The obvious characteristics that a woman will have after being conquered by you are three combinations
In a relationship,"Coordination"It's a magic word. When a woman is truly in love with a man, she will display a remarkable trait – that is, coordination.
Many people misunderstand the coordination between a woman and a man, reducing it to submissiveness, believing that women lose their sense of self in their relationships and blindly follow the wishes of men.
Some people wonder if a woman's attitude changes drastically if she fully accepts a manIs this the loss of self?Of course not.
The reason why women willingly coordinate with men is because they "want what their hearts want, that is, what they want to love", so they will take the initiative to adjust the pace of life and strive to make the two achieve spiritual resonance.
Every woman seeks to have a happy and fulfilling love, however, in the process, there is always something to give. A wise woman understands that in order to get true love, one must find a balance between giving and receiving.
The consummation of love often stems from mutual dedication and joint efforts.
Generally speaking, one of the most obvious signs that a woman genuinely identifies with a man is that she will be in tune with you.
01: Tacit understanding in feelings.
On Zhihu, there is a question that has attracted widespread attention: how to tell if a woman really loves you?
Some netizens gave the answer: "A woman's true love is obvious, when you share your life, see if she responds;."You make an offer to see if she accepts itWhen you are sad and sad, see if she empathizes. ”
Love is not a one-man show played alone, only two people dance hand in hand can really taste the taste of love and happiness.
Xu Yun once shared his experience of pursuing a girl: he often sent messages to girls on WeChat, and he was never discouraged whether the other party did not reply for a long time or deliberately ignored them.
In order to better understand the preferences of girls, he took great pains to inquire through friends. On the girl's birthday, he carefully prepared a thoughtful gift.
took the initiative to invite the girl to watch a new movie, even though she declined because of her busy life, but later found out that she actually went to watch the movie with her best friend.
Later, Xu Yun finally realized that the girl had no desire for him, and reluctantly ended his short and bleak love.
True love is not a lonely pursuit, when women have a crush on the opposite sex, they will not only respond in time, but may even take the initiative to pursue it.
Everyone's time and energy are precious, and women won't want to waste time on someone they don't like.
In a male-female relationship, if a man finds that the woman he is pursuing has not responded, perhaps the other person is not shy and conservative, but deliberately does not respond to his feelings.
In the process of pursuing love, I hope that everyone can find a partner who responds to their feelings in time and seize the fate of happiness.
02: Willing to work together in housework.
Xu Qian became a full-time wife after getting married, and she not only washed her hands and made soup for her husband, but also took care of most of the housework in the family.
One day, her best friend saw her cleaning diligently and couldn't help asking, "Your husband asks you to do so much housework every day, won't he feel sorry for you?"”
Xu Qian smiled calmly, did not feel aggrieved in her heart, but happily replied: "The family is run by two people, my husband is willing to fight for the family outside, and I am also willing to work hard to create a warm home." ”
Love will eventually evolve into marriage, and there will inevitably be trivial chores in the lives of two people, and responsibilities will also need to be shared.
Women may give up their careers in order to better adapt to the lives of the two;They are willing to take responsibility for the household chores and never complain about the hard work of the process, because they understand the hard work of their partner outside the home.
Women's love may not always be expressed directly in words, but their love is hidden in the bits and pieces of life. While enjoying this love, men should also cherish the true heart of women.
I once saw such a story on the Internet: a man was lazily lying on the sofa, holding up his mobile phone to take pictures of his wife doing housework hard, not only did not say a word of gratitude, but laughed and joked that his efforts to pursue his wife back then were not in vain.
A long time ago, in order to pursue his wife, a man went through the tests of countless people around him, and he worked hard to win the school flower wife;And now, instead of cherishing the hard-won relationship between the two, this man laughs at the changes in his wife.
He didn't realize that it was because the woman was really in love with him that she was willing to change from a girl who didn't touch her fingers to a woman who was busy with housework.
As the saying goes, "the male dominates the outside and the female dominates the female", which essentially refers to the joint efforts of two people in order to maintain the balance of the family.
Some men mistakenly believe that wives should sacrifice themselves for the sake of the family and treat their partners as full-time nannies who do housework and take care of the children.
The reason why a woman is willing to coordinate with a man is for the two to live a happy life together in the future. But if a man doesn't know how to cherish it, no matter how affectionate a woman is, her heart will change.
In an intimate relationship, equality and respect are the foundation of getting along with each other, and giving to each other is key.
Only by knowing how to cherish can love endure;And perfunctory, love is destined to break down.
03: Hand in hand in business.
The marriage of Qian Zhongshu and Mr. Yang Jiang has become a model that many people yearn for. The two literary giants each have a pivotal position in the field of literature, and they are both loving companions and like-minded peers.
Qian Zhongshu focused on academic research, and did not care about the honor and interests of the outside world, and even worried about it.
In order to protect him, Mr. Yang Jiang took the initiative to refuse all interviews with the outside world, took good care of his daily life, and often went deep into literature with him.
The sweet love between the two has always been the same, and the triviality of marriage has never been able to erase the imprint of their deep love for each other. The arrival of their children did not affect their pure feelings, but made their love richer and deeper over the years.
However, not all love in the world can be so lucky.
In the TV series "Thirty Only", Gu Jia is a typical female who pays silently for marriage. She accompanied her husband to start a business together, and later chose to be a full-time wife in order to take care of the family and children.
She takes care of the housework, always cares about her husband's daily life, and even takes the initiative to accompany him to skip dinner in order to meet his dietary needs.
She has advised her husband's career many times, but unfortunately her cooperation and dedication have not been cherished by her husband.
In the end, the two embarked on the road of parting ways, and love and marriage also ended hastily.
Zhu Guangqian once said: "The beauty of love lies in silence, which can only be reflected through understanding rather than words." "I hope everyone can understand the true meaning of love as soon as possible, and live up to the sincerity of others and their own lives.