The girl posted a chat record with her mother, words of maternal love, and emotional temptation!
Family is the best place for mental illness.
Home has different meanings and feelings for everyone. Home is a haven of emotion, a place where we feel warm and safe. At home, we can find spiritual solace, a sense of belonging, and stability. Psychologists once said that being close to a mother for half an hour is equivalent to receiving six psychological consultations, a statement that is deeply felt by some people, while by others it may not be true. The power of home cannot be simply defined and measured, it is an emotional bond, a silent support and companionship.
However, for some people, home is not a refuge for the soul, and they long to be away from the constraints and burdens of family. When they were growing up, they may have experienced family abuse and indifference, and even domestic violence. In pursuit of freedom and independence, they choose to leave their family and leave that seemingly warm home. The experiences of these people have caused them to have conflicting feelings towards their families, both longing to repair and improve their relationships with their families, but also worrying about the inadmissibility and harm of their families.
The girl in the sun and the mother in the chat record just moved their mouths from their mother's love, and they couldn't stand the little **.
In the modern social era, people often share snippets of their lives online. The girl posted a conversation between her and her mom about the contradictions and imperfections of motherhood. In this conversation, the girl is working in a field, and the mother cares about her daughter's life through text messages, asking about her financial situation. The girl replied that she had saved money before and told her family that she would support the family when they found a job. This conversation reveals a sense of politeness and distance, as if there is no very intimate and tacit relationship between mother and daughter. However, this light relationship and verbal commitment play an excellent role in the girl's life.
When the girl found herself in practical difficulties and needed to borrow money to pay the rent, she borrowed 2000 from her mother and promised to pay it off next month. However, the mom did not respond directly to the girl's request, but sent a subject to:"Your parents don't owe you, only you owe your parents"Target**. This ** is in great contrast to the mother's previous care and commitment, leaving the girl confused and disappointed. She began to doubt the authenticity of her mother's love, feeling that all she received was verbal comfort and counseling, and she could not withstand a little temptation.
The story sparked heated discussions among netizens, with many commenting on their own experiences with their parents. They complain that their parents' verbal promises are empty and weak, staying only on the surface, without any practical support and help. Some people recall the experience of receiving a gift of 10,000 yuan on their birthday, but after receiving the gift money, their parents continue to complain that they are too poor to continue to provide for them, and this obvious contradiction is incomprehensible. Some people also said that after buying a car and a house, their parents said that they would help them buy a better one, but the reality is that their parents never gave them a penny. These stories reflect the phenomenon that parents may seem generous with their verbal expressions of love and promise, but in reality they fail to deliver.
However, when judging these issues, we cannot just take one side of the story. There are also some parents and guardians who believe that these children also have some ignorant and selfish behaviors in the process of growing up. In their eyes, the children believe that their parents should only help them unconditionally, and are not willing to give their own efforts and sacrifices. For children, help is a matter of course, and if parents do not help, it is betrayal and indifference to them. Parents believe that parenting is a difficult task and that what is needed now is for their children to reward their efforts and toil. In between, there is selfishness and stubbornness on both sides, the inability to put themselves in each other's shoes, and the unwillingness to make sacrifices and compromises for themselves.
Reflections on family upbringing.
The family is an important environment for children's growth, and it is also an important background for the formation of children's values and behavior patterns. The quality of family conditions often directly affects the quality of the relationship between parents and children. It is often said that a poor family is a poor family, and a poor family often affects the harmony and stability of the relationship between parents and children. A family struggling on the survival line can hardly give their children a rich spiritual world and support. This has also led to many conflicts and disputes over money. Parents want their children to help themselves financially and contribute to the family. Children, on the other hand, want the support and love of their parents, especially when they are in trouble. These conflicts and contradictions ultimately reflect the selfishness and stubbornness of both sides, as well as the inability to compromise and sacrifice when each other is in difficulty.
When educating their children, parents must take into account the needs of their children and the environment in which they are growing up. It's not just about material satisfaction, it's more about building good communication and trust between parents and children. Verbal promises and care are not enough, only with practical actions can children feel truly loved and supported. At the same time, children should also learn to understand and respect the hard work and dedication of their parents, and know how to share the responsibilities and obligations in the family. Only with the efforts and understanding of both parties can the parent-child relationship be more harmonious and stable.
In short, family is the habitat of emotions and the best place for mental illness. However, the harmony and stability of the family requires the efforts and prudence of both parties and cannot be eroded by selfishness and stubbornness. Both parents and children should learn to understand, tolerate and respect each other in the family, and constantly strive to establish a good parent-child relationship. Only with the warmth and support of the family can children truly grow and develop, and can they find strength and courage in the face of adversity.