After the age of 60, there will be noticeable changes in life.
First of all, the ability to earn money has deteriorated, and most of them have to rely on a fixed pension every month to live, and some elderly people even need to continue to work, otherwise they will have to eat their old capital and live on savings.
On the other hand, as we age, our health deteriorates, and the cost of medical treatment increases.
Therefore, when people reach old age, in addition to maintaining good health, the most important thing is to keep their pension money.
Having money in hand and good health is the greatest blessing of old age.
If you want to keep the blessings of your old age, you must refuse the following 3 types of people to visit the door.
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Relatives and friends who are poor in heart should refuse
There are two kinds of poor people, the poor who have backbone, and the poor who have no backbone.
The poor who have backbone, borrow and repay, have clear rules, and know how to be grateful.
A spineless poor person only wants to take advantage of others, and he doesn't care about the good of others. This kind of person is commonly known as a person with a poor heart.
People with poor hearts are not necessarily really poor, they just want to take advantage of others anytime and anywhere, and take it for granted, neither will they return it, nor will they be grateful.
In the TV series "It's All Good", the heroine Su Mingyu's uncle is this kind of person.
My uncle has used his sister's subsidy since he was a child, and he takes it for granted that it is natural for his sister and his sister's family to help him.
After her sister passed away, her niece Su Mingyu found out about her uncle's borrowing money. But the uncle not only didn't mention repaying the money, but also threw out a sentence:
When I borrowed the money, I didn't say I would pay it back.
You see, a person with a poor heart is upright when he borrows money, and when he asks him to pay back the money, he looks like a dead pig who is not afraid of boiling water, and he is messing around.
If you have too close a relationship with such a person, it is easy to lose money and hurt your physical and mental health.
Money is the foundation of life in old age, and after the age of 60, you must stay away from people who are poor.
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Strangers who take the initiative to serve are not profitable and cannot afford to be early
Uncle Zhang has been a little annoyed lately.
Because of a few free eggs, he bought back a lot of three-no health products, and now that his daughter found out, Uncle Zhang was criticized for a long time.
The most important thing is that Uncle Zhang's hard-earned pension money was spent more than 30,000 yuan at once.
The reason for the incident is very simple, there is a young man at the door of the supermarket where Uncle Zhang often buys vegetables, and he is giving away free eggs every day. After Uncle Zhang received it once, he was enthusiastically arranged by the young man to listen to the health class, and after listening, Uncle Zhang was **.
And the young man's daily greeting made Uncle Zhang feel very intimate, and unconsciously, he bought a lot of health care products from the young man.
By the time his daughter found out, Uncle Zhang had already spent more than 30,000 yuan.
Similar things are not uncommon in the elderly.
As the saying goes, if you have nothing to do, you will be a traitor or a thief. For enthusiastic strangers who take the initiative to send them to the door, you must be vigilant and don't be confused.
Remember, when you try to take advantage, you may have fallen into the trap.
Relatives who are worried about their possessions should stay away
Since he was hospitalized for an accidental fall, Uncle Zhou found that his youngest son was suddenly more attentive and considerate. He not only took care of him carefully in front of the bed, but after Uncle Zhou was discharged from the hospital, he also took the initiative to take Uncle Zhou to his home for recuperation.
The little daughter-in-law is also very considerate and sensible, and said to Uncle Zhou again and again, my brothers and sisters are all in other places, and we should take care of you.
After living in his youngest son's house for half a year, Uncle Zhou couldn't resist the persuasion of the younger couple and quietly took out the 100,000 yuan pension money in his hand and gave it to the younger couple.
The young couple got the money, and under the pretext that the child needed to accompany him to study, they sent Uncle Zhou back to their hometown directly.
During the Spring Festival, the three brothers and sisters discussed Uncle Zhou's pension, and the younger son and his wife were unwilling to take on the responsibility of providing for the elderly under the pretext that the child was small and the burden was heavy.
At this time, Uncle Zhou realized that he was calculated by his youngest son and his wife.
When people are old, they should think about the management and distribution of property and pension money in advance to avoid unnecessary family conflicts.
For those who are concerned about their possessions, stay away.
When people get older, they will inevitably be afraid of loneliness, so they will rely more on family and interpersonal interactions.
However, family affection and interaction with ulterior motives will damage one's own body and mind and property.
The blessing of the elderly needs money as the foundation, and the people who should be disconnected will be shut out, and the blessings of old age can be guaranteed.