pains are valuable, which is also what the author understands in the preface:"Sometimes, pain can ease the fear of death. This is not to say that we should suffer as we should take it for granted, but that there is some value to suffering. The unwillingness of all of us, the time we snatched for her, and the love of the world can make her pain less painful. ”
In the analysis of the cases we see, let us see more thinking, this analysis from different angles, let us see more practical problems in life that there are no absolutely right and wrong answers, and some just follow the inner life as a person with flesh and blood emotions, and the doctor's professional perspective to think about how to better deal with the crisis and how to live better
From the title of the book, we will feel this persistence and not giving up, this life hanging by a thread I will not let go, not only a kind of life does not give up, but also a kind of belief in the face of life setbacks and pain, it runs through the author's entire story line, the core of refraction allows us to not only feel this persistence and not give up in reading, but also feel a humanistic care and tenderness of life, this integration, bring us strange touch, there is a great love, but also a reverence for life itself.
In each of our lives, we need love, and the cases in the book make us feel the power of love, which makes us feel the value of human life and the rebirth of people in the face of danger.
In the face of human emotion and reason, just as in the first story of the book, in the face of brain-dead people, to donate or not to donate, what kind of turmoil will the family experience in their hearts, and the first story, in the face of his wife's hesitation, missed the best opportunity to donate the body, in this entanglement of compassion and reason, we feel:
"It is necessary to pay both emotions and rational decision-making, not to violate objective laws, and always uphold the most precious goodness of human nature, which is probably the practice of a doctor. ”
In the situation and the real story, the best way to see the thinking of human nature, for example, our natural love is not always rational, but in some specific situations, for example, the author as a clinical life-saving ICU doctor, he faced many life and death situations, after seeing all kinds of love, the author thinks:
"Rational love should include three things: save yourself first, embrace time, and not give up hope. ”
It allows us to see that after loving ourselves, embracing ourselves, and allowing ourselves to have the ability, we can take care of the children and take care of the people who need to be taken care of for a longer time, which is in the second story, a father pulls the child, he has a heart disease but is reluctant to spend money on treatment, save the child, this self-sacrifice does not save the child, after he dies, let the child be lonely, this self-sacrificing love brings the child and himself are bitter.
And if he can be kind to himself and let himself live, the child will be more relaxed, and this love will be better because it can flow. In this exploration of love, let us see that for diseases, save ourselves first, and then have the ability to help those in need, so that love is more valuable, which is not only the ultimate meaning of life for us, but also a point that everyone needs to see in their own lives.
To be able to love yourself well, so that you can love others better, love is complacent and overflowing, it is a comfortable and relaxed love, which will make yourself and others comfortable, rather than sacrificing, bringing others a depression and helplessness.
In the face of life and death, there is life and death in life and death, and we always need to remember the touch"Hope is sometimes out of reach, but if we don't let go, it may be close at hand. ”
My life hangs by a thread, and I won't let goIt not only brings us a sensual love touch, but also brings rational thinking and analysis, in this infection and contemplation, feel a clear heart moved and shocked, into each of our own lives, to go their own life, let themselves live better!