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The text Tian Tian Tu comes from the Internet

I have been married to my husband for 8 years, and because of his parents, I have been wronged. From the moment we met getting married, my mother-in-law didn't like me. In addition, I had a lot of bleeding when I gave birth to my little daughter and could not have children, so my mother-in-law disliked me even more since then.

She always felt that I couldn't give birth to a son for my husband, that is, I cut off the incense of their family. Over the years, although my mother-in-law has tried to divorce my husband and me more than once.

But from the campus to the wedding dress, we have experienced a lot, we have learned a lot, we have spent countless days and nights together, and we have also experienced the ups and downs of life, so my husband can't bear to be separated from me, he doesn't listen to my mother-in-law.

If it weren't for the fact that I loved my husband and treated him as the only one all these years, I wouldn't have allowed my mother-in-law to ride on my head to show off her might.

My husband is the eldest in the family, he has a younger brother and a younger sister. My mother-in-law is very kind to my brother-in-law and sister-in-law, especially my brother-in-law's family. According to my husband, my mother-in-law has doted on his younger brother since he was a child, and even now she still dotes on his younger brother and responds to his needs.

My brother-in-law has been married for five or six years, and he has been living with my mother-in-law all these years. If it weren't for my mother-in-law giving him all her pension, it is estimated that he would not even be able to support his wife and children. My mother-in-law is busy every day, serving my brother-in-law's family, and she can't straighten her waist when she is tired, but despite this, she enjoys it.

When I gave birth to my two daughters, my mother-in-law didn't take care of me for a day. She said, it is difficult to take care of children now, and I will not take care of children, your family has money, and there is no shortage of money, it is better to hire an experienced nanny to take care of it than to take care of it as an old woman. I was really speechless to hear her say that.

In fact, to be honest, she didn't take care of my confinement, and I couldn't ask for it. I have money and my family conditions allow, so I can go to the confinement center to find a confinement lady.

Once she comes, things get complicated, knowing that my husband has always been obedient to his mother's words. Except for divorcing me, no matter what my mother-in-law says, my husband will listen.

When we first got married, my mother-in-law stayed in our house for two months. I bought her clothes and nutritional products, didn't let her do any housework, served her every day, and cooked for her when I came home from work.

But she still can't get used to me, and she has nothing to do all day long, provoking the relationship between me and my husband. She always felt that although I had a good job and a good salary, I was not good-looking and short, and I was not worthy of his son.

During the period when we lived in our house, if my husband hadn't sent her away in time, it is estimated that the two of us would have divorced a long time ago. With the lesson of the last time, even if my mother-in-law does not help me take care of the children over the years, I have never complained.

But despite this, my mother-in-law was still not satisfied, and called my husband twice a day and two days long, asking my husband to take the children back to his hometown to visit them.

In fact, the reason why my parents-in-law let us go back to our hometown was not because they missed us, but because they wanted us to buy things for his grandson. Because every time we go back, my parents-in-law will ask my husband to bring her two grandchildren good food, good drinks, and fun from the city.

Therefore, we have to spend nearly 1,000 yuan on a trip back to our hometown, thanks to our family's good economic conditions, otherwise, we can afford to toss my parents-in-law like this. Every time I didn't agree to go back to my hometown, my husband was not happy, so he had to let me go back too, saying that he was afraid that my parents-in-law would be unhappy.

If it weren't for my husband begging me, I wouldn't have been able to go back. What I can't accept the most is that every time we buy good food, my parents-in-law will sit in the living room and let me and my husband cook.

When will the family arrive for dinner and when will they go home. And every time we go back to our hometown, my sister-in-law will also go back to her parents' house.

Seeing that they were all idle, waiting to eat and drink, I didn't want to cook. But every time my husband told me to give him a face, not to make his parents angry and sad.

He also said that his parents are old, and we should be filial to them as juniors, this is the last time, and I will never be asked to help cook next time, but I will be disappointed every time.

You know, although I cook very well, I rarely cook since I was a pampered child, and even my parents hardly eat the food I cook.

Thinking about it, every time I go back to their house, I have to serve more than a dozen members of their family, and I make a fire, but in order not to let my husband be caught in the middle, I have to agree to him again and again.

One Sunday some time ago, my mother-in-law called us again to go back to our hometown. Originally, I was very tired from working overtime during that time, and I didn't want to go back. But my husband begged me for a long time, and he had to let me go back with him, saying that if I didn't go back with him, my parents-in-law would be angry again, and I had no choice but to agree to him.

This time, as usual, we spent almost 1000 bucks. When I got home, my brother-in-law's family of four, my sister-in-law's family of five, and my parents-in-law were all sitting in the living room, watching TV, playing with mobile phones, and no one went to the kitchen to cook.

My mother-in-law, after seeing us, came directly and said, go wash your hands and cook, we have been waiting for you for a long time. At that time, my husband was also a little unhappy, after all, he was a little annoyed every time.

But something happened during the meal that made my husband very angry, and he decided not to get used to my parents-in-law from now on. My husband and I were busy for two hours, cooking a big table of their favorite meals, and everyone was having a good time eating.

And my daughter and my brother-in-law's son quarreled over a dish. At that time, I fried 7 chicken legs, which was supposed to be good, one for each of the seven children. My daughter didn't have time to eat it, but my brother-in-law's son finished eating, and he had to eat my daughter's, and my daughter didn't give it to him, so he grabbed it.

My daughter got angry and pushed him to the ground, and my mother-in-law slapped my daughter indiscriminately and directly. I was in the kitchen at the time, and my husband had just finished cooking the last dish, and when he came out of the kitchen and saw this scene, he was very angry. When asked why my mother-in-law beat my daughter, my mother-in-law insisted that my daughter beat my brother-in-law's son.

Later, my daughter told my husband about the whole thing, and my husband was very angry when he found out the truth. I've never seen him lose his temper so much and beat up my mother-in-law, who didn't dare to speak up knowing that she was wrong.

On that day, my husband's face was very ugly, you must know that my daughter is her lifeline, no one can touch it, my mother-in-law is more uncomfortable than beating him. He didn't say a word after the whole meal, and after we finished eating, we went home with our two children.

After I went back, I told my husband that there would be no special things in the future, and I would never take the children back to my hometown again. To my surprise, my husband agreed.

And since this incident, my mother-in-law has called us many times to ask us to go back, but my husband has found all kinds of excuses to refuse.

Later, my mother-in-law guessed that my husband did it on purpose. She scolded my husband for being unfilial, saying that my husband listened to me for everything, and forgot his mother after marrying his daughter-in-law. My husband didn't bother to explain to her, ignored her, we haven't been back to our hometown for a long time, and sometimes we can't push it, so my husband goes back alone.

Some time ago, my father-in-law had a birthday, and my mother-in-law called ** to let us go back. There was really no way, so my husband had to take us back. That day, I thought my husband was urging me as usual, telling me to hurry up and buy a lot of things.

To my surprise, my husband only let me buy two boxes of supplements for the elderly and a cake that day, and nothing else.

And we were supposed to pack up early in the morning, but my husband was lying on the sofa and was reluctant to leave, and said to wait, wait. I wondered why he did this, but when I arrived at my mother-in-law's house, I realized my husband's good intentions.

We didn't leave until 11:30 that day, and it was already 12:15 when we arrived at my mother-in-law's house. I thought that we were still so late, that someone should be busy in the kitchen, or at least my mother-in-law should be waiting for us to buy good food.

I glanced at the kitchen and saw nothing and instantly understood why my husband had asked me to leave later. As I imagined, they were still sitting in the living room playing on their phones and chatting as before.

As soon as we got there, everyone was complaining that we were late, and seeing that we only had two boxes of supplements and a cake. My brother-in-law even asked why we only brought so little stuff. My husband said unhurriedly: Didn't you buy things for your parents?

He didn't expect my husband to say that, embarrassed and speechless. At this time, my mother-in-law said: You didn't even buy vegetables, what are we going to eat?

My husband said: Mom, it's Dad's birthday today, since the whole family is here, and no one is buying vegetables to cook, why don't we go out to eat.

My brother-in-law and sister-in-law heard my husband say this, and they said: The food in the restaurant is not clean, it is unhealthy to eat too much, and children like to eat the food you and your sister-in-law cook. Let's not go out to eat, you guys hurry up and go grocery shopping, anyway, the children don't go to school, it's too late, it's okay to eat later.

My husband looked at me and said, "Your sister-in-law is not feeling well today." We'll either go to a restaurant to eat or go back to our respective homes. What do you think, Mom and Dad?

My mother-in-law knew about my husband, and no one could change what he decided, so she said, "Since that's the case, then let's go out to eat." So our family of 15 came to a restaurant in town.

After eating, my brother-in-law and sister-in-law were still the same as before, and no one was willing to go to the checkout. And my parents-in-law didn't want to go, and finally pushed the matter on my husband.

My husband walked to the cashier without hesitation to settle the account, but when he left, my husband told them that this was the last time he checked out, and that my parents-in-law would have a birthday and a family dinner in the future.

After saying these words, all of them stood still and froze, and my husband took me and the child away without hesitation.