Compared with young women, middle-aged women's demands for men are often more clear. If you are not the man she is interested in, it will not be easy to enter her life.
Therefore, when pursuing a middle-aged woman, don't think about boiling a frog in warm water, and want to use long-term companionship as your most affectionate confession, which is meaningless.
Unless, at the beginning, you just regarded her as a good friend, but in the process of getting along later, you slowly and couldn't help falling in love with her. If you were already attracted to her from the beginning, but she ignored you, then you still died of this heart!
When a woman is young, she may choose to let you live in her heart because of Xi and because she is moved. But middle-aged women, basically, don't do that. So how do you judge whether you have a drama in front of a middle-aged woman?
Generally speaking, middle-aged women are waiting for you to "bubble", the most obvious signal: three reluctance.
1.Willing to spend time on youIn the definition of a man, pursuing a woman must require a man to spend money and time to please her, which is naturally not wrong.
A middle-aged woman faces a man, she has the same opinion, if she doesn't like you, or just treats you as the most ordinary friend, then even if she will accept your proximity, she will definitely not pay anything to you.
Therefore, a middle-aged woman waiting for you to soak in the most obvious signal is that she is willing to spend time for you, accompany you to do certain things alone, or be willing to spend money on you, including investing in you.
On the other hand, a middle-aged woman, whether it is money or time, she is reluctant to give it to you, so she just treats you as an ordinary friend, and it is a friend who has no personal relationship between men and women.
2.I'm willing to let you take advantage of her
The vast majority of middle-aged women cherish their reputation and body. Especially for those men she is not interested in, she will definitely not wronged herself and let them take advantage of her. When you are young, you may lose face or your own negligence, and let a man rub oil.
Middle-aged women, absolutely not. She knows very well what kind of ghost thoughts those men who take the initiative to approach her have in their hearts.
Therefore, a middle-aged woman waiting for you to soak, the most obvious signal is that she is willing to let you take advantage of her body, and even she will take the initiative to create opportunities and conditions to guide you to do so.
On the other hand, a middle-aged woman will always keep her distance from you, even if you touch her limbs once in a while, there will never be a next time, she will be very clear to keep enough physical space with you, that is, just treat you as a friend.
3.Willing to be gossiped about by others
When a woman reaches middle age, her appeal to men and love is often bold and at the same time, it is also very clear.
In her heart, if you are just an ordinary friend, whether it is to take care of her own reputation or to take care of your reputation, when others talk to her about things, she will definitely stand up and explain it as soon as possible.
even, mercilessly refute those who spread rumors.
Generally speaking, a middle-aged woman waiting for you to soak, the most obvious signal is that she is willing to be gossiped about by others, especially if she gossips with you, not only does she not object, but enjoys it and does not mind at all.
It's not that she's really generous, but in her heart, it's really like this, and she wants to consider what kind of attitude you have in this way.