It is difficult to guess the minds of men, and there are countless complex and deep secrets in their emotional world.
That's why, after falling in love with someone, you always can't see the other person's mind, because it's hard to understand.
Backstage, a female reader asked me who cares in a man's heart, why he always tastes a stable state of mind when he feels a game similar to love?
In fact, in a man's life, there are three women who care the most, especially the last one.
A man's primary concern is his wife.
In "Thirty Years Old", Xu Wanshan and his wife Gu Jia have been married for 8 years, and their lives are getting better and better.
It's just that the marriage of firewood, rice, oil and salt has broken the beautiful fantasy of the love period between the two, no matter how hard the wife's Gu family's business is, her husband Xu Moshan still has an extramarital lover because of the freshness of love.
The matter couldn't be hidden, and when the truth was revealed, Xu Moshan chose his wife without hesitation, and seriously abandoned the third person who affected his marriage.
Many people say that Xu Huanshan scum hurt two women, in fact, in the minds of many men, fresh love is human nature, but it is very important to look at the wife.
Because marriage is not a love relationship, but a social one, the wife plays a very important role in life, as a partner, a friend, sometimes, a leader in life, a teacher.
In the minds of men, the wife means the stability of the relationship and the integrity of the family, and the wife is the dependent and the backer.
Perhaps, love will become dull, but people will become very important, the ups and downs experienced by two people together will not be forgotten, and the road of marriage that they have walked together will be eternal.
Second, men care most about their daughters.
My friend is a very careless person. If I don't spend much time with him, I don't want to get close to him. I felt ferocious, and if I wasn't paying attention, I might get beaten.
His external performance caused many friends around him to misunderstand, and everyone was used to his carelessness.
Unexpectedly, after he had a daughter, his whole temperament changed greatly, as long as his daughter was there, he would hold it carefully, not daring to speak loudly;When he heard his daughter's voice, the seven-foot-tall man's eyes turned red.
What's even more ridiculous is that he learned from the ancients, when the child was full moon, he buried a jar of wine, said "female red", and said that when his daughter got married in the future, he would dig it out for us to drink;In order not to sting his daughter's delicate **, he didn't like to clean his friends and developed the habit of shaving.
In a man's mind, his daughter is a woman who continues his life, and she is connected to him by blood, and she is the hope of her future life, and this kind of family blood will naturally be highly valued.
The man is most concerned about his mother.
In a man's heart, the mother is a role that no one can replace.
Because, the mother's status is always the most special, not only the woman who gave birth to him, but also the guide on the road of life, and the partner in life.
In life, all kinds of people can come and go, but the mother is by her side unconditionally.
Last year, my friend Xiao Li's mother was about to pass away due to illness. During that time, Xiao Li felt very uncomfortable, as if he had lost his soul.
When his mother left at night, Xiao Li lay beside his mother, burst into tears, saying that he had not been with his mother well, and that he wanted to hug his mother and say goodbye to his mother.
After his mother left, Xiao Li sank for a long time, and finally thought that his mother must not want to see him so depressed, so he mustered up the courage to face life well.