Recently, the controversy between "Hanzang Forest" and "Aqin" has once again become a hot topic. The incident has risen from an issue of influencer competition to a moral level. It is reported that "Ah Qin" and her ex-boyfriend Liu Yang have been together for five years, and this relationship has allowed them to improve their careers and lives. Although they do not have a marriage certificate, they are already husband and wife in their eyes. Ah Qin even bought the wedding hall and waited for Liu Yang's marriage proposal. But soon after, Liu Yang cheated and found another female Internet celebrity "Kong Lin". After learning about this, Ah Qin resolutely decided to end the relationship, and said, "I'd rather lose a thousand to myself than a single one." I'm going to make the other side pay 800 times the damage. However, after more than half a year of silence, the lost Hanzo reappeared and openly accepted the support of large companies. As the woman who knows him best, why was he able to come back?This raises questions about the bottom line of modern people
This incident has attracted widespread attention and discussion on the Internet. As a big Internet celebrity, Ah Qin is worth tens of millions, rich and beautiful, but he still has to face the trouble of his boyfriend's cheating. This is even more unthinkable for ordinary women. But the difference is that Ah Qin has the confidence and determination to stay away from bad relationships. However, in real life, many people lose the courage to leave, especially in marriage. Although the number of divorces is increasing every year, so are those who choose to endure it. This may be incomprehensible to a lot of singles. They know that their partner is cheating, but they choose to turn a blind eye and continue to be with them. Doesn't that make you feel unpleasant?However, only those who have been through marriage know that it takes more courage to choose patience than to divorce. You have to face the people who hurt you and think about those hurts again and again, and you can never trust anyone again. How painful it is!So, what exactly is a woman enduring when she puts up with her partner's extramarital affair?
First of all, she may still have a nostalgia for her significant other and is reluctant to let go. Anyone who has been in a relationship knows how difficult it can be to end a relationship. Even if you decide to forget about this person at one point, you will be sad and sad the next day. So there are always a lot of divisions and combinations in the relationship. This is especially true in marriage, where the emotional foundation of several years is coupled with ties such as family and interests. Whether it's crying or being nice to a man, a woman will do everything she can to keep him. After all, they still miss their partner and hope that he will return to the family.
Second, women are reluctant to let another woman take away everything they have lost. A woman will always be with you, even if she loses all her things, her youth and beauty are gone. Eventually, they may not be able to achieve a complete family. No woman wants to do that. So, as much as they are sad about their husband's extramarital affairs, they are unwilling to give up the efforts they have put in over the years to simply benefit a third party. Even if they are hurt, hard working, or hurt, they don't give up and stand their ground. This may be the last stubbornness of women.
Finally, profit is also one of the factors that bind women to continue to endure. Some people continue to endure it out of love or reluctantly, but there are also those who choose not to divorce and not just for financial gain. Just like Liu Qiangdong's decision in the trial, people across the country are watching the jokes between the couple. However, Sister Milk Tea made a decision that confused everyone: she did not divorce and did not support Liu Qiangdong. In fact, given their status as husband and wife, divorce is no longer entirely up to them. Too many common interests affect the organization as a whole, so they can only maintain this business marriage. In the adult world, nothing is "easy". Everyone is just putting up with their own lives. Especially for years of marital infidelity, you know you should end it, but you're not willing to let go for some reason. However, in marriage, a woman does not have to be weak. Nothing cannot be changed. If you really want to be with the other person, change it and be brave enough to protect your marriage. But if you're holding on just for revenge or because you can't breathe, there's no need. The past is gone, and the future still has a long way to go. Don't waste your life on someone who doesn't deserve it. Only by leaving the wrong person can you meet the right person. The right person may be waiting for you.
This event has brought some food for thought to society. We need to focus on the moral bottom line and the stability of family relationships. Patience and tolerance may have become the norm in modern society, but we also need to pay more attention to our own well-being. Whether in marriage or love, we need to have the courage to choose to leave those who are not worthy of it and find our own happiness and true other half. Don't let your own happiness be subject to betrayal and hurt by others.
This incident has sparked a discussion in society about the moral bottom line of influencers, as well as thinking about marriage and partner loyalty. The reasons why women choose to endure when facing their partner's infidelity include attachment to their partner, reluctance to let another woman take everything away, and a series of constraints. Society needs to encourage people to have the courage to leave their unfaithful partners and pursue their own happiness. In marriage and love, we should pay more attention to the stability of morality and family relationships, so as not to let our happiness be subject to the betrayal and harm of others. Finally, in this event, we also need to reflect on the moral concepts and value system of modern society to make our society healthier and more harmonious.