My name is Li Yuxiu, 52 years old, with a pension of 2800.
Three months ago, the autumn wind was bleak and the leaves were scattered.
The sister-in-law was furious, "Sister-in-law, you can't be a shopkeeper!."Mother-in-law is paralyzed in bed, pick it up as soon as possible!Your brother goes to work, I serve the old lady, I'm almost exhausted!”
The corners of my mouth twitched, "Sister-in-law, the eldest sister has been serving for a month, the second sister has been serving for a month, and it is your turn to serve, and you have only taken care ......of it for half a month, so you can't complain about it."”
* On the other side, my brother coughed so anxiously that he said to his sister-in-law, "Please!".Don't shout, okay?I'm a son, and I should take care of my mother!Besides, my mother doesn't want to go to her daughter's house!”
Sister-in-law sprinkled, "I don't care, anyway, I have no obligation to take care of my mother-in-law, if you can't take care of it, let my sister-in-law pick it up as soon as possible, there is such a paralyzed old man at home, and the air is smelly!."”
Ouch hey!Everyone evaluates the reasoning, how can there be a reason in the world that only gets light and doesn't pay?
My parents gave all the property they had accumulated in their lives to my brother, and they built a three-story small building in the village, and also bought a 132-square-meter hardcover house in the city for their eldest grandson.
Parents don't give a penny of property to their daughters, once it comes to the pension of the elderly, the sister-in-law asks several children to share it, and the toss makes several families unpeaceful!
My sister-in-law kept calling me **, she was single-minded and wanted to pack my mom and throw it to the three of us sisters!I wanted to take my mom to my house, but I could only think about it.
It's not that I don't pick up my mom, but there are three reasons:
First, the conditions are not allowed, my house is only 83 square meters, 2 bedrooms and 1 living room, we live with my parents-in-law and mother-in-lawWho will live on the couch?
The second is that my mother has old thoughts, she is stronger than a cow, and no matter how bad her daughter-in-law is, she is also her own person, the old lady roared, "Even if I die at my son's house, I won't live at my daughter's house!"”
The third is that my mother is embarrassed to come, her daughter can't open the pot, she still pretends to be deaf and dumb, she didn't reach out to pull a hand, and all the family property is given to her son, how can she be embarrassed to go to her daughter's house to care for the elderly?
My mother is 85 years old, suffering from hemiplegia, but her brain is very bright, she is in a hurry, there is no way, she can't walk, she is incontinent, she can't take care of herself, and she can't leave people for a moment.
My brother has to go to work in the county No. 2 middle school during the day, and he can only go home at night, and let his sister-in-law take care of him during the day, and my sister-in-law complains and has a lot of trouble with my brother.
I kind of admire my dead sister-in-law!She is Pixiu, she is only willing to enter and refuse to go out in this life, holding on to the savings left by my father, and holding my brother's salary card.
Sigh!Our sister's way back to her parents' house was paved with money, and every time she went back to her parents' house, she spent at least 1,000 yuan. Instead, we want to take a stitch away from our mother's house.
Everything has a cause and an effect, I can't help but secretly complain to my mother, who made your old man's vision so bad that he personally selected this daughter-in-law?
Old sheep froze to death in May – that's a long storyMy hometown is in Lijiazhuang, which is an ordinary small village on the North China Plain, where it is quiet and peaceful.
Most of the people in the village make a living from farming, but fortunately, there are more fields in our village, and every household has more than a dozen acres, and my family has 16 acres of land.
Morningside is desolate, and returns with the moon and lotus. Mom and Dad get up early and return late, barely able to fill their stomachs, relying on farming alone, if you want to be rich and expensive, it is impossible!
I have 4 brothers and sisters, I have two older sisters and an older brother, the elder brother is the third, and I am the fourth.
Back then, my mother gave birth to two daughters in a row, her face was blue, and she was worried all day long, and in the village, if she didn't have a son, she would be poked in the backbone and bullied.
Mom and Dad look forward to it day and night, and look forward to their son every day!
After my mom gave birth to my brother, my dad was ecstatic!crackling, a full 3,000 firecrackers were set off, and they were released from the outside in, indicating that he would marry a daughter-in-law at home in the future.
Parents are not satisfied, feel that a son is too lonely, and want to have another son, "Fight tiger brothers, go into battle father and son soldiers." "It would be nice to have another son!
Mom and Dad thought about it and wanted to make up two "good" words.
Unexpectedly, I gave birth to another girl, and my parents couldn't help but be a little disappointed, I am the third girl of the Li family, and my nickname is "Duoduo," which means redundant.
At this time, all 4 of my brothers and sisters are here, and my brother is a baby egg!Food and clothing are close to my brother, and I, who is a little sister, have to stand aside.
The eldest sister's name is Li Yujuan.
The second sister's name is Li Yumei.
My brother's name is Li Yushu.
My name is Li Yuxiu.
It's not easy for my parents to feed our four children. Fortunately, my dad has a craft, he can build houses, plaster walls, make furniture, and when the farming season comes, he goes out to work to earn some pocket money.
Usually, my parents still beg for a living from the fields, go out early and return late, wear the stars and the moon, sow seeds, weed, water, fertilize, and are so busy that they can't spare time to take care of the children.
The eldest sister followed her parents to farm at a young age, and the second sister did not have a high pot, so she began to be responsible for watching the children, taking my brother and me, feeding pigs and ducks, and cooking on fire.
I stumbled and fell, it doesn't matter, my brother scratched a little oily skin, and my parents were so distressed that they scolded the second sister for splitting her head and covering her face.
That time, the second sister was busy making a fire and cooking, and my brother was more naughty, climbing the ladder to go to the house, and accidentally, he planted an upside-down onion from the ladder, fell down, and knocked his head and bled out.
The second sister was scared silly at that time!Crying and running to find my parents.
My mother ran home in a hurry, saw my brother's face covered with blood, was furious, and scolded the second sister, "You are a dead girl, you can't even look down on your brother, what's the use of asking you?."”
My mother kicked the second sister's heart, and the second sister's little face turned pale and she almost lost her breath!
Since then, the second sister has been very stubborn, she knows that her parents are biased towards my brother, and she can only rely on herself in everything!So, study extra hard.
Later, the second sister was admitted to the bachelor's degree, and then studied for a master's degree and a doctorate, and became a university teacher step by step.
The eldest sister is very sensible, her brain is not very bright, she listens to her parents very much, there is a lack of labor in the family, she dropped out of school early and married to the nearby Luojiatun, and her brother-in-law is also an honest farmer.
Although our parents are biased towards my elder brother, they are not pedantic and are still willing to provide for us to go to school. My dad said, "As long as you want to go to school and sell iron, I will provide for you." ”
In order to make money, my dad joined a construction team, he was smart and capable, and gradually became a contractor, and in this life, my dad earned at least one million family properties.
It's a pity that I'm more playful, like a wild girl, running crazy with boys all day long, the second sister is bitter, and has persuaded me to study hard many times, but I still annoy her and avoid her.
My brother grew up in pampering and followed the rules, but fortunately he didn't grow crooked, but his personality was a little cowardly, when he was a child, he listened to my mother, and after he got married, he listened to my sister-in-law.
My parents have high hopes for my brother, and they want him to go to college, and they want their son to get ahead, glorify his ancestors, and let the ancestral grave smoke.
However, my brother's grades could not catch up with the second sister, and after three years of review, he was admitted to a teacher's college, and after graduation, he was assigned to teach in the county No. 2 middle school.
Men should get married, and women should get married. Everything is ready, only the east wind is owed,My brother is a teacher in the county, and he is also good-looking, just short of a daughter-in-law who is like a flower.
My family's conditions are among the best in the village, and I only have one son, and my brother has a formal job, and the matchmaker has broken the threshold of my family.
Originally, my brother and a female teacher named Liu Shufang had feelings for each other and expressed their intentions, so they almost talked about marriage.
My sister-in-law crossed the bar and snatched my brother away!My sister-in-law's name is Li Erni, and she is a girl from our village, but she has already come out of five suits.
Li Erni has long admired my brother, she knows that my brother is a dutiful son, and she listens to my mother, in addition to embroidering insoles for my brother, she is doing everything possible to slap my mother.
Of course, my brother didn't want her embroidered insoles. Li Erni is not discouraged, even if she doesn't do her own work, she has to run to my family's field to help my mother work.
My family has a lot of land, my mother is tired and dizzy, with the help of such an informed and interesting girl, and a "aunt" in a crisp mouthful, my mother is so happy that she can't find the north.
Li Erni changed her strategy, simply made clothes for my mother, embroidered insoles, was very attentive, and took the melons, fruits, pears and peaches from her own field to my house, and was closer to my mother than to my own mother.
My mom was so touched!It's hard to find such a daughter-in-law with a lantern!
My mother recognized Li Erni as her daughter-in-law and forced my brother to go on a blind date with her, my mother said, "We have a lot of land at home, and someone has to serve us, I think Erni is good." ”
My brother's little arm couldn't twist his thigh, and in the end, he broke up with his beloved girl, and was forced to marry Li Erni.
Li Erni turned into my sister-in-law!
My sister-in-law felt that my father-in-law was a cash cow, and he could always take money from home, so he was a man with his tail between his legs and greeted his father-in-law and mother-in-law with a smile.
My house is only eight miles away from the county seat, my dad has built a three-story building, my parents live on the first floor, my brother and sister-in-law live on the second floor, and our sister and sister go back to their parents' house and live on the third floor.
My sister-in-law gave birth to a big fat grandson to her parents, and her family status is unshakable.
My dad was too old and frail to do anything. My sister-in-law coaxed my father to take out his savings and buy a house for my eldest nephew in the city.
My dad was seriously ill, and when he was dying, he took out 100,000 yuan and left it for my mother to support the elderly. The rest was all given to my brother and sister-in-law, and I didn't give us girls a penny.
I'm ashamed to say that I graduated from high school, didn't get into college, went to work in a cotton mill, and after the factory closed, I became a freelancer, and I did all kinds of work, and I suffered everything.
My husband also works in a factory and is an ordinary worker, with a monthly salary of 4,000 yuan, and there is no big profit. I also gave birth to a son, so that he could go to school, take medicine and see a doctor, and spend money everywhere.
We bought this 83-square-meter house, and it took my grandmother to borrow from all over the world, nibbling on green vegetables and tofu every day, my father gave all the money to his son and grandson, and my mother didn't want to help me with a penny.
It's all tears!The daughter is the guest, and the son is the one who burns paper at the grave a hundred years later.
After my dad died, my mom's status plummeted!
My mother was amazed to find that this daughter-in-law was not a fuel-efficient lamp, and she was no longer greeted with a smile.
Especially after my mother had hemiplegia, my sister-in-law refused to serve for a day, and yelled all day long, asking the girls to take my mother away, which was quite unreasonable.
The eldest sister lives in the countryside and the house is relatively spacious, regardless of my mother's objections, she took my mother away for a month and served her properly, but the eldest sister was not in good health and had severe trigeminal nerve pain.
The second sister happened to have a summer vacation, so she took my mother away for another month, fed me with water and food, and served feces and urine, my mother was comfortable, and the second sister started school, and she couldn't take care of my mother.
My brother took my mom back to his hometown, and it became the situation today. My brother has to go to work, and I can only let my sister-in-law take care of my mother during the day, and my mother either pulls or pees, and my sister-in-law is so annoyed.
As soon as they took care of me for half a month, my sister-in-law called ** and asked me to pick up my mother!
I discussed with my brother, "It's not that I don't pick up my mother, my family really has no place to live, or I'll go back to my parents' house to take care of our mother, right?"”
My brother said apologetically, "I should have been responsible for taking care of our mother, and I am ashamed that you helped me take care of our mother." There is a place at home, come here!”
I carried my usual clothes, a bunch of meat, eggs and milk, and returned to my parents' house.
When my sister-in-law saw something, her eyes lit up and she didn't say anything.
In this way, I helped my sister-in-law cook three meals a day and took care of my mother.
My sister-in-law took care of my mother for half a month, the old lady was full of stench, her eyes were blank, and her face was yellow and thin, how long had she not scrubbed?I wonder if my sister-in-law didn't give my mother food
When my mom saw me, she cried, "Duoduo, you're here." ”
I patted my mom on the back and said, "Mom, don't worry, I'm here and I'm not leaving for a month." ”
In order to make my mother eat and drink well, I changed my tricks to make porridge, wrap my mother's favorite buns and dumplings, and make hand-rolled noodles for my mother.
When my sister-in-law saw it, she said angrily, "My family's white noodles are not blown by the wind, sister-in-law, you can save some use." ”
Under my care, my mother was clean and refreshing, and she could still eat delicious meals every day, and her face was ruddy.
However, after living at my mother's house for a week, my sister-in-law gradually became impatient and looked at me unpleasantly.
One day, I heard my brother and sister-in-law arguing, and my sister-in-law shouted, "It's annoying!".The old lady and sister-in-law, did you come to our house?Why didn't the sister-in-law pick up the old lady?”
My brother lowered his voice and said, "Be quiet, don't you know the situation at my sister's house?"Her house is small, and she has no place to live!”
The sister-in-law raised her eyebrows, "You feel sorry for your sister-in-law, why don't you feel sorry for me?"One more person, eat a few more catties of food, go out and go in, always see her, and look upset. ”
My brother said anxiously, "Our father left all the family business to me, originally, I should have supported the elderly." Didn't you kick my mother out and let me be poked in the back?”
Sister-in-law Sapo said, "You're a dutiful son!."Didn't my father-in-law give birth to you!”
Bang", my sister-in-law seemed to have dropped the basin.
Later, the sister-in-law pointed to Sang and scolded Huai, "How can a girl stay at her mother's house and not leave?"If you want to live, you can pay 1,000 yuan for rent every month, otherwise, get out!”
When my mother heard her daughter-in-law's vicious words, she trembled, "It's all my fault that I was blind and married this black-hearted woman." ”
I'm also so angry that I'm in a dilemma, I'm here to take care of my mother, my mother's family has so many houses, just send me a room?
I gritted my teeth and persisted for a month before my eldest sister picked up my mother.
Three months later, a bolt from the blue!My brother suddenly came with bad news, he was diagnosed with liver cancer, and it was at an advanced stage.
I suspect that after so many years, my brother swallowed his anger and was angry with cancer.
The sister-in-law cried and wiped her tears, "What can I do about this?"”
I was sad and messy in the wind.
If my brother is gone, my sister-in-law has nothing to rely on, and she doesn't have a penny of pension!
However, my mother can only be served by our sisters, and it is impossible for my sister-in-law to serve my mother!
What should I do when it's my turn to serve my mom?
This is the status quo of society, parents give all their property to their sons, and when it is time to provide for the elderly, they have to rely on their daughters to provide for the elderly.