Title A really powerful woman who has already turned her life into silent mode
This so-called silence refers to a state of relative quiet, or to put it more bluntlyis that they have learned to shut up in the first place, and they will no longer nag about some unchangeable status quo, nor will they dwell on some long-standing problems, let alone blindly care about whether others have a good attitude towards them.
My mother wasn't one of those who could turn her life into silent mode. On the contrary, her life model is relatively noisy, and at the same time, it is also mixed with a lot of grievances and anger, and even her personality has become more irritable.
Until now, my mother is 55 years old, and some of the things she often tells me really belong to self-inflicted unhappiness. I really want her to be happy, so I always try to persuade her. It's just that what I said today worked, and my mother thought about it and felt reasonable, maybe tomorrow, her emotions will still go back.
I understand that it is really not easy for a person to really change his mind from the heart, so I can only try to let my mother not be obsessed with some past things, and at the same time do what she likes, so that her mood can be better.
The things she babbles about a lot are probably the following.
Put it at the front,It's just that my dad doesn't understand her enough. My mom has been saying these words since she was young, and they are stacking. is that when something happens now, she will turn over all the similar old accounts in the past and talk about them non-stop.
So,This "silence" means not nagging and turning over old accounts, and not using emotions to solve problems. The negative impressions that arise from your own emotions can only be digested by yourself, and in severe cases, you may even harm your bodyWhy bother?
Don't put the cart before the horse.