Zhang Xiaoxian said: At the right time, meeting the right person is the happiness of a lifetime;Meeting the wrong person at the right time is a heartbreak;It is absurd to meet the wrong person at the wrong time;Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh.
Yes, we all want to meet the right person at the most suitable time, but things are difficult, more or less meet the right person at the most inappropriate time, or meet the wrong person at the most suitable time, and the saddest thing is nothing more than meeting the person you love the most, but it is not good enough. Or not having enough ability and confidence to give them the best life and happiness is the most uncomfortable torment.
True love is like this, once you love, you will unconsciously think about him, you will want him to live well, and you will not even care about your feelings, just for him to live a happy life and get the happiness you want. After all, everyone doesn't want their beloved to be unhappy, they don't want their beloved to be wronged a little, and they don't want their beloved to be hurt in any way, so once you don't have the ability to give your beloved the life he wants, then you may choose to let go and let him find his true happiness.
Even for themselves, when they are separated from their favorite ta, or when they push each other away, they will feel especially sad and hurt, and even their hearts will ache and breathe, and they don't want similar pain to befall them again, so they may want to work hard and work and live very hard every day after that. Become a person who can bring happiness to others.
Especially those who have missed true love, they will probably hide a person in their hearts who can no longer love, no matter how time changes, but this person's position in their hearts has never changed, they will still Xi the habit of missing each other, caring about each other, but will not summon the courage to take the initiative to contact each other. I hope that the other person is doing well, and I hope that the other person is not so good, and I will think of myself from time to time.
Probably most women think that a person who can walk into the heart of a male friend must be a particularly beautiful and attractive girl, but in fact, it is not necessarily, the core of male friends is most concerned about the appearance of a woman, most male friends can not forget in their hearts, is such a girl, has nothing to do with appearance, and finally, can make men fall in love with addiction, usually women these qualities, which have nothing to do with beauty!
"Gift to the Girl Next Door" has two poems like this: easy to ask for priceless treasures, rare lovers. Indeed, in the world of emotions, whether it's a girl or a boy, once you really fall in love with someone and give your heart to that person, you will want to be with him forever, you will want two people to be together for the rest of your life, you will want two people from black hair to white hair, since you have each other, you have never thought of being separated from him. I didn't think about what life would be like without him, I just wanted to be with him and try to manage the relationship between two people, so that the more you love together, the deeper and happier you are.
Maybe the boy has never smoked before meeting a girl, and he has never liked any girl, and he has never known what the girl thinks in his heart, and he doesn't know how to get along with the girl, so the boy often makes the girl unhappy because of this problem, and often does these stupid things in front of the girl. Because this will make the girl feel that the boy is immature and naïve, and if she can't see the future with the boy, it will lead to the girl and the boy breaking up, leading to the separation of the two later.
Just like many young people fall in love at an age when they don't understand love, once they quarrel or something happens, they feel that it is not a big deal to separate two people, and they don't care about the feelings and thoughts of their first love at all. When they grow up and reach the age where they know how to love and cherish, they will begin to regret it in retrospect, and they will also begin to care about the first person they loved, and they will begin to care about their first relationship. In fact, I couldn't accept being separated from each other.
In real life, many boys will have to understand this truth in the future, maybe many years later the boy satisfies their first love, or the girl he once loved, can still be friendly Hello, how to say, even if two people are together, but in the end the relationship does not come to fruition, but the boy also thanks the teaching assistant for having loved, because of true love, so let them grow up, because two people are together, so help them know what love is, understand what love is.
In fact, in addition to the boys who are not sentimental in this world, there are also boys who are affectionate and loving, especially the longer two people are together, the more things two people experience together, the deeper the accumulated feelings, even if two people have to separate for some reason, the two parties will no longer see each other, and there will be no longer any contact. But the other party's appearance is still in his mind.
For example, when two people are in danger, the boy pushes the girl away to protect her. When a boy is sick, the girl takes care of the boy gently and considerately;When the two were poor students, they ate fries together in the air conditioner and so on
There may be some boys who don't want their girlfriends to suffer with themselves, you can tolerate yourself but you can't stand your own women, once you see your own girl, not good, not well-fed, not well-dressed, the heart will feel special self-blame and shame, will take the initiative to break up with the girl, because the boy feels that the girl's youth is precious, and does not want the girl to waste their precious youth, in order not to let the girl lose anything, for the girl to plan for the future, for the girl, even if the boy's heart hurts, he will choose to let go。
Leibniz once said that no two leaves in the world are exactly the same.
Yes, not exactly two leaves in the world, in other words, every leaf in the world is unique and different, but not all leaves will be cherished, in fact, we are all the same, everyone is different and unique, but not everyone can walk into a person's heart.
There may be some girls in the life of a boy who come in a hurry, go in a hurry, forever cherish the boy, the girl gives the boy the same feeling, that is, the feeling that the girl brings to the boy, other girls can do, that is, they will not give the boy a "special" feeling, so in the eyes of the boy such a girl is not special, will not feel worth it at all, and then the girl likes who is the same, and the girl is the same, in any case, not a girl.
Therefore, girls who can be remembered and forgotten by boys forever must be very special to boys, unique, different, and bring different feelings to boys. Even though boys and girls have been separated for so long, boys still miss girls terribly. No one has ever given a boy this feeling except for girls.
The saddest thing in love is "love but can't", because falling in love with an impossible person, there is no doubt that his heart is very painful and sad, and there is no way to be with the person he likes, this regret can't be made up, people are like this, the more you can't get something, the more you want to get, even if it already belongs to someone else. I will be particularly reluctant, maybe the boy also wants to love the girl forever, and also wants to be with the girl, and also wants to accompany the girl, but before the boy takes the step of confession, for some reason, the two people break up or miss, and there is no way to go to the end together, there will indeed be regrets in the heart.
Even if this person's appearance is not so outstanding, even if this person himself has no talent, even if this person is not so gentle, but at least he is the person he really loved, the person with his eyes full, and the person he never forgets, although the two did not go to the end together. But being able to look at each other's happiness from afar makes you feel happy and happy, even if you don't know when you'll be able to forget about each other.
All in all, although in real life, when a boy meets a good-looking girl, he will look at it twice, and he will think that a woman is beautiful, but a boy will never think that a girl is good-looking, their feelings for a woman are vivid and real, and they want to spend their lives with each other, so they have always been obsessed with girls.
You must know that boys are more rational creatures, know what kind of girls are worth paying for themselves, what kind of girls are not worth paying for themselves, know what kind of girls are worthy of their own love, what kind of girls are not worth loving themselves, know what kind of girls they really like, and what kind of girls they don't like.
As long as the boy really loves this girl, is sincere to this girl, and is very serious about this girl, then this girl will always live in the boy's heart, occupy an important place in the boy's heart, is unique, but no one can replace it, it can never be forgotten, and it will always be unforgettable.