Mr. Yang Jiang said:
"You like strawberries, you won't hesitate to buy it, if you don't like bananas, but considering that bananas help digestion, you'll still buy it. ”When you like someone, you will have an irrepressible urge and will try your best to seek opportunities with the other person.
But when you don't like someone, you hesitate, but then say good things for the other person: it doesn't matter, he must be in a bad mood.
Actually, you're right.
If two people are in a relationship, you have the following feelings, then the relationship should be over.
You don't feel happy.
Fu Seoul once said:
"The most important thing for two people to be together should be happy. ”A good relationship will double the happiness and make the two people better and better.
Two days ago, during the Double 11 carnival, a netizen posted on the Internet that his wife was unpacking the express.
Because there were too many couriers, my wife couldn't dismantle them, so netizens squatted down to help unpack the couriers.
The woman asked: Husband, will I buy too much courier?
Netizen replied: No. Every time I see you happy to open the express, I will be happy too. Because it means that you have a yearning for life and want to live a better life.
That's probably what it means for two people to be together.
Share happiness and make life full and beautiful.
I've read a sentence:
The meaning of two people being together is to encourage and support each other, nourish and grow each other, give each other energy, and work together to fight the world, rather than making you lose your faith in loving life.If you don't feel happy in a relationship, withdraw in time to find your happy self.
You start to suffer from gains and losses.
Feelings that don't get a response are not worth nostalgia.
When you start to suffer from gains and losses, it means that the other person does not have a place for you in their hearts.
When my college roommate fell out of love, he cried in front of me and told me that he had done everything, and he didn't understand why the other party still ignored him.
True, she "did everything".
The boyfriend broke his phone himself, and she used her living expenses to buy him a new one;Her boyfriend came to play with her, and when the two were eating, the girl had to bring the food to the table by herself when she checked outThe two of them went out late to play, and the roommate also went back to school by himself.The roommate's "sensible" did not exchange for the other party's sincerity:
I had time, but I pretended not to see the news;When you encounter something that you are not happy about, you lose your temper at will;Even when I go out to play, I don't bring my girlfriend ......
The roommate began to suffer from gains and losses, fearing losing each other but not knowing how to do it, and was told to break up.
The selfishness of your partner is the root cause of your insecurity.
I once saw such a sentence on the Internet:
"Losing you is another peace of mind for me, otherwise there is always a fear of when I will lose you. ”Let go and let go of someone who is not worthy of love, so that you can feel relieved.
You find that things are getting worse.
There is a kind of love metaphysics that talks about:
If you keep getting entangled with the wrong people, you will become more and more unlucky.When you find that things are getting worse, think about whether you haven't met the right person.
I have a good friend who believes in metaphysics, and she recently told me that her current boyfriend has brought her good luck:
My friend wants to learn to draw but is afraid that she won't be able to learn it herself, but her boyfriend encourages her to try boldly and not be afraid of failureDuring the eleventh period, I planned to go out for a trip, but the work was not yet completed, and the boy said that he would accompany her to finish the work first, and then go to play happily;Before going to work, her boyfriend sent a message telling her to remember to bring an umbrella, it could rain.Because of the support of others, my friend has persevered in learning to paint until now, and his level has improved
Because I completed the task at hand in advance, I fortunately did not delay the progress of the project after the holiday
Because I remember to bring an umbrella, I didn't get very wet that day.
My friend said that when I was with my ex in the past, the other party always belittled and ridiculed him, and said some cool things. Then the two of them will quarrel, and they will either forget this thing or the phone will fall to the ground.
Being with the wrong person will constantly consume your own energy, and nothing will go well.
On the contrary, with people who are comfortable, you will feel refreshed and relaxed every day.
Write to the end. There is a passage in the Montmartre Testament:
"Staying away, not giving up on you, just not being able to accept that you treat me in a way that I don't want to be unsuitable. I don't want to be in a relationship that isn't beautiful at all, it's not in line with my nature at all. ”When you get along with someone who makes you feel uncomfortable, you will feel that everything is not going well, and your state will get worse and worse.
Instead of internal friction, it is better to let go and restart your life.
I believe that in the new chapter of life, you will usher in your own happy moment!For more chasing girl skills and emotional love issues, it is very interesting to pay attention to Brother Yue