Parents form a "cheating group"?Parents of the opposite sex secretly contact, but the lover and the child know nothing
When it comes to parent groups, there are indeed many topics that can be discussed. The original intention of the parent group was to facilitate communication between teachers and parents and to help students grow and progress together. However, in recent years, there have been some changes in the parent group, not only often emerging contradictions, but also various high-profile incidents.
Some parents flaunt their wealth and their children's achievements in the group, while others verbally abuse teachers and even attack each other. The emergence of these situations makes people feel quite embarrassed. Where there are many people, there are more contradictions, and this is especially evident in the parent group.
However, what is even more shocking and angry is that some parent groups have actually evolved into "cheating groups". Due to the similar age and the convenience of chatting, some parents secretly met the opposite sex in the group and gradually established abnormal relationships.
The parent group, which was originally intended to facilitate communication with teachers, turned out to be a tool for cheating. This kind of behavior makes people lament how lacking these parents' sense of responsibility to the family is, which makes people deeply dissatisfied. At the same time, their partners and children are unaware of these things.
There are also parents with low emotional intelligence, who use the parent group as their own living room and talk about things that have nothing to do with education. This behavior has a direct impact on how difficult it is for other parents to access useful information. Of course, this is only the "primary form", and although this part of the parent is a bit annoying, it can only be said that it lacks a sense of proportion.
What's more, post some information that is not related to education in the parent group, ask for likes and support, or share content such as "slash" in shopping apps. Other parents are not obligated to participate, but it is really painful to have to spend time and energy to help because of face problems.
In addition, there are some parents who belong to the category of "sycophants" and "show-off freaks". The former frequently praised the teacher, saying "the teacher is hard" and "thank you teacher" at every turn, which made other parents feel at a loss. And the latter often flaunts the wealth of their families and the excellence of their children in the group. Both types of parents are undoubtedly very annoying.
Recently, some parent groups have become more and more degenerate, evolving into so-called "cheating groups", and some of them are behaving more and more despicable. They usually add WeChat privately in the name of sharing their educational experience, but the content of the chat gradually evolves into an improper relationship.
These parents think they can act in secrecy, but they ignore the fact that there is no impermeable privacy outside the walls. It's likely that other parents have already smelled the news. However, it is their own spouses and children who are really in the dark.
This group of parents has no sense of responsibility, and even though they are adults and have their own families, they ignore their responsibilities to their families and do things that are increasingly despicable. They meet the opposite sex in the child's parent group, but when they betray the family, they do not think about their own children. Such parents are destined to fail to be role models for their children, nor can they win their children's respect and love.
At the end of the day, it's the family that hurts the most from such incidents. For an outside observer, it may be just an after-dinner conversation, but for the families involved, it is a fatal blow and a profound injury. Even if the partner is willing to forgive, it can cause an irreparable rift in the family;For children, it is the shadow and trauma of the soul. These parents apparently acted without these serious consequences in mind.
Why do parents see this kind of situation so often?This may have something to do with the uneven quality of the parents in the class. High-quality parents tend to be able to handle family and social relationships sensibly without causing trouble to teachers. They focus on the child's affairs and nothing else in the group. However, less qualified parents can lead to unexpected situations that can be difficult for even experienced teachers to deal with.
Some people believe that teachers should play a managerial role in the parent group and regulate the words and deeds of parents. However, parents are not students, and teachers cannot directly manage them, but can only remind and advise. Parents who don't want to listen to advice still go their own way and don't take teachers seriously at all. The phenomenon of parent groups evolving into "cheating groups" is not within the scope of the teacher's management, so the teacher cannot interfere too much.
In recent years, with the rise of chat software, parent groups have also become popular. At first, only a few schools established parent groups, and then other schools followed suit. Although the emergence of parent groups helps the communication between teachers and parents, it reduces the work pressure of teachers to a certain extent, so that parents can better understand the situation of their children in school. However, the rise of parent groups has also had some negative effects, with individual parents taking advantage of groups to form illicit relationships, which is deeply despicable.
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