To understand Li Qingzhao s adoption of his daughter, he should be a little more wild than raising

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-01-31

When it comes to ancient poetry, it must be inseparable from this female lyricist - Li Qingzhao. Everyone knows that she is a graceful lyricist, and has written about lovesickness, "only the eyebrows are lowered, but the heart is in the heart";also wrote about the sorrowful "curtain rolls west wind, people are thinner than yellow flowers". But you may not know that she is arrogant, and even her male compatriots have to be ashamed.

Li Qingzhao spoke, not tactful at all.

The "Theory of Words" written by her swept almost all the well-known figures in the literary world at that time.

For example, commenting on Su Shi: Zizhan is very knowledgeable, he just writes words, and the rhythm is not produced;

As for Liu Yong, the rhythm is indeed stronger than Zizhan, but it is too "dusty" and vulgar!

Wang Anshi and Zeng Gong, not to mention, the article is indeed comparable to the Western Han Dynasty, but the words cannot be read at all.

If it's just angry and you don't have anything in your stomach, it's just showy and addictive.

But Li Qingzhao is not, the first poem that has been handed down can be called a classic, and every sentence is a masterpiece.

She not only dared to scare her peers, but also dared to endure the powerful.

In 1127 AD, the Jin soldiers invaded the Central Plains, and the generals defending the city fled without a fight.

There is not a single dirty word in the whole poem, but it scolds all the people in the world who are greedy for life and afraid of death:

"Life is a hero, death is also a ghost. So far, I think of Xiang Yu and refuse to cross Jiangdong. ”Even, in order to divorce the scumbag, Li Qingzhao did not hesitate to go to prison.

The second husband Zhang Ruzhou blatantly seized her property and her ex-husband's collection, and also punched and kicked her, how could Li Qingzhao bear this temper?

Leave, you have to leave!

However, in the Song Dynasty, the wife wanted to divorce her husband, but it was difficult to go to the sky!What to do?

Then kill your relatives with righteousness: a paper pleadings to sue Zhang Ruzhou to the yamen.

The problem came again - the law of the Song Dynasty stipulated that if a wife sued her husband, regardless of whether the husband was guilty or not, the wife would go to prison for 2 years.

But Li Qingzhao would rather go to prison than make compromises.

In the end, Zhang Ruzhou was exiled, and Li Qingzhao was also imprisoned, which is really fierce!

Why can Li Qingzhao be so free and easy?

All this is inseparable from the education of the father, say a small thing, you will have a feeling.

In ancient times, girls had to bow at the age of 15 and tie their hair with hairpins to sign adulthood, and they could no longer go out to play casually, and their behavior was more restrictive.

Li Qingzhao has a lively personality, so he asked his father:

Can you delay the salute until autumn?

If it were an ordinary father, he would have to say:

"It's not like a girl, it's a joke!”

But Li Qingzhao's father was not ordinary, and he agreed.

It was in this free and enlightened family environment that 16-year-old Li Qingzhao wrote that amazing work:

"I often remember the twilight of the Creek Pavilion, and I don't know the way back. Returning to the boat at night, he strayed into the depths of the lotus flower. Fighting, fighting, startling a shoal of gulls and herons. ”

There are many parents who leave messages saying that they are anxious about raising their daughters. If you manage too much, you are afraid that your daughter will not be assertive, and if you manage too little, you are afraid that your daughter will not be safe.

In fact, if you understand Li Qingzhao, you will find that if you raise a daughter, you might as well be "wild", she can be gentle and well-behaved, or she can be heroic.

However, be sure to read more!has poetry and books in her belly, so that she has the ability to break into the world.

That's why I made "Uncle Kai: Poetry is Coming".

Uncle Kai: Poetry is Coming is not just an artifact for learning poetry. It is also a beautiful sound theater, a poetic ****

Children who have sharpened their ears with "Uncle Kai's Poems" since childhood will have an easier time learning musical instruments in the future, and their aesthetic ability will far surpass their peers.

"Uncle Kai: Poetry is Coming" is still a rare composition library for children

Uncle Kai: Poetry is Coming" has hundreds of stories of great poets, involving various dynasties such as the Tang, Song, Yuan, Ming and Qing dynasties.

Among them are Li Bai, Du Fu, Wang Wei, and Bai Juyi of the Tang DynastySu Shi of the Song Dynasty;The crown of the Yuan Dynasty;Yu Qian of the Ming Dynasty;The Nalan character of the Qing Dynasty was ......

They are also "regulars" in the essay questionsChildren can directly use the materials in "Uncle Kai: Poetry is Coming" to give vivid examples.

Everyone has a story to tell, and there are a lot of very moving plotsWhen children write into their compositions, they will be the finishing touches and add color to the essay.

This will also enlighten the child's inner world and plant a seed in the child's heart.

When everyone tells the child "you can't".She can get the energy from the poet's experiences and stories to say "I can."

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