It is said that "ten years of cultivation can be crossed in the same boat, and a hundred years of cultivation can be slept together", a man and a woman can become husband and wife, it is really the favor of God, and it is the blessing of the previous generation. Therefore, we should cherish it specially.
The relationship between husband and wife, it is the most important relationship in life, which needs to be managed and maintained by both parties. Although the relationship between husband and wife is very close, basically you have me, I have you, and they are one, but after all, they are still two different individuals, and there are still differences. Therefore, there are some things that should not be done, and these things that are done can damage the relationship between the couple and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, there are these three don'ts, and once you do it, you will lose. It doesn't matter if it's a husband or a wife.
1. Don't blame and complain about each other
Life is not only about flowers before and under the moon, but also firewood, rice, oil and salt, and trivialities. Therefore, it is inevitable that there will be problems and conflicts between husband and wife in daily life, but the key to solving the problem is not to blame and complain to each other. Blaming and complaining will only make the relationship between husband and wife more strained and worse, but it will not solve the problem. The right thing to do is that both parties should sit down, communicate calmly, listen to each other's opinions and ideas, try to understand each other's needs and expectations, and work together to find a solution to the problem.
Therefore, not blaming and complaining about each other is the best way for husband and wife to get along. The husband and wife, only by working together, working together, and the two of them with one heart, can the family be happier and more satisfying.
2. Don't hide your true feelings
In life, there are many couples who, due to some reasons, hide some things and some feelings, for fear that the other party will know. But there will always be a time when things are revealed, and when the things you have hidden for a long time are known to the other party, the consequences will definitely be a family life. Therefore, couples should be honest with each other and not hide their true feelings. If you are dissatisfied or unhappy about something, you should communicate with the other person in time to let the other person understand your thoughts and feelings. If you keep hiding your true feelings, it will only make the relationship between husband and wife more alienated and distrustful. Accelerate the breakdown of the relationship and tear the family apart.
Therefore, for the happiness of the family, you must not hide your true feelings from each other, and boldly say your feelings to make the family more harmonious.
3. Disrespecting the other person's personal space
In life, everyone has their own personal space and privacy, which everyone must respect. Even as a couple, they should respect each other's personal space and privacy.
Everyone has their own interests and lifestyles, and if the other person wants some personal space and time to deal with their own affairs, they should be given enough respect and support. Don't interfere too much with each other's lives and privacy, as this will only make the relationship between the couple more tense and unpleasant.
Of course, if you engage in something bad in the name of personal privacy, then it's a different matter.
In short, no matter how close the relationship between husband and wife is, they should avoid blaming and complaining to each other, hiding their true feelings, and disrespecting each other's personal space and privacy. These three things can ruin the relationship between couples and lead to the breakdown of the relationship. On the contrary, husbands and wives should communicate calmly, be honest with each other, respect and support each other, and work together to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.