Hi hello wow, this is Xiang Nuan.
I wonder if you have any quirks?
I prefer to buy all kinds of notebooks, pajamas, pillows, ......
Because these are the things that you can't do when you're young.
We have to admit that when a person is missing something at a young age, he will spend his whole life making up for it.
Even though time has passed and his life has changed, his personality, habits, and memories when he was young have always been rooted in the depths of his heart and cannot be erased, becoming a gap that cannot be filled in the second half of his life.
I have always liked to read and write, and when I saw the beautiful notebooks in the store, I always longed for them, and I longed to write down those joys and sorrows in the exquisite hard-shell notebooks, and then cherish them.
But when I was young, I sometimes didn't have enough to eat at school, so how could I have the money to buy those flashy things.
I started living in junior high school, it was the kind of chase shop, there was no toilet in the dormitory, and every time I went to the toilet, I needed to put on my clothes again before I dared to go out, so I especially liked to have a set of pajamas.
It's just that in the era when you can't wear new clothes for the New Year, there are luxury things like pajamas.
In my memory, there are only pillowcases at home, no pillow cores, and the pillowcases are stuffed with seasonal clothes, sweaters in summer and skirts in winter.
It's a shame to spend 1 or 3 hours a day in sleep, but not having a comfortable pillow.
So, notebooks, pajamas, pillows, these things that I couldn't ask for when I was young, became one hole after another in my heart, and when I grew up, I bought and bought, and some of them were even useless at all, but I was reluctant to throw them away, so I just put them there.
If you want to buy osmanthus and carry wine, it is not the same as a teenager.
At the age of 28, it is meaningless to wear the dress that you want at the age of 18.
When you were a child, what did you want most?
Now you, do you have it?
Many people will have the experience that what they asked for when they were young will become regrets in their hearts and will not be forgotten.
For example, if you were suppressed in a certain desire during your childhood, you may become more aggressive when you grow up.
According to statistics, 70 million adults will buy toys for themselves, of which the post-90s account for 57%. If your parents don't let you watch TV in your childhood, you may stay up late watching TV dramas when you grow upIf you don't go out to play during your childhood, you may be away from home every day when you grow up.
Food, drink, play, use, as long as you want to buy will buy, without hesitation. This is because people will always think of the experience of "asking for but not getting" when they were young, and then convince themselves to satisfy their desires.
In fact, this kind of retaliatory compensation in childhood is not because there is a shadow in childhood, but because some seemingly inconspicuous little things leave regrets in my heart.
People can be trapped all their lives because they didn't get something when they were young.
It seems that with a little bit of recovery, we have a more complete version of ourselves.
When we grow up, we will always make up for the regrets of our youth.
Now every day when I pick up my children from school, my husband will generously follow the children in and out of the shop.
Sometimes, he would also buy himself a bag of Tang monk meat and a pot of ginseng dan.
My husband said that he always thought this thing was very expensive and expensive, but he didn't expect it to look so cheap now.
But when he bought it back, he found that he didn't seem to want to eat these anymore, and he wasn't as happy as he imagined!
As one ** said: "This is what I longed to have the most when I was a child, but now that I'm older." I can easily buy what I want, but I'm not happy at all.
The comment below says: Of all the people I lost, I miss myself the most.
What is it that traps you?
Is it the regret of my youth, or is it the unwillingness to recall the past when I grow up?
Perhaps, it will always be you who traps yourself.
The departure of the old represents the entry of the new, and an end point is also a starting point.
Sometimes letting go can be a new beginning!
Time and experience will tell you the answer, and if you are struggling with problems that are difficult to solve now, you may be relieved in the near future!
The things that are young will eventually be trapped in their lives, and the floating scenery of the twilight will eventually wake up in an instant, and they will finally solve the puzzles of a lifetime because of one thing and one thing.
Looking back, the light boat has crossed the Ten Thousand Mountains.