People live for a lifetime, meddling in things will suffer, and meddlers in less things will be happy.
Ji Xianlin, a master of Chinese culture, has such a sense of life and tells everyone to be nosy.
When others encounter difficulties, helping is a kind of human affection, and not helping is a kind of human nature. Helping is a kind of affection, and not helping is a duty.
However, between helping and not helping, it is also a contest of wisdom.
It's like it says in "Caigen Tan":
"Fu Mo is blessed with few things, and disaster is not bad with many hearts. ”
Being nosy is actually a kind of wisdom, whether it is for the right person or the wrong person, we must learn to be as nosy as possible.
The right people, in fact, can get out on their own even if they don't care, but for those who are wrong, if they take care of themselves, they are really nosy and cause trouble for themselves.
It's just going to get more and more busy
How does gossip come about?It must have been because of the idlers.
So in the face of idlers, should we help or not?
In fact, sober people, rational people, and mature people will definitely choose not to help and not let themselves be nosy.
Only those who are too enthusiastic, too enthusiastic, but have no opinions, and do not understand any logic, will be fooled and will meddle in things without hesitation.
In the end, there were more and more idle things, and the troubles and troubles that I caused became more and more, and the cutting was messy, which made me quite tired and very painful.
After all, in this world, there are still a lot of idlers, and there are a lot of idle things.
Therefore, the more enthusiastic I am about mesmerizing with other people's affairs, not only does it end up, but I also get myself into trouble.
When people reach adulthood, they should learn to see through the relationship between people, be less nosy, keep the proportion, keep the boundary, and not exceed the rules and not cross the line.
In other people's affairs, there are always other people's ways of living, other people's practices, and even other people's solutions.
Especially in idle matters, the attitude of smart people is always that more is better than less.
Being nosy is a sign of mental maturity
Only immature people, people with naïve and chaotic minds, will want to meddle in things at every turn, to put it bluntly, they are simply joining in the fun.
Truly mature people must be more willing to take care of their spiritual world and their current life.
The things in your own life are enough to toss by yourself, enough to improve yourself, and you have extra energy and time to take care of other people's affairs?
Only by being nosy can you feel comfortable, and your life will not become a chicken or a mess.
Putting oneself in the right position and handling one's relationship with others is on the one hand cherishing and treating one's own life with kindness, and on the other hand, it is also a minimum of respect and understanding for others.
Being nosy is a kind of wisdom, a kind of maturity, and a kind of emotional intelligence.
After all, once the distance between people is too close, it is easy to get into trouble and have grievances.
Eventually, problems arise when you don't have the right balance, or if you think you're strong enough and strong enough to do something self-righteous.
At this time, the problem arises, in fact, it is difficult for the authorities to deal with it rationally and restrainedly.
As a result, each other will only continue to consume, making the relationship between the two parties go to a crack, and making everyone's life irritable, helpless, painful, and tormented.
Learn to focus and improve yourself
Instead of meddling and being consumed by others, or being nosy, consuming oneself internally, it is better to learn to focus and invest in oneself.
Then, quit the habit of paying too much attention to others and don't try to interfere in their lives.
You must know that most of people's pain is that they do not handle their interpersonal relationships well.
Don't take yourself too seriously, especially your relationships with others, and think of yourself as important, especially your relationships with yourself.
Therefore, focus on the improvement and cultivation of your spiritual realm, and then quit the bad habit of meddling.
In this way, we can ensure that everything we do is related to our own growth and our own life.
Only in this way can we steadily improve our quality of life, cultivate our spiritual realm, and finally make ourselves more and more calm, self-satisfied, and self-consistent.
So, quit meddling and make sure to be less nosy, there is nothing wrong with that!