tells about the love between Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong, many people will think it is unrealistic.
A girl from an urban city in the south meets an ordinary young man from a peasant family in the north, and the two have very different backgrounds.
Cheng Lisha grew up in the city and lived a privileged life;Guo Xiaodong, on the other hand, was in a remote rural area and went out to work hard when he was young.
Fate is always a little dramatic, though.
For Guo Xiaodong, Cheng Lisha's cheerful and lively personality is hard for him to forget.
For the love between the two, what you may not expect is that the situation is not that Guo Xiaodong humbly climbed upward, but that in the process of dating, Cheng Lisha was rejected by Guo Xiaodong more than 20 times.
So, what is the reason why Cheng Lisha loves this man so much?
Cheng Lisha was born in Wuhan, with a wealthy family, outstanding academic talent, and a prosperous life since childhood.
She graduated from the Performance Department of the Shanghai Theater Academy, so she joined the Beijing People's Art Theater after graduation.
She has participated in many film and television dramas and drama performances, although she is not the starring actor in many works, her acting skills and audience evaluation are good, and she also has a certain status in the entertainment industry.
Guo Xiaodong was born in rural Shandong, his family was poor, and he dropped out of school to work in other places because he could not pay the tuition fee of 34 yuan in junior high school, and at first engaged in many coolie jobs.
By chance, Guo Xiaodong signed up for the summer enrollment camp of Beijing Film Academy.
In 1996, he was admitted to Beijing Film Academy and became classmates with Zhao Wei, Chen Kun, Huang Xiaoming and others.
With his excellent acting skills and straightforward, tenacious character, he has achieved great success in the entertainment industry.
The film he starred in won the Best Film Award at the Tokyo International Film Festival, and was shortlisted for the Huabiao Award and the Cannes International Film Festival.
He and Cheng Lisha met in 2002 because they co-filmed the movie "Northern Wind", and their relationship gradually sublimated from drama.
After many times of getting along and matching mutual friends, the two confirmed their relationship.
At first, Guo Xiaodong was worried that his background would create a gap between the two.
He has extremely low self-esteem and often proposes to break up.
Whenever this happens, Cheng Lisha always finds Guo Xiaodong and proves her sincerity to him.
Cheng Lisha said: "Your past is not terrible, as long as we are willing to work together, we will definitely be able to create a better future." These words warmed Guo Xiaodong's inferiority complex.
Cheng Lisha said on the show that she seems to have always been the passive one in their relationship.
She has been "dumped" by Guo Xiaodong more than 20 times, and every time she quarrels, she takes the initiative to admit her mistakes.
Netizens said that Cheng Lisha is self-deprecating and emotionally honest, but in fact, she lives transparently and is the happiest.
After getting married, Guo Xiaodong and his family treated Cheng Lisha like a princess and did not let her do housework, and her mother-in-law has always supported her.
They went through many twists and turns and finally came together.
After marriage, the Guo family's love for Cheng Lisha was surprising.
The mother-in-law is a traditional northern woman, but she loves her daughter-in-law very much.
She not only takes care of Cheng Lisha's daily life, but also often prepares southern snacks for her to help her adapt to life here faster.
Cheng Lisha is also very witty, and she actively learns from her mother-in-law Xi the housework skills of northern women.
At first she was not comfortable with the taste of garlic and shallots, but soon learned to taste deliciously.
When the mother-in-law saw it, she was very happy to have such a virtuous daughter-in-law.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a very harmonious relationship, as close as a mother and daughter.
Guo Xiaodong also loves Cheng Lisha very much, and handed over all the financial power of the family to her.
Cheng Lisha has any needs, Guo Xiaodong will work hard to meet them.
Although there are occasional disagreements, Cheng Lisha always gives in first, because she knows that Guo Xiaodong's self-esteem is very strong.
16 years later, Cheng Lisha has become an incomparably precious person in the Guo family.
Many people don't understand why Cheng Lisha always accommodates Guo Xiaodong, but she uses her own way to resolve her lover's inner turmoil and make this family more harmonious and happy.
In fact, Cheng Lisha is a very assertive person.
Cheng Lisha's concession was not weakness, but wisdom.
Cheng Lisha knows that family harmony requires mutual accommodation, and she is willing to play such a role.
Seeing such sincere love, I couldn't help but feel moved.
They don't care about the external differences, but cherish the inner bonds.
Cheng Lisha has integrated into her husband's family in her own way, and Guo Xiaodong is also trying to adapt to her lifestyle.
The lovers melted the ice and snow with warmth, and they deserve blessings.
The story of Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong gave me a revelation that love requires both parties to constantly run in, rather than blindly compromise.
Only by truly understanding and cherishing each other can husband and wife walk the road of life together.
It is believed that their happiness will shine like the sun on the earth and warm others.