Romain Rolland once wrote that marriage is the union of two hearts, tolerance and compromise.
Yes, in fact, "marriage" refers to two people who are not related by blood, the two of them from acquaintance to acquaintance, and then two people love each other, love each other together, and naturally become the most important person in each other's lives, become the most trusted person in the lives of two people, and rely on the warmest, which is the so-called fate destined.
So you have to believe that in this earth, billions of people, in this vast ocean, your destined destiny will eventually be completed, there will always be someone who likes each other, there will always be someone who makes you want to enter the marriage hall, there will always be someone who wants to accompany this life, to be honest, each of us longs for true love, longs to live a happy life, and is willing to love each other with them, holding hands, growing old together.
However, many empirical examples in real life also tell us that not every love can bloom smoothly, not every couple of lovers can enter the palace of marriage as they wish, and not every marriage can grow old together. The reason why real life is cruel is that it always encounters such obstacles. There will be difficult problems to solve, and these problems and these obstacles will affect the relationship and relationship between the two of you, and the relationship between the two of you will become no longer loving and harmonious, and you will even choose to leave each other and give up your love because of one of the problems.
So, what kind of marriage can be full of love and sweetness forever, and two people can live together forever?In fact, consulting and observing those lovers who can love and sweeten each other forever, two people can get along for a long time in marriage, almost all of them are common, they are harmonious and happy, all couples who can grow old together are inseparable from the following four things, all of which are indispensable!
Leonidova said: The basis of marriage is love, attachment and respect. In fact, the foundation of marriage is love, which is built on the basis of two people's love, no matter how sweet love this pair is in real life, no matter what a happy marriage is, can not separate the true love of two people, only mutual like each other, there is love, is waiting, two people are willing to think of each other's hearts, can't help but care and love each other, willing to take care of and respect each other from the bottom of my heart, will be willing to pay for each other.
If there is no true love in marriage, there is no sincere relationship, the two of you do not love each other, neither of you checks each other, there is no such happy marriage, the relationship with you is not strong, and it may be easy to collapse once you encounter or attract something, because of this reason, so your relationship is very fragile and cannot withstand any wind and rain, and it is easy for both parties to have two hearts and nurture feelings outside of marriage.
Therefore, a loving and harmonious relationship, a happy marriage, the premise is inseparable from each other's love, two people must be truly in love with each other, so that two people can be together for a long time, in order to be together until the end of the day, you must know that not all marriages are based on love, but all happy marriages are inseparable from love. The love of two people can be said to be the foundation of marriage, and it can also be said to be the most basic guarantee of marriage.
Whether it is for couples or lovers, communication is the simplest and most direct way to solve all problems, as the saying goes, there is something to say, enough to prove that "communication" lies in the importance of our interpersonal relationships, only two people can talk together, in order to communicate together, in order to know each other's thoughts. Problems can be solved together.
Especially for couples, communication and communication are the most indispensable things, no matter what should be discussed with each other in advance, no matter what worries and worries can be shared with each other, no matter what there is or nothing, two people should stay together, talk more, talk more, communicate and communicate together. In this way, the relationship between the two people will get better and better, and the love will get deeper and deeper, even if there are occasional conflicts or disputes, I believe that as long as the two of you communicate properly, you will soon be able to recover from each other's relationship.
If the two of you are always reluctant to communicate and communicate, are unwilling to explain and explain to each other no matter what problems or things happen, often avoid each other, or are too lazy to tell each other or let each other know, then it may not be long before major problems arise in your marriage or relationship. If you don't solve it seriously, then the relationship between two people will only get worse and worse, and the relationship will only become more and more strange, you still have to understand that all relationships that can get along for a long time and can have a happy marriage are inseparable from communication.
In real life, it will never be as everyone expects, nor will it be as smooth as you think, there will always be such and such things, and it is inevitable that you will encounter such and such problems, even if you have married and started a family, marriage will always encounter a lot of problems and things that we cannot avoid. Therefore, two people in a marriage should be able to trust each other, and only in this way will the relationship between the two of you not be affected and can always be single-minded.
Just imagine, if there is no trust between husband and wife or husband and wife, two people do not trust each other, they are often always suspicious, always suspicious of each other and other members of the opposite sex, always unable to really trust each other, two people are always arguing because of such things, constantly doubting each other, even if the couple or couple who originally had a good relationship, will tear you to pieces.
So you have to know that those who really love and harmonize each other, those who are truly happy and happy marriages, are actually inseparable from each other's trust, two people can be together for a long time, even a long-lasting marriage, must be inseparable from each other's trust, on the contrary, those couples or couples who do not trust each other will eventually go their separate ways.
Whether it is love or marriage, we do not advocate humble love, do not need to humble yourself a good relationship, of course, do not let your attitude in the "modest" feeling, but this does not mean that the attitude of feelings must be "tough", in fact, whether it is a couple or a couple is very good, the two of you are going to be together for a long time, then we must learn to tolerate each other, learn to tolerate each other, Xi learn not to be gentle in anger, breakup or divorce, give each other a step.
Otherwise, if the two of you are together, no matter what happens, or what fights, there will always be no one who wants to let go, who wants to win or lose, who doesn't want to be soft and lose themselves, who wants to earn, who is not willing to compromise and be humble, then the contradictions between the two of you will only continue to strengthen, the feelings of the two will be more and more affected, and the relationship will only get worse.
After all, a good relationship is inseparable from "tolerance", a good marriage is inseparable from "tolerance", you only have to learn to tolerate, learn to tolerate each other, no matter what contradictions or things you encounter, there is always one party who is willing to tolerate each other, willing to humble each other, and do not let your contradictions or problems become more and more serious, then your feelings will always be reconciled. Your relationship will always be harmonious, so that the marriage can reap true happiness and happiness.
The national teacher Kang Xiao once wrote such a sentence: Marriage is the end of youth and the starting point of a happy life. In order for it to bear good fruit, it is not to be in a hurry, but to be careful and sincere.