A parent's love for their children is unquestionable, but over-pampering and spoiling can have a negative impact on a child's development. However, in the parent group, there is a "Zihan mother" who caused an uproar because of a small matter. She questioned the teacher why her own child had been bitten by mosquitoes while the other children had not. This kind of vexatious behavior has aroused the anger and ridicule of netizens, who have used "My Family Zihan" as a stalk to create a series of satirical sentences. This hot word quickly spread on the Internet, which makes people laugh. However, for the teachers, they can only tremble, helpless in the face of the unreasonable demands and reproaches of parents.
Extended: This incident highlights the negative effects of over-pampering and spoiling on a child's development. Parents' attention and love for their children are of course necessary, but excessive protection and spoiling can make children lack autonomy and adaptability. They are unable to face life's difficulties and setbacks, lack problem-solving skills and self-independence. Therefore, parents should guide their children correctly so that they can grow in practice and develop the qualities of self-confidence, courage and tenacity.
The name "Zihan" is very popular in colleges and universities, and many parents give their children this name. According to statistics, in Wuhan University and Northeast Normal University, there are a large number of children named Zihan. This shows how well the name Zihan is recognized among parents.
Extension: When people choose names for their children, they often choose names that have a good meaning. The name Zihan means that the child has not encountered any difficulties and setbacks in the process of growing up, and can grow up safe and sound. This is the result that every parent hopes for their children to grow up happy and healthy. However, the reality is often harsh, and children have to face a variety of challenges and difficulties. Therefore, taking an idealistic name cannot completely change the child's growth environment and encounters, but more importantly, it is more important to educate the child to face difficulties and setbacks correctly with attitudes and methods.
Kindergarten teachers often face complaints and complaints from parents, especially on small things, and are overly demanding on teachers. However, kindergarten teachers are not "nannies", their duty is to educate and care for children, and they are not responsible for every detail of each child. Parents should understand that kindergarten teachers also have limited resources and abilities, and cannot sacrifice the interests of other children in order to meet the demands of one parent.
Extension: As kindergarten teachers, they are dealing with multiple children in a class, each with different needs and problems. They need to focus on each child's growth and development, but they can't just focus on one child and ignore the others. Therefore, kindergarten teachers need to maintain a professional attitude and professionalism, handle the relationship with parents, and let parents understand and identify with their work.
Kindergarten teachers need to be good at dealing with conflicts and conflicts with parents to avoid further deterioration of the relationship between the two parties. First of all, teachers need to keep effective records of communication, including the content of conversations with parents and the topics of contention. In this way, teachers can present evidence to explain their actions and decisions when needed.
Secondly, teachers need to maintain a stable mood and get along with parents in a friendly and optimistic manner. Although kindergarten teachers are not highly paid, they are able to work with children, so they need to be cheerful and enthusiastic to build a good relationship with children.
Finally, teachers also need to establish a good personal image and have a certain amount of authority among students. In this way, the status and weight of teachers in the hearts of parents will be high enough that parents will not be mistaken for "free nannies". At the same time, kindergarten teachers can strengthen cooperation and communication with colleagues, solve problems together, and improve the efficiency and quality of work.
Summary: Parents' attention is good for children's growth, but excessive attention and doting will have a bad impact on children. Parents should reflect on their own behavior, reasonably guide their children's growth, and cultivate their autonomy and adaptability. Kindergarten teachers should maintain a professional attitude and professionalism, handle the relationship with parents, and resolve conflicts and difficulties. Only with the joint efforts of teachers and parents can children grow up healthy and happy.