In the face of his wife's cheating, the man used silence to make the divorced wife apologize bitterly
The consensus of the two determines whether they are fit to spend their lives together;The three meals at the table determine whether they are able to get along smoothly in their daily lives;Trust is the cornerstone of a long-lasting relationship.
In marriage, the source of trust is mutual fidelity, which is a crucial foundation. Once this precondition is shaken, the marriage will fall into a state of turmoil and will no longer be able to maintain stability.
Some people only realize the preciousness of love after losing it, and this is because they did not cherish it once. However, often at this stage, there is no turning back, and this is where the most irony lies.
Here's an example: A man and a woman face betrayal from their wives, and the man chooses silence to make his wife reflect and apologize painfully after the divorce. This situation is one of those heart-wrenching situations: when faced with a rift in the marriage, the man chooses to remain silent, leaving his wife to fall into deep self-blame and pain after the marriage breaks.
In reality, not everyone who is facing an affair with their significant other chooses to leave the scene dramatically.
Because of the pressures of life and the particularities of personal circumstances, some people may choose to temporarily endure and compromise because of the pressure of livelihood.
Five years ago, when Jiang Chao found out that his wife was cheating, he did not immediately file for divorce. At that time, he was at a low point in his career, with old and young people in his family, and his life was under great pressure.
At that time, he faced his wife's cheating, and felt that the world was spinning, and sorrow came from it, and he fell into a daze.
Jiang Chao is actually a man with a strong will, but fate did not favor him in time and never showed a smile.
After careful consideration, he decided to endure the humiliation, put aside his dignity and face for the time being, pretend that nothing had happened, and continue to live with his wife.
Because he deliberately chose to ignore it, the wife mistakenly thought that her husband was unaware. However, this pretense did not make the wife restrain or wake up in time, but made her more presumptuous.
Everyone understands that the causes of extramarital affairs vary from person to person and cannot be generalized. In any case, when anyone falls into such behavior, he or she is abandoning his commitment to his family and partner, which in itself is hardly sympathetic.
The man has always been a good-natured, responsible person who has shown himself well with his wife, children and both parents, and there are no obvious problems between the two in terms of emotions and personality.
Therefore, the wife may be cheating only because she has a crush on other men, or in that relationship she does not get what she desires in marriage.
This motive is a ridicule and denial of the husband and the marriage, which is especially difficult for men to accept. However, he endured it for almost four years and did not take the initiative to file for divorce until half a year ago.
At this time, he has made great progress in his career, and his child is about to graduate from high school, and he is full of confidence in the future and is no longer willing to tolerate this woman who does not know how to be faithful.
Faced with a series of evidence related to her husband's cheating, the woman was silent this time.
She was still accustomed to looking at her husband with contempt and denial, because for a long time her mind had been on her extramarital lover, and she did not really understand his change in ability.
The other party has always been very low-key and has never mentioned these things in front of her, so she still thinks that the other party's ability is average and there is nothing to do.
Therefore, she was very decisive when she divorced, did not ask for property and alimony, and signed and left.
Soon after the divorce, she found that her ex-husband had changed to a bigger house, bought a new car, and her life suddenly changed for the better. She realized that she had been too careless about his property.
After the divorce, she and her lover still failed to enter into marriage, and the other party became more and more cold and unwilling to spend money for her. The previous promises became empty words.
Seeing the reality, she regretfully tries to get back together, but he remains silent, and this silent refusal makes her feel miserable and feels that she has been punished most completely.
Conclusion: Silence is only a precursor to an outburst. If regret is only because the other person has become different, the end result may be self-defeating.
If the fate that was once regarded as life is only an explanation that you suddenly no longer love each other, then this fate and the sincerity you once had are just a general friendship, and the ridicule of the other party is also the biggest ridicule of yourself.
Most of life depends on your choices.
Men and women who crave momentary pleasure may feel happy for a short time, but it is likely to be wishful thinking to find reliable happiness in such a relationship that lacks sincerity, responsibility, and commitment.
Giving up the eternal for the sake of a momentary romance and exchanging a short-lived flash in the pan for a long period of dullness will always be worth the loss.