When dealing with extramarital affairs, the original partner needs to understand a truth, you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, but you can wake him up!
The more painful it is, the more it can sober up a man who is addicted to extramarital affairs.
Why do cheating men use such routines.
One is that they feel humble, which makes it easier for wives to lower their guard and obtain forgiveness.
The man, who is usually very serious and does not have a very good attitude towards his wife, suddenly lowered his posture, knelt in front of his wife, and cried and read the guarantee written by his own hand.
What would the wives think of such a scene.
Rational and sober people will know that cheating men are crocodile tears, and everything they do is purposeful, but there are too few wives who can encounter cheating and be sane and sober.
Especially the cheating man was very strong in his marriage before.
Wives have always been at a disadvantage, and cheating men are suddenly humbled.
Then it will lower the wives' guard, and they will feel that the man really admits his mistake.
Wives feel that the cheating man sincerely admits his mistakes, and the marriage also relies more on the cheating man, so the probability of choosing to forgive is very high.
Cheating men can calculate, will routines the original wife, the basis is enough to know their wives, know what posture, wives are more acceptable.
I also know what to say and do, which can lower the guardiveness of wives.
So everything that a cheating man does, he may be prepared.
Wives easily forgive cheating men, and they will naturally be tricked by cheating men.
Unless you can see the cheating man clearly, it will be difficult to continue to guard against the cheating man.
Another reason is that they believe that their wives are soft-hearted, so they take advantage of their soft-heartedness.
A cheating man feels that his wives have feelings for him and will have distressed emotions.
Although many wives don't want to admit it, this is the reality, most wives still have feelings for cheating men.
It's not even just about having feelings, it can be a deeper love.
The cheating man cries, kneels and kneels to ensure that it has an effect, and the wives eat this set, and the cheating man will do this.
Blue Fang has also encountered it before, and the original partner is crying on his knees and begging for forgiveness because of the cheating man.
The original partner directly used the separation plan set by the blue party and chose to forgive the cheating man.
The original partner said that she couldn't look at the man she loved deeply, knelt in front of her and said that she loved her, said that she would treat her well in the future, and she would not waver at all, and continued to "embarras" the cheating man according to the separation plan.
said that he didn't want to punish the cheating man, and he didn't want the cheating man to have a long memory, and felt that the cheating man had been taught a lesson.
As a result, as soon as the original partner forgiven, the cheating man turned around and continued to cheat with the mistress.
So what cheating man will treat the original partner well, love the original partner, and know that it is wrong?
It's all fake, the cheating man just knows the original partner too well, and if he does this, the original partner will feel distressed, and he will feel that the cheating man will sincerely admit his mistake and will be willing to forgive easily, so he will be deceived.
Many times, the blue side will not persuade the original team to do anything, because if you don't hit the south wall, you won't look back.
If you don't hit your head on the south wall of the cheating man, you will not be sober.
There is also the factor of using the people around you to put pressure on your wife.
The cheating man is not squatting on his wife alone, crying, kneeling and guaranteeing, it may be in front of the cheating man's parents.
That's the cheating man who made the mistake, he should cry, he should kneel, and he should give his wife a guarantee.
But he really did this in front of his parents, and it was also a kind of coercion on his wife.
Even if the wives have no love for the cheating man, they will not forgive the cheating man directly because he does this.
But what about the parents of cheating men?
They will think, "Although my son has cheated in a moment, he has done it to this extent, what do you want?".”
After all, in the eyes of the older generation, men don't flick when they have tears, men have ** under their knees, cheating men cry and kneel, and their posture is low to the dust.
No matter what the cheating man thinks, the parents are distressed and feel that their son has been wronged.
It is possible to force the original wife to forgive, so the cheating man is also putting pressure on others by doing so.
How should your wife respond, Lan Fang's advice to you, wife, you also kneel and you cry.
You have to behave worse than the cheating man, more humble, you put the cheating man's parents up.
You have to find an occasion with relatives and friends and do things that cheating men put pressure on you.
You have to let the parents of the cheating man know how uncomfortable you were when the cheating man did this.
Do you know" Minglan once said a sentence:
If the board is not hit on yourself, you don't know that it hurts, as long as you don't die your own family, you can be generous to others.
If you really talk about yourself, you will have no forgiveness and no mercy, isn't it funny?
This is the best way for wives to deal with the parents of cheating men is to pull them on them, so that they can't be generous to others.
In fact, in the final analysis, once a man does this, he is taking advantage of his wife.
Take advantage of the wife's softness, take advantage of the wife's feelings for the cheating man, and even use the parents to defend their own minds to persecute the wives.
The cheating man completely ignores his feelings, constantly calculates his wife, and hurts his wife.
If wives still have expectations, they will continue to get hurt if they continue to talk about feelings with cheating men.
Writer Yang Jiang once said: "You have the upbringing of not hurting others, but you don't have the aura of not being hurt."
If there is no one to protect you, please be kind and have a little edge to protect yourself. ”
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