Text: Zhou Peng. Happiness is like an opaque box, and everyone feels differently when they look at it.
Some people think that peace and ease is a blessing, and some people think that success and more wealth can be regarded as a good life.
In fact, for women, a stable career, contentment, and no illness and no disaster are fortunate things in life.
A woman's happiness is not to manage men well, but to manage these three things.
Women, whether you live happily or not actually comes from whether you have a good attitude.
In real life, there are some women who like to control men everywhere, like to have a cold war with him, and sulk.
It's like a distant relative of mine, who has lived with her husband for decades and often has a lot of trouble. At the slightest disappointment, she sulked.
Many times, her husband doesn't know she's angry, he doesn't know what she's angry about.
Later, because she was not feeling well, she went to the hospital for a check-up, only to find out that she had cancer.
According to medical statistics: "Ninety percent of diseases are related to immune system disorders, and there is a very important factor that affects the immune system, that is, emotions. ”
Women who are emotionally unstable are prone to misunderstandings when getting along with others, and their marriage will also be affected.
Women, angry are very easy to get sick.
If you want to live a happy life, you must learn to manage your mentality and maintain emotional stability.
"Attitude is the difference between success and failure, and whether it's good or bad, have a positive attitude and don't let frustration replace enthusiasm," Giggs said. ”Bad mentality, love to lose temper, and will vent negative emotions on others at every turn.
Don't sulk and stay away from people and things that make you unhappy.
Wang Manni in "Thirty Only" also wanted to find a man with a successful career and a handsome and rich man to marry at the beginning. In this way, you can get the good life you want.
However, after being forced to be a "third party" once, I gradually became sober, and I had no sense of security by anyone, so I had to work hard by myself.
Women, only by allowing themselves to have stronger work ability and higher salary can they get the confidence to live a good life.
So she said goodbye to insincere love and walked towards the road of working alone. She strives to manage herself well, and with her own ability, she pursues everything she wants.
Liu Tong said: "In anything, don't pin your hopes on others, whether it's emotion or work, otherwise the only result is to be caught off guard." ”For women, career is an important part of life.
It is a blessing to be pampered, but to be immersed in sweet love all the time and no longer work hard, this state is a crisis in itself.
Women, instead of managing men with their hearts, they should manage their careers with their hearts.
When you have the ability to make money, have a plan for the future, and continue to transform and grow, you will be able to resist more changes and accidents, and your life can develop steadily.
The better you are, the more reluctant the man is to snub you and leave you.
In life, women will always spend their love and energy on others.
In the presence of her children, a woman is a considerate and attentive mother;In front of her parents, a woman is a sensible and considerate daughter;In the presence of her husband, a woman is a virtuous and gentle wife.
Only, women always forget to love themselves and forget to be kind to themselves.
Hobbes said, "For man, it is not the most important wealth that is the most important wealth, but his nutrition and health are everything." ”Women, at any time, should not neglect themselves and do not forget that health is their own.
No matter how much you love your family, set aside some energy to love yourself.
No matter how hard you work in your career, please rest well, eat well, and don't treat yourself badly.
You must know that in this world, only health is the wealth that truly belongs to you.
Take care of your health, because when you are sick, no one will hurt you, no one will feel sorry for you. You have to bear the pain in your body.
Learn to love yourself, take care of yourself, and let yourself live healthily, and you will reap more happiness.
Women, learn to be kind to themselves and learn to manage their own lives.
In the days to come, I am not angry or anxious, and I live a good mood every day. The heart is generous, and it is not worth being angry for anyone.
If you run a good business and have an income, you don't have to reach out to others to ask for money. Live hard, work hard, and make your life more valuable and confident.
No matter whether life is good or bad, don't overuse your energy and physical strength, and be kind to your body.
Only when you are healthy and have a strong body can you pursue a better life.
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About the author: Zhou Peng, an emotional writer, takes dreams as horses and words for a living. Carefully build Zhou Peng's meditation classroom, committed to cultivating the mind, improving cognition, and surpassing oneself. Grow together along the way.